Hi,
Hope you’re doing ok.
I want to talk to you today about a concept called looking for the ledge.
The ledge is a small thing that you use as a stepping stone towards something else.
With bipolar disorder, it would be a small thing that you use as a stepping stone toward your progress.
I got the concept from when I was hiking one day (I like to hike – it helps me keep my stress levels lower, and one of the things I do for exercise).
Anyway, I was thinking about if you were rock climbing and you were going up a mountain, you would need a ledge to climb up the mountain.
The ledge wouldn’t be huge, but it would be small, because it would have to get you from one level to the next.
It’s the same with bipolar disorder.
You or your loved one’s ledge has to be a small step to success that you can build on to an even greater success in order to be effective.
Here’s what I mean.
Your loved one goes into therapy.
They can’t expect to go to one session and be “cured” overnight. But each session is a ledge to the next session, so they go to regular sessions, to build on their success.
And you can go to your own therapy and do it the same way (not to be “cured,” of course, but to learn skills how to deal with your loved one’s bipolar disorder and your own life problems).
In my courses/systems, I do talk about supporters going into therapy for themselves as part of taking care of themselves, because if you don’t take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of your loved one?
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Ok, so back to the ledge.
You have to build on the ledge to get bigger successes.
And bigger successes lead to more progress with bipolar disorder.
Another example is exercise. Both for you and your loved one.
You don’t start an exercise program of walking by walking 10 miles a day the first day.
You might start by walking maybe a mile, or even ½ a mile.
Then you would, ledge by ledge (small success by small success), build up to your 10 mile goal.
Another example is medication, and this is an important one.
There is no one magic pill that will give your loved one instant stability.
Usually, several medications have to be tried and tweaked, with different dosages, until the right ones, in different combinations, are found to be right for YOUR loved one (everyone is different).
So it’s not an instant success.
You have to go ledge by ledge, success by success, until you have success – until you reach stability.
And let’s talk about YOU –
You didn’t become the supporter that you are overnight, did you?
It took some trial and error, a little bit of ledge climbing, didn’t it?
But by ledge climbing, one success at a time, you grew into the successful supporter that you are today.
So do you see what I’m getting at with this ledge concept?
Success doesn’t come overnight with bipolar disorder.
Whether you have the disorder or you’re a supporter of a loved one with the disorder, you still have to apply the ledge concept to reach success.
What do you think?
Do you agree with the ledge concept?
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