Hi,
How’s it going?
Hey, a bunch of people are calling and asking me about a particular person who seems to be attacking me on my bipolar blog.
I don’t think the person is attacking me just stating his position. I completely disagree with his position but I believe in free speech.
Anyway thanks for looking out for me if you are worried.
The thing is, everyone doesn’t have to agree with me and I highly encourage you to take what I say and think about it. Talk about it. Don’t just agree all the time.
When I say stuff, I have thought about it long and hard myself.
Anyway, just wanted to let you know.
I want to tell you a funny story about a friend of mine. He is on a dating site because he is looking for someone to date (obviously).
So anyway, he is telling me that there are no qualified people in his area.
I was like, “That’s impossible.”
He was like, “Yea, it’s true.”
I said, “So tell me what happened?”
Like many people, he said, “Well, that girl was crazy. This girl was mean. That one texted too many messages to me, etc.”
NOTE- It’s so funny how a guy that can’t find a girl to date will say that all women are “crazy.” I often ask them, “Have you considered that the problem could be you?” Anyway, that’s a good way to make people mad so I avoid that these days.
So anyway, he said to me, “You should look at my choices. If I put 10 miles from my zip code there’s nothing.”
I was like, “10 miles?”
He was like, “Yea, I wanted to go 5 but I thought that was too small of a radius.”
I was like, “How about 100 miles then?”
Then my friend goes into a tirade about how that’s too far, he has to work, he doesn’t have time, blah blah blah.
I said, “How about not being lazy and stretching if you are serious.”
Then I said, “You remind me of the people on my list or in my family that would say I can’t find a doctor where we live. There are NONE. You just don’t understand Dave.”
I would find out they wanted a doctor like about 5 minutes from their house.
I once said to my of my family members, “Maybe we can find a doctor in mom’s house somewhere if we look hard enough?” (I don’t know why I said that but it was funny to me.)
You need to take it serious when you’re looking for a doctor for your loved one. That’s one of the most important things I talk about in my courses/systems:
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Whether you are looking for a boy/girlfriend or a doctor, you are probably going to have to stretch — expand where you are willing to go.
Why?
Because it’s important, and you need to leave yourself options. You don’t want to have only one option and be stuck with that.
Can you imagine my friend having to be stuck with the first girlfriend he got matched up with just because he only left himself the radius of 5 miles? That would just be silly.
Or my mom picking a doctor only because he lived down the street and not because he was a good doctor?
What if he turned out to be a bad doctor, but she was stuck with him just because she limited her options?
Sometimes you just have to stretch a little bit, leave yourself more options, to get what you need.
It’s just plain the smart thing to do, don’t you think?
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