Hi,
How’s it going?
I hate when people assume things, especially when they’re about me, don’t you?
Like when people just assume that just because my mother has bipolar disorder that I have it too.
Has that ever happened to you?
If it has, then you know what I mean.
Not much fun, is it?
Well, if you assume things when it comes to bipolar disorder, it not only is not fun, but it can even be dangerous as well.
For example, you can’t just assume that you know everything about the disorder, even if your
loved one has been diagnosed for a long time. Actually, especially if your loved one was diagnosed awhile ago.
Because knowledge about bipolar disorder changes all the time.
There has been new research and new studies done on the disorder, and there are new ones coming out all the time. You can’t just assume your knowledge is still accurate.
So you need to keep learning about bipolar.
That’s one of the main points I make in my courses/systems – that knowledge is power, and that the more knowledge you have about bipolar disorder, the more power you will have over it. In other words, the better you and your loved one will be able to manage it.
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You can’t assume that your loved one’s bipolar won’t change, either, because it might.
Sometimes someone might be diagnosed with one type of bipolar disorder, but then after awhile, their disorder changes, and they are diagnosed with a different type of the disorder. It does happen to some people, so watch out that you don’t assume and fall into this trap.
Don’t assume that your loved one’s medications will never change, because they might.
They may need a dosage change, or there may come a time when one of their medications needs to be changed altogether.
Don’t assume that your loved one’s doctor, psychiatrist, and/or therapist will never change, either, because they might, too.
Things can happen, like:
• Moving away
• Starting own practice
• Changing practices
• Leaving practice
• Insurance will no longer cover
• No longer see bipolar clients
• Retiring
• Getting pregnant
• Going back to school
• Personal reasons
• Etc.
You can’t assume that what works for your loved one to keep them stable today will work tomorrow, either.
These things change, as well, and you need to adapt to these changes.
And don’t ever assume that your loved one will never go into another episode.
No matter how long they’ve been stable, it is dangerous to think like this.
Because then you let down your guard.
Because then you start to take things for granted, like your loved one’s stability.
Because then you stop planning for what to do in case they do go into an episode.
And all of this can be dangerous for both of you.
Can you see now why I think that assuming can lead to so many problems?
Has assuming something ever become a problem for you?
What happened?
David Oliver is the author of the shocking guide “Bipolar Disorder—The REAL Silent Killer.” Click Here to get FREE Information sent via email on how and why bipolar disorder kills.