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Anyway, I have to get ready to do some cardio outside and then head over to my parents house later on after I do some work. YES, I have to work on Thanksgiving. I have a lot of great projects I am working on that you are going to like.
Okay, I was talking to a woman the other day who was telling me she had just been in a bipolar episode.
I told her, “I’m sorry to hear that.”
She said, “Don’t be sorry. With every episode I have, I learn, and I prevent the same thing from happening the next time, and it gets easier to handle episodes.”
I thought, what a great attitude!
And then I thought about the truth in what she said – About how she learned from each episode.
Think back to when you were a kid… You had to crawl before you could learn to walk, right?
And you couldn’t learn to read before you learned your ABC’s.
Now think back to when you were a little older and got a little popular, but you had to do it by making one friend at a time, didn’t you?
And in high school, you didn’t get your diploma overnight, did you?
Each lesson built on the one before it.
Each grade built on the grade before that.
Then later you got married (if you are).
You didn’t instantly know how to be a good husband or wife.
You had learned it from all the relationships you had before you got married.
You learned what to do and what not to do.
Now think of your life lessons…
Your choices and decisions…
Your mistakes and failures…
And how each success, each accomplishment, everything you’ve gotten, was based on all of that.
If you’d never failed, you wouldn’t have learned how to succeed.
If you hadn’t made bad choices, you wouldn’t learned how to make good ones.
Now think of what that woman said to me the other day about her episodes, and how she learned from them.
In my courses/systems, when I talk about episodes, I tell you that you have to take responsibility for what happens during those episodes.
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That’s exactly what this woman was saying.
She not only took responsibility, but she used the experience as an opportunity to learn and to grow.
To turn failure into success.
To turn bad choices into good ones.
To not make the same mistakes again.
“To prevent the same thing from happening the next time,” is the way she put it.
And she had a positive attitude about the whole experience, that’s what I admire the most.
We can all learn a lot from the things this woman said.
I’m not saying that going through episodes (or life) is easy.
But if each time you learn something from them, like she said, “it gets easier to handle episodes.”
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