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Hi,

Here is the current Bipolar Disorder news.

Make sure you take a look at the news. It takes
a lot of time to put the news together so
please read it.

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(NOTE-It ends tonight)

Oh another thing. Many people have asked
me when I will be sending out the huge
guide that I created on all the different
mental illnesses. I actually have my mom
reviewing it and another person to catch any
typos. As soon as I have it, I will email it
out to everyone and there is NO cost.
It’s about 204 pages. I think you’ll love it

Okay on to the bipolar news.

To see the news visit:

http://www.bipolarcentral.com/bipolarnews355

There’s some really interesting news stories this week.
Take a look at them. Also, write me some feedback by
visiting my
blog below.

Here are some of the headlines:

Bipolar Disorder: Handling the Holidays
DO> Great article and must read.

New Mothers Can Face Daunting Mental Challenges
DO> Interesting if you are a parent or want to be one.

Mental illness and addiction ‘link’
DO> Even though this is old news, it’s a good article

A survivor’s tale inspires others to offer words
DO> Very interesting must read story.

Documentary shows challenges of bipolar disorder
DO> Hmm. I don’t know about this documentary. What
do you think?

For these stories and more, please visit:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/bipolarnews355

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Your Friend,

Dave

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Hi,

How’s it going?

Hope you are doing well.

I have something really, really
important to tell you about
my mom today and it’s an important
bipolar warning/lesson for you.

Hey before we get started today
on our topic related to bipolar disorder,
I wanted to say a few things.

First, thank you for all the applications
that were sent in for the customer service
job. Heather (who is in charge of my
customer service now) and I are hiring
someone to help out. There were many
good applications. It’s going to be a tough
decision. BUT since we are growing if you
don’t get hired this time, we always circle
back to second and third runners up when
we need them.

If people could see the kind of great people
with bipolar disorder that apply to my positions
they would be amazed. Don’t think that people
with bipolar disorder just have lives in shambles.
They do NOT.

I have a whole lot of people who work with me
that have bipolar disorder and they do GREAT!

Okay, the other thing I wanted to say was this.
For those of you in the Bipolar Inner Circle,
we have a new incredible program that is going to be
starting. Check your newsletter for the details.
Also I will be emailing it out. It’s going to be
incredible.

Okay, I had one more thing I was going to
tell you but I forgot 🙂 I thought of it
in the middle of the night last night but
I guess I should have written it down. I
will remember later.

Okay let’s get going. Here’s what happen
yesterday. I got an email from my mom
saying that my uncle and her brother is in
the hospital for congestive heart failure.

My first thought was, “I can’t believe it,
he’s in such good shape??” He is in really good
shape. Perfect weight. Eats well, etc. I just
was amazed that he had this. My dad had the same
thing but my dad is way over weight and doesn’t
eat well. It’s just odd how these things work.
It’s kind of annoying/not fair that someone could be in
good shape who does everything right can still
get congestive heart failure.

Anyway, I then was worried because of the following.
It’s December, Bipolar episodes generally happen in
December with my mom and now there is a possible
“trigger” or “negative event.” What is it? Her
brother being in the hospital.

I want to teach you today how I think about all of
this and the thoughts/plans that go through my
mind to get ahead of the bipolar disorder.

Here is the sequence of thoughts:

-Is my mom sleeping? (need to check)

-Is my mom’s doctor aware of the situation?

-Is my mom’s therapist aware of the situation?

-Where are my mom’s doctor and therapist going to
be during the holiday season?

-Who are the backups to them?

-Is my dad monitoring my mom?

-Does my mom realize it’s December and that her episodes
generally start in December

-I need to do a little investigation without offending my mom

-Based on history, my mom handles crises very well but
afterwards the bipolar episodes generally start

-I think it takes around 30 days to do whatever treatment
for congestive heart failure is required. This would put
us in January, with less sunlight, more cold, increased
chance for depression.

Need to check in with her with regularity to see how
she is doing.

Yesterday I had to drive over to my mom and dad’s house
as a coincidence.

It was good because I could see how she was doing. I could
look for the historical signs of a bipolar episode.

If you don’t know what I am talking about, this is all
explained in my courses/systems below:

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So I look around yesterday and talk with
my mom. But I don’t see the signs. BUT, I am
still going to be vigilant. My dad wasn’t
there and today I am going to call him and
say, “Dad, based on Sanderson being in the hospital,
what are your thoughts on mom?”

Then I will see what he says. I stopped telling
my dad the answers and how to think because that
was making him too dependent on me. I’ll let
you know what he says.

Now, as you read what I wrote today, do
you see how you have to think about this? Some
people might think that I am either “obsessive”,
“controlling”, “paranoid”, “negative” or “right
on.” These will be the responses I get today.

I can tell you this, I tried not being concerned
when these types of things happen and it created
huge problems.

Right now my mom has a incredible system that
is designed to withstand these types of events.
In the old days, there was no system and that’s
how bipolar disorder got the best of our family
every single time.

It (bipolar) hopes you don’t have a system
so it can beat you. You might think that sounds
“crazy” because bipolar is not an entity. BUT,
I believe, when you think of it as someone
that’s trying to create problems for you, it’s
much easier to deal with it. It works for me
and many other people.

Well I have to run and will catch you tomorrow.
Oh, tomorrow is Friday so the bipolar news is
going to be sent out. So I will update you on
Saturday.

Have a great day.

Your Friend,

Dave

P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
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P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
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P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

Hi,

If you have debt from bipolar disorder,
you should take a look at a program that
I have.

Visit this site.

http://www.bipolarcentral.com/debtsale

I spent a whole lot of time putting
this program together and it works
great.

Take a look when you can.

Dave

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Hi,

How’s it going?

Hey first I wanted to say, I have
a new Podcast you can listen to
for free. It’s about credit cards
and bipolar disorder.

Have a listen here:
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

We have been talking a lot about money.

There’s a problem that affects a
lot of people with bipolar disorder
and their loved ones. So, I’m just
warning you:

DON’T FALL VICTIM TO A
HIGH LIFESTYLE!

Once they become stable and
high functioning, many people
with bipolar disorder wind up
being really successful. They make
lots of money (while those who are
not as high functioning may still be
battling financial troubles, which I
go over extensively in my courses:

But if they do become successful,
which I teach in my courses that they
definitely can be, some of these
people start going to the extreme –
which I do NOT teach them to do!

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The extreme is what I was talking
about before – about buying lots of
unnecessary things and living a high
lifestyle.

Then they have to cut back on
whatever they did to make all the
money, because the stress puts them
back into a bipolar episode, and the
cycle just continues on and on.

IS IT WORTH IT?

Sustaining this high lifestyle is too
much, and not worth it. You should
cut back and downsize to a more
simple life. De-stressing alone would
be worth what you have to do to
achieve it.

Take a look at all your stuff and see
what you really need (as opposed to
what you really want). Do you really
need 300 stations on your TV? Do
you need 3 cars? Do you need to eat
out 8 times a month? Do you need to
buy all those expensive clothes?

I know this married couple, where
both of them have bipolar disorder,
and they both live on disability. They
used to have high paying jobs, along
with the pressure that came along with
that, and they had all the trappings of
it as well – the house, the car, the
clothes, etc.

But both of them could not keep up
that lifestyle, and their high tower fell
down. They were both living month
to month on just their disability, until
I met them, and now one of them works
for me. But the point is, they have
continued to live a very simple lifestyle.

AND THEY ARE HAPPIER THEN
THEY WERE BEFORE!

It’s basically very simple. If you
continue to live a high lifestyle, you
will continue to have the high stress
that that lifestyle brings into your life.
And if you have bipolar disorder, that
can cause you to have episodes.

IS IT WORTH IT?

It’s your choice. You can give up
the stress, and you can live a simpler
lifestyle. You can still be successful
without all the materialistic trappings.
And you’ll be much happier for it.

I have a friend that’s made like $400,000
a year for several years. He has like $50,000
in savings and that number is going DOWN
each month. Imagine that?

You know what’s “Crazy” so to speak. I have
seen time and time again people choose between
treatment and medication and “cool” and “luxury”
items.

Hey, I just looked at the clock. I have an interview
to do. Mega bipolar success story and drug/alcohol
addiction.

Catch you tomorrow. Have a great day!

Your friend,

Dave
–
P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/catalog.asp

P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/supporterblog/

P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

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Hi,

How’s it going?

It’s snowing again where I live. It’s going
to be really hard to get around this morning.

So I am going to have to take off rather
early and make this quick.

Yesterday I got several really angry emails
from some people with bipolar disorder.
Why were they mad? Well they said that
I basically unfairly say people with
bipolar disorder can’t handle money
well.

I never said that at all. What I have
said is that when people go into
bipolar episodes, they can spend money
they normally would never ever spend.

For some reason, there are many supporters
and people with bipolar disorder that don’t believe
this.

I don’t know why? I have heard so many stories
about how bipolar has wrecked someone’s finances.

I lost a ton of money from bipolar disorder
over the years.

I personally know people who have lost $50,000,
$100,000, $250,000, and more than
$500,000.

I remember this one guy calling me about 2
years ago. He was in California. He was on
my list and wanted to get my how to marry
someone with bipolar disorder course.

We talked for a while. He told me that he was
a millionaire (he wasn’t arrogant it just
came up in conversation) from real estate
and that he had worked really hard to
make something of himself. I was really
happy for him.

He was marrying someone with bipolar
disorder. He said she was doing
great but he just wanted to get my information
just to read up on bipolar disorder before
he got married.

I warned him. I said, make sure you
put systems in place to protect your money.
I actually then asked him to grab a pen
and that I was going to give him a mini
seminar and that this would save him
a lot of money in the future.

He said, “no thanks, she is great with
money. She never overspends.” He laughed
and said, “actually, I overspend and maybe
I should protect myself from myself.”

He thought it was funny. I urged him
that this was serious and to heed my warning
and to setup the systems. I told him the
worst that would happen is that he would
have systems in place that don’t cost anything
and nothing would happen. He would have only
spent some time setting them up and that’s
it.

He kept saying no. I could tell that I think
he felt that if he setup the systems he would
not be trusting his wife. I think he thought
that setting up the systems would mean he
didn’t believe his wife’s bipolar disorder
we okay.

I then let it go. I was thinking in my head,
“Geeze this guy is in trouble.”

Anyway about 7 months went by. I got a call
from another lady that lived in Texas. She had
told me that her son had “run through” more
than $350,000 and she was dead broke.

I didn’t even have to ask how it happen. Probably
the same way it happen with my mom. It just happens.
Anyway, I didn’t want to rub salt in the woman’s
wounds. She wanted to start a business to
make money to make up for all that had been lost.
I gave her a number of ideas.

Okay then a month later after this woman called,
I got a call from the real estate guy. He called
and sounded terrible. He was really sad. I kind
of forgot who he was because I talk to so many
people. He told me he was filing bankruptcy and
his wife had ruined his c.redit, and gone
through over $1 million of his money. She had
also taken out loans in his name. It was a total
mess.

His wife had gone into a “super episode” he said
and that he felt stupid because he didn’t listen
to me. He was yelling at himself. I calmed him
down and told him that he was young, like my
age and that he could bounce back. I spent a lot
of time giving him a plan.

I had his number and would call to check in. He
was really depressed all the time and I tried
to make him feel better. One day his phone
was turned off and never turned back on again.
I have no idea what happen to him. It was really
sad.

I could go on and on. But I am sure you get
the idea.

Here’s the thing. Bipolar disorder is a mood
disorder. It affects the way a person thinks and
feels. If a person goes into an episode, he/she
can do stuff they normally would not do. One
thing they can do is spend money. It takes a life
time to build a savings but it only take a day to
spend it all. It’s kind of amazing.

This is what can happen with bipolar disorder.

This is what I HIGHLY recommend setting
up systems to protect your money.

All my courses below:

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have these systems in them. I teach it from
a to z. I think I am the only person that does.

When I talk about money and bipolar disorder,
people think I am “out of my mind.” I have
had people call me and said, “why do you have
a cd called money and bipolar disorder, is
that a mistake?”

If you don’t have systems in place, you need to
set them up right away. Don’t wait until
it’s too late.

And, if nothing ever happens, nothing is
lost. Meaning, if you setup the systems,
your loved one never goes into an episode
forever, nothing is lost. You just have
your money protected. But you need
to do something. TODAY. Don’t wait.

I would really appreciate if people post
some stories of what can happen. People
with bipolar disorder who are newly diagnosed
and new bipolar supporters many times don’t
believe this kind of thing is possible until
it happens.

If you have a story, post it below.

I have to run and get ready. Catch you tomorrow.

Your Friend,

Dave

P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/catalog.asp

P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/supporterblog/

P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

==>>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==
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Hi,

How are you?

I hope you are doing well.

I have a very important bipolar lesson
to tell you about today.

It all started yesterday. Let me tell
you the story.

I have so many friends that are overweight.
It’s a gigantic problem in the USA. I actually
think it’s way bigger than mental illness.

Think about it. Look around. There are so
many people overweight it’s amazing.

Anyway, I have this friend that I was
talking to yesterday. This person gained
a ton of weight. A ton. Like 80
pounds. It’s amazing. Very strange.
This is NOT because of a medical condition
in case you are wondering.

She was complaining to me telling
me how she was really, really annoyed
that she started her weight loss program
and hadn’t lost any weight.

She asked me for advice.

I actually have a system for losing
weight. I lost over 60 pounds and
have done so for 9 years. I haven’t
gained it back.

Very few people can do this. Am I special?
NO. I had a system. I invented it. I did
the same thing that I did when my mom
was in a bipolar episode. I went around and did a ton
of research to figure out how to lose
weight and keep it off.

Anyway, this isn’t about weight loss,
it’s about bipolar disorder.

I asked her when she started the weight
loss program. She said, “two weeks ago.”

I then asked questions like:

How much did you weigh 10 years ago?

How much did you weigh 5 years ago?

How much did you weigh 1 year ago?

What do you eat?

Why do you think you gained so much weigh?

How much exercise did you do in the last year on
a weekly basis?

How much water do you drink?

What kind of nutritional supplements do you take?

And a bunch of other questions like this.

Then after she answered I said,

“Do you swear you told the whole truth
nothing but the truth so help you God?”

She laughed. I said, “well did you?” She
put her hand up and said “YES.” I say
this because, you know people lie with
answers 🙂

Anyway it was so obvious to me what the
problem was and it totally relates to
bipolar disorder.

Here’s the deal. She actually started her
new weight loss program 10 days ago not
two weeks. She lost 3 pounds. It took
her 5 years to gain 80 pounds. In the
last year, she eat terribly, took no
supplements, didn’t exercise and basically
did everything wrong. She had really bad
habits.

She also believed that she should lose
the weight in a few months. She said, “two
would be good.”

BIPOLAR LESSON COMING UP

The first thing that I told her
is that success with losing weight start
with your mindset and understanding
one concept.

You didn’t put it on in a few days and
you will NOT and I repeat will NOT take
it off in a few days or few months.

Lose 80 pounds in two months when it took
you five years to put it on? How does that
compute?

She lost 3 pounds in 10 days and was “disappointed.”

I hear the same thing will bipolar disorder.
A person have a disaster of a life. Lost
friends. No job. Tons of de.bt, etc.
He/she has been self medicating. Hasn’t seen
a doctor regularly. Hasn’t seen a therapist
at all. Has been doing this for 5 to 10 years.

Finally older age hits. He/she turns like 40
and is disgusted. Wants to turn things around.

He/she comes to me: “Hey I want to go
to the doctor now and fix all this stuff.
I swear I will follow what the doctor says.”

The person gets on medication in two weeks,
they talk to me all mad. The medications make them
feel bad. They have bill collectors. Their family
won’t return their calls. They can’t find a
good job. It’s not fair they tell me.

There mad as heck for me telling them
he/she can do well.

I explain to the person. It took years to
create a disaster of a life and it’s going to
take time, probably not years, but a fair amount of
time to fix it all. I tell the person to hang in
there.

I coach them.

This is a true story. Actually the other day.
And it’s happen to me over and over and over
again.

Some people get it. Some don’t and stop
trying out of frustration.

Let’s look at my mom, I can say by January
she would have effectively erased 95% of
the problems she created in her life from
bipolar disorder in about 3 years.

You might be thinking “OH MY! That’s a long
time.” Well, here’s the deal. She became somewhat
stable in 3 months, totally stable in like 9
months. Was working again in 12 months. She
is going to make her last payment for her d.ebt
in January and that would be about 3 years.

BUT think about it, she has been doing the wrong
stuff for like 20 years. So it took her 3 years to
fix 20+ years of bipolar problems. Kind of logical right?

What wouldn’t be logical is it taking 2 weeks
to fix 20 years of problems, right?

You can short cut things for sure by getting
resources. Learning from others. Getting things
like my courses/systems below:

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I am not giving you a sales pitch but it’s obviously
true and logical. If you get information from someone
who has been there and done that so to speak, you
will short cut your learning curve. It’s just
common sense.

BUT no matter what, even if you get my material
and have a person one on one mentor, it’s going to
take time to turn things around. Will it take 5 to 20
years? If you are a good student, and can follow along,
no.

The bottom line is, don’t have unrealistic expectations.
We are actually heading into weight loss “season” so
to speak and that’s when everyone starts thinking about
diets, losing weight and being thin for the new year.
This why I brought this up.

Anyway, I have to take off. Catch you tomorrow.

Have a great day.

Your Friend,

Dave

P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/catalog.asp

P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/supporterblog/

P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

==>>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==
Check out all my resources, programs and information
for all aspects of bipolar disorder by visiting:
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Hi,

How’s it going? It’s really, really,
really cold in New Jersey.

It’s snowing here so I am stuck
inside. We have six inches of snow
already.

Hey before I get started. Did
you get this new guide I am giving
away?

“The 10 Deadly Mistakes People Make Helping and
Supporting Someone With Bipolar Disorder.”

You can get your copy right away by visiting:

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It’s really good if I do say so myself.
I worked really hard on it. It even has a cool
cover on it. Take a look at soon as you can.

Okay let’s get moving.

I actually had something really
important that I wanted to warn
bipolar supporters about.

It all started when I was speaking
with a coaching client.

They were telling me that they
were “really annoyed” that their
loved one messed up their treatment
plan.

This person had been on my list for
a long time. They had used my systems
to turn things around with bipolar
disorder.

Things were going great. The person
I was speaking with said he was
“excited about a great thanksgiving,
Christmas and New Year.”

Then his wife went into a mini
episode and then kind of a bigger
bipolar episode.

The person I was coaching said
he was super mad. He said basically
he took my bipolar stability concept
and figured out what his wife did wrong.

I was actually happy that he used
my concept and figured it out and
didn’t feel that stability was like
a lottery (how my dad still kind
of thinks).

Anyway basically his wife missed a few
therapy sessions, a doctor’s visit, a
couple of dosages of medications. She
just got off track.

Now she is doing everything right.
BUT, there some damage that was done. She
said some stuff she didn’t mean to say
and spent like a $150 she shouldn’t
of.

They actually had a my financial protection
system that I speak about in my courses/systems
below:

SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
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Visit:
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HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http://www.survivebipolar.net

So that the financial damage was limited.

This person was super mad however. Actually
beyond mad. Just plain angry.

In my head, I was like “what’s the big
deal?” The coaching client went on to say
that he was “sick and tired” of “bipolar
episodes” and that his wife “better not
do this again.”

I sat back and listened. Then I spoke
up and said, “there are going to be
ups and there are going to be downs. She
learned a great lesson. Don’t condemn her
because she made a mistake. Look on the
bright side. She is doing everything right
again, there was not that much damage
and you can get beyond this. It could
have been way worse. Like 1000 times
worse.”

I then said to him, “You have to be tolerant
of mistakes. You can’t expect her to be
perfect and another episode to never, ever
occur. That’s not fair.”

He didn’t say anything and then I thought,
“I think he is mad at me.” Then he spoke
up and said that “you’re right, I was
too hard on her. I am going to call her
and say sorry.”

I said that’s a good idea. We then
talked about how to put the systems in
place I talk about in my courses/system
to tighten up to try to prevent this from
happening again. BUT if it does happen,
he promised not to “freak out.”

I wanted to send this message because
I wanted to remind all bipolar supporters
that managing bipolar disorder is not easy
and there are ups and downs. You have
to cut the person with bipolar disorder
a little slack.

Don’t expect no mistakes. Don’t expect
you’ll get my courses/systems, read my
stuff, and put systems in place and
everything will be perfect forever.

That’s not going to happen.

Be realistic.

Make sense? If you ever “freaked out”
on your loved one because they made a mistake,
say sorry to them today. Okay?

Okay, I have to move to a different subject
before I finish up.

I promised that I would send out what I learned
from my last bipolar support group that
I volunteered at.

I must say that the speaker that spoke had
bipolar disorder. It was hard to follow him.
I was kind of concerned he might be in an episode.

The only thing that I came away with was being
reminded that people with bipolar disorder have
to have insight into the illness and when they
feel something wrong, make sure they contact
the doctor.

It was odd that this speaker said this because
he seemed to not have insight into himself. I don’t
know. I won’t say any more because I don’t know
him. He just seemed off. Who knows?

I did totally disagree with one thing that
he suggested which is you can go a long time
without seeing a doctor if you feel you are doing
okay. He hadn’t seen a doctor in years but
said he was stable.

I just don’t agree. I am NOT a doctor, therapist,
or giving medical advice but I just think
you have to check in with your doctor with regularity.

It’s like the dentist. I HATE going to the dentist.
I HATE it. I hate the stuff they put in your mouth.
I hate those metal tools. I hate sitting in the chair.
I hate how long it takes. I hate them poking my
mouth but I do it 3 times a year.

I have zero cavities. Why? Checkups and cleanings
I think.

I think the doctor is the same. If you don’t
go with regularity, the doctor will forget about
you, things could go wrong, etc. I just think
it’s a bad idea.

Well that’s it. You kind of go two in
one today. Sorry I didn’t send the support
group info out yesterday. I forgot. I was
doing such much stuff.

Okay I have to run. Catch you tomorrow.
Hey if you living on the east coast by Jersey
it might be a snow day. We’ll see.

Catcha later.

Your Friend,

Dave

P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/catalog.asp

P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/supporterblog/

P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

==>>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==
Check out all my resources, programs and information
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http://www.bipolarcentral.com/catalog.asp

Hi,

Hope you’re doing great!

I’ve been thinking about something I want
to talk to you about. Cause you know how
I get so many calls and emails about certain
subjects, right? And a lot of times that’s
where I get my topics for my daily emails.

So that’s where I got the topic for today’s
email.

So many people have talked to me about
messing something up with their treatment
plan. Then they don’t know what to do,
so many of them just keep messing up,
like staying off their medications, which,
I’ll tell you right now is NOT the right
thing to do!

Or they stop seeing their therapist, and
again, that is NOT the right thing to do,
or they start skipping appointments with
their other medical professionals, and
again – NOT the right thing to do.

Hold on time to say…

NOTE-
I am NOT a doctor, therapist, lawyer,
insurance agent, hedge trimmer (someone
asked me this a month ago), or
other kind of professional. I am NOT
offering medical or legal advice.

Okay, we’re back.

There are so many parts that make up a
treatment plan, and I’m not going to go
into ALL the different parts, because I
go into them extensively in my courses
and systems:

SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/report11

SUPPORTING A CHILD/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http://www.bipolarparenting.com

HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http://www.survivebipolar.net

But I do want to talk about what
happens when you do start to mess
up some of the parts of your treatment
plan, and what you should do.

It’s easy, like I just did above, to talk
about what you shouldn’t do! So
that part is easy. And in most cases,
just do the opposite of that.

So for instance, what should you do
If you’ve messed up with your
medication? You need to start taking
it again, but here’s the problem. You
can’t just start where you were, because
depending on how long you were off it,
you may need to build back up to that.
So in that case, you need to go back to
your psychiatrist and have him help
you get back to where you were.

YOU MUST WORK WITH YOUR DOCTOR.

You have to be 100% honest with him/her.

If you’ve messed up with your therapist,
just make a new appointment, and start
going regularly. If he/she accepts you
back as a patient, then all is forgiven.
If he/she rejects you, you will just have
to start over with another therapist.

And that’s ok, you can do that. Don’t
let that get you down. Just start over
with the system I taught you in my
course, how to find a good doctor or
therapist. You can do it – you did it
the first time!

Just don’t let any more time lapse
before finding another therapist,
because you really do need to be in
therapy.

But now let’s say you’ve begun
isolating again. Here’s where it
gets tricky. People with bipolar
disorder are very good at isolating.
It’s one of the top indicators for
having bipolar disorder and one of
the top triggers for a bipolar episode.

Supporters who have loved ones with
Bipolar disorder watch for this trigger
in their loved one. But if the person
with bipolar disorder has let this slip,
has started isolating again, then they
are in a dangerous place – they have
obviously let part of their treatment
plan get out of control.

Now they have two choices when
confronted with this by their supporter:
they can close down, shut out the world,
get all depressed, climb into bed, pull
the covers over their head, feel sorry
for themselves, cry, and go into a
depressive episode…

OR…they can accept that even tho
they let a PART of their treatment
plan get out of control, that the
WHOLE treatment plan is still
working, and they can still fix it!

If they are lucky enough to have a
Supporter who is still sticking by
them thru this, then they can both
work on the problem together.

First you identify what went wrong.
Then you can fix it. It doesn’t have
to be something all dramatic and
such. It can be something as small
as just not sleeping right.

But once it’s identified, you can
work on it. And it doesn’t have to
be so overwhelming that it drives
your loved one to their bed – it only
has to be faced One Day at a Time.

Just today. Only today. Work on
your treatment plan the best that you
can only one day at a time. Just do the
best that you can. That’s all anybody
is expecting you to do. Nobody is
expecting you to be perfect. And they
are certainly not expecting you to be
perfect overnight!

Hey I have to go. Catch you later.

Your friend,

Dave
–
P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/catalog.asp

P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/supporterblog/

P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

PLEASE TELL YOUR FRIENDS

Hi,

Here is the current Bipolar Disorder news.

Also, don’t forget about the 7 secrets
of living with bipolar disorder sale.
Take a look at that here:
http://www.survivebipolar.net/bipolarsecretssale/

Okay on to the news.

Make sure you take a look at the news. I really work
hard to put it together for you :).

To see the news visit:

http://www.bipolarcentral.com/bipolarnews354

There’s some really interesting news stories this week.
Take a look at them. Also, write me some feedback by visiting my
blog below.

Here are some of the headlines:

Kids With Bipolar Disorder More Aware Of Facial Expressions
DO> Very interesting article.

Hear stories of success over depression
DO> This is great. I love success stories. Finally some
good news 🙂

Bipolar Disorder: Some bipolar patients have higher suicide risk
DO> So true. Make sure you read this IMMEDIATELY.

For these stories and more, please visit:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/bipolarnews354

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Your Friend,

Dave

Hi,

A few people know that I have a new guide
out that reveals The 7 Secrets To Living
With Bipolar Disorder for 2008.

I have a special sale for you if you haven’t
gotten it yet. But I am only going to have
this going until Friday night (November 30,
2007)

If you are remotely interested, please take
a look at this page that describes everything.

http://www.survivebipolar.net/bipolarsecretssale/

If you have bipolar disorder and aren’t where
you want to be in your life, take a look
at this material. I think you’ll love it.
I’ve showed it to many people and they
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Have a great day!

Dave