Hi,

I wanted to drop and email to you about something that came up.

The other day I sent out a notice about my new resource titled:

“How to deal with your loved one’s lying,
manipulation and bipolar disorder.”

Located at:

http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/specialoffer/dealwithlying/

People have written me asking why I am saying that all people with bipolar disorder lie. I am NOT and I repeat I am NOT saying that.

I am not.

What I am saying is that when a person is going through a bipolar episode he/she can start lying and manipulating.

To say this true means either you are lying yourself or just not informed. This is the sad truth and I find it one of the most difficult things to deal with when it comes to bipolar disorder.

One of the biggest questions I hear asked is, “How do I deal with my loved one’s lying?”

Most supporters just don’t know what to do. Neither do therapists, psychiatrists, doctors, and many other experts. I have been to many support groups and heard experts say, “There’s really nothing you can do except try to do the

best you can.” THIS IS TOTALLY NOT TRUE.

If you have a loved one with bipolar disorder who is lying constantly and manipulating then I have great news for you.

I have a new resource you have to check out.

Take a look if you need it.

http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/specialoffer/dealwithlying/

I actually have to take off and head to my Goddaughter’s birthday part. She is turning two years old.

Talk to you tomorrow.

Dave

=>PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <= Hi, I hope you're having a good day. Have you noticed how many Rent-to-Own places there are these days? It seems like there's practically one on every corner! Ok, here's how it works. It's sort of like layaway, except that it ends up that you pay a whole lot more money! Say you want a big screen TV. Well, who can afford one right now? Times are really tough financially for everyone right now. So they offer you one at a really good deal. They offer you one at a really good price. No money down, even! And they let you pay it in INSTALLMENTS. So it sounds like a good deal, because you don't have to pay for the TV all at once, which you can't afford to do. So you agree on how much you're going to pay each week (or sometimes each month in some places), and you pay for the TV on the installment plan. Well, there's a bipolar installment plan, too. You don't get to have stability right up front. Just like you don't have all the cash up front to buy that big screen TV all at one time, you don't have the resources to get stable all at one time, either. So you reach stability in installments. The first installment you make is that you listen to your doctor and psychiatrist and do what they say to do, which is to go on medication. The next installment you make is that you take that medication, faithfully, every day, every time you're supposed to take it. In my courses/systems, I stress the need for taking medication in order to get stable with bipolar disorder. Without medication, there is no hope for stability, that's how important it is. NEW LEARN THE SECRETS OF THE MOST SUCCESSFUL WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER? http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/bipolarmastersystem/

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The next installment is to get a therapist, and
to see them regularly.

The next installments are that you get the right
amount of good sleep, exercise, and eat a healthy diet.

The next installment is that you take care of
yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and
spiritually.

The other installments have to be made, but not
necessarily in any particular order. These could be:

• Build a strong support system
• Help your support system help you
• Join a church (or other spiritual place)
• Go to a bipolar support group
• Be productive
• Start a hobby
• Communicate with your supporter
• Don’t neglect your supporter
• Help your supporter help you
• Watch out for triggers
• Watch for signs and symptoms
• Stay close to family
• Stay in touch with extended family
• Have friends and a social life
• (maybe) work a part-time job
• (maybe) start a home business
• Volunteer
• Help others
• Do things you enjoy
• Keep stress to a minimum
• Don’t forget to relax
• Be independent (as much as you can)
• Keep learning about bipolar disorder
• Educate others about bipolar
• Self-manage your disorder
• Etc.
There are several other ways to make
“installments” toward management of
your bipolar disorder.

Any installment you make toward your
bipolar disorder will lead toward greater
stability.

And the more stable you are, the less
episodes you will have, and the more
time you will have to spend having a
good, productive, successful, happy life.

What about you or your loved one?

Are you (or they) on the bipolar installment
plan?

Talk to you later.

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Your Friend,

Dave

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=>PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <= Hi, How's it going today? Hey I am going hiking this morning so I have to go really quick, okay? Anyway, I heard the saddest story about bipolar disorder the other day. This girl had bipolar disorder, and she went off her medication. She was stable on her medication, and was even going to see her therapist and psychiatrist regularly. She was ok for awhile, but then she started to get unstable, and then went into an episode. Then she committed suicide. The thing is, it's not that I'm immune to hearing stories like this – I'm not, I still feel sad every time I hear one – it's just that I hear so many of these stories, and I'm not surprised, because I know that 1 in 5 people who go off their medications are probably going to kill themselves. But anyway, about this girl. When they talked to her friends and family, and asked them why she killed herself, they said that she had been telling them that she was feeling very overwhelmed by everything lately. So that made me start thinking about something I want to talk to you about today. Feeling overwhelmed. Whether you have bipolar disorder or not, you can still feel overwhelmed sometimes. But there are things you can do about it. I know this may sound corny or over-used, but take things One Day at a Time. That's one of the things I talk about in my courses/systems as part of managing bipolar disorder. You take things as they come – you don't dwell on the past, and you don't worry about the future. You just deal with today. NEW LEARN THE SECRETS OF THE MOST SUCCESSFUL WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER? http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/bipolarmastersystem/

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Many people can’t handle more than just
this one day (many people choose not to). Some
people can’t even handle that, and have to do it
one hour at a time (or one moment at a time).
And that’s ok, too. You can build from there.

With bipolar disorder, I call it:

One Bipolar Step at a Time

I got the idea from this movie I watched
once with Bill Murray in it called “What
About Bob?” where Richard Dreyfuss
played this psychiatrist who was treating
Bill Murray for these really big fears about
everything.

I mean, this guy was afraid to get out of
the elevator and walk into his office!
He was so overwhelmed by everything.

So the whole idea of the movie was this
concept called “Baby Steps.” He taught
him how to do everything one step at a
time, or by doing everything in baby steps,
and building up from there.

And eventually Bill Murray’s character
was able to overcome his fears and not
be so overwhelmed by everything anymore.

It was a funny movie, but you could take
a lesson from it.

So…

One Bipolar Step at a Time

The idea is not to do too much, or you’ll
be overwhelmed.

For example, say you’re keeping a To-Do
List as part of how you’re staying productive.
If you have too many things on that list,
and you don’t get them all done today, that
might overwhelm you.

Instead, make a smaller list, and you won’t
feel so overwhelmed. In fact, by completing
the things on your list, you’ll feel a sense of
accomplishment at the end of the day.

Then, in steps, as you can, you can add
more things to your list.

Another example would be if you wanted
to go back to work (first of all, I would
advise not doing this without your doctor’s
okay).

In order not to be overwhelmed, start with
a small, part-time job with just a few hours
a week. Don’t try to tackle a full-time job
right away. It may be more than you can
handle, and do you more harm than good.

If being productive is what you’re worried
about, set a long-term goal, and then your
One Bipolar One Step at a Time would
consist of the short-term goals you would
set and take to reach that long-term goal.

You can do the same thing with projects.
You would decide on a big project you want
to do, then do it a little bit at a time, like
the long-term and short-term goal idea.

If you’re wanting to learn how to take on
more responsibility as part of managing
your bipolar disorder, then start with smaller
responsibilities (One Bipolar Step at a Time),
so you don’t get too overwhelmed, and then
build to larger responsibilities.

If you’re in a bipolar support group, you don’t
start with running the group right away,
you start with setting up the coffee, see what
I mean?

Now, here’s my biggest point with the One
Bipolar Step at a Time idea:

If you’ve been in an episode, and now find that
you have consequences to pay as a result of
things you did while you were in that episode,
you might be feeling very overwhelmed by it.

Take it One Bipolar Step at a Time.

This is very important to your stability.

If you have people to ask forgiveness from and
relationships to repair, take it one person at a time.

If there are consequences to pay (like paying
traffic tickets, for example), do them one at a time.

Do not let yourself get overwhelmed.

What do you think of this idea?

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Well, I have to go!

Your Friend,

Dave

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Hi,

This is an odd email. You see, I have had a million (okay not that many exactly), a ton, ask me about sex and bipolar disorder.

A topic, I really didn’t want to get into. Kind of like I didn’t want to get into natural c.res and bipolar disorder but I had to tackle that since so many people wanted answers.

Anyway, so many people have asked me about sex and bipolar disorder, I had to put out a resource to get answers to the questions that they want to know.

If you have ever had any questions concerning sex and bipolar disorder, please visit this site:

http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/specialoffer/sexandbp/

P.S. NON of this is X-rated or trashy. Don’t worry.

David Oliver is the author of the shocking guide “Bipolar Disorder—The REAL Silent Killer.” Click Here to get FREE Information sent via email on how and why bipolar disorder kills.

Hi,

How’s it going?

I hope you are doing well.

Lots of interesting news today.

Anyway, here is today’s news.

To read this week’s news visit:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/bipolarnews409

Mental State to Be Considered In AttemptedMurder Case
DO> Hmm. Do you think it should?

Too Many Inadequate Diagnoses of Child BipolarDisorder
DO> I agree, do you?

FDA Mandates Suicide Warnings for Epileptic Meds
DO> I think this is a good idea, do you?

Dealing With Stigma of Mental Illness in Teens
DO> Great article on something not talked about often.

Reporter’s Son Bravely Shares the Story of HisSuicide Attempt
DO> Sad story.

For these stories and more, please visit:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/bipolarnews409

==>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==

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Your Friend,

Dave

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THIRD NOTICE

Hi,

Hey, I just got back from the seminar.

I wanted to send some answers to frequently asked questions that I am getting about my F.REE Trial on Bipolar Supporter’s Master Course at:
http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/supportercoursespecialoffer

Some people had some questions and Iwanted to answer them here.

1. Why are you doing this?
A. I know there are some people who are on the fence (so to speak), so Iwanted to let them try it out andreview it prior to paying.  I just thought it would be a nice thing to do.

2. Why are you only taking 50 people?
A. I limit things as a way to reduce risk.I don’t want to send out 1000 coursesand run the risk of some kind of fraud.

3. Why is there a deadline?
A. See above answer.

4. What if I don’t like the course after the trial?
A. Take a look at the page and you’ll be fully protected by my guarantees.

For more info visit:
http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/supportercoursespecialoffer

5. Can you send it without me paying for shipping and handling?
A. No. That’s way too much risk and invites tremendous potential for fraud. Sorry.

6. When will you do this again?
A. I am not sure. Maybe never. I have never done this before.

7. Can we get more than one copy?
A. Yes, you can get TWO, but that’s it.

That’s it, for more info, please visit:
http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/supportercoursespecialoffer

WARNING!

I am only taking 50 people and it ends 10:00 pm EST Monday, October 27, 2008

Thanks.

Dave

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Hi,

I have had a ton of people write me recently about h.ome businesses and which ones to start. Why? Well bipolar supporters want to make extra money. People with bipolar disorder want to make extra money. Since I started this, I have helped a bunch of people get started in really cool businesses.

These days a home business is a great idea because you can better control your future.

If you have been on my list for a while, you might remember the plant watching woman. She started a business watching people’s plants. She makes $500 or so a month. It’s not a ton but it’s great money.

Anyway, there are lots of options.

I am not sure if you know it but I have something that relates to this. It’s called 161 ways to make m.oney at home.

If you have any interest, take a look at this page

http://www.bipolarcentral.com/bipolarbusinessspecialoffer/

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Hi,

Is everything going well for you?

I hope so.

I normally clean on Thursdays so I was thinking of cleaning and bipolar disorder for some reason. Now you might be wondering….

Ok, so what does cleaning your house have to do with bipolar disorder, you probably want to know, right?

Actually, it was someone else, someone who has bipolar disorder who explained this concept to me.

First, she pointed out that you don’t make your bed in the living room, right? (and of course I agreed)

Then she said that you don’t wash the dishes in the laundry room, do you? (and I thought, well, that’s pretty obvious)

And then she asked me, “You don’t do your laundry in your bedroom, right?”

Now, I still didn’t know where she was going with this, but she sure had my attention. Especially because I knew it had to do with bipolar disorder, because she had the disorder and we had been talking about it.

Ok, so here was her point.

Say you’re cleaning your house. There are different rooms in your house, and you clean each room differently. So you have a system for cleaning your house.

(Aha! I went, as I finally started getting the link!)

What she was saying was that the concept was that you have to have systems. And I believe that, because I teach about many systems in my courses/systems below:

SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?

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SUPPORTING A CHILD/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?

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http://www.bipolarparenting.com

HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?

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http://www.survivebipolar.net

Ok, so the concept is that you have to have systems.

I know a couple where they both have systems for everything.

In fact, each of them has different systems for some things than the other person (even people without bipolar disorder do this).

For example, the way they groom themselves is different.

The way they fill up their medication boxes is different. And also, she has to take meds both in the morning and at night, while he only has to take his at night.

But the important thing is that they each have a system for managing their medications.

The way they manage their diets is different, because they don’t like the same foods. But they have a system where they still eat their meals together. They just eat different things.

Their system for exercise is pretty much the same, though. They go to the same gym together; however, they use different machines. But they finish together and go home together. When they walk, they walk together.

They both have a system for their treatment, too. Although they see the same therapist and psychiatrist, they see them at different times, and confidentiality is observed.

———————————————————————

Do you see what I’m getting at?

You have to have a system for everything in order to manage your/your loved one’s bipolar disorder.

Otherwise, it will get out of control.

Just like your house will get out of control if you don’t have a system for cleaning it up!

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FINAL REMINDER

Hi,

I just wanted to send you the link again if you are interested in my guide…

“The Secrets to Making Fast Cash When Dealing with Bipolar Disorder”

You can get more information here:
http://www.bipolarcentralcatalog.com/bipolarfastcashspecialoffer/

Catch you tomorrow.

Dave

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Hi,

How’s it going?

The other day I sent out an email about my guide:

“Secrets to Making Fast Cash When Dealing with Bipolar Disorder”

at:

http://www.bipolarcentralcatalog.com/bipolarfastcashspecialoffer/

I had several people ask me one specific question that I want to issue a warning about.

They asked me if my guide talks about Gifting Programs and if they are good for generating m.oney for bipolar disorder issues.

The answer is a BIG NO. Gifting Programs or clubs are a scam.

Period.

I know I am going to get flooded with hate mail telling me that what I said is not true or this certain gifting program is totally legitimate.

Let me tell you. A gifting program is a pyramid scheme and in The United States and virtually every where in the world, they are NOT and I repeat NOT legal!

Many people dealing with bipolar disorder et caught up in these programs because they look and sound good. Don’t do it.

Everything in my guide is on the up and up. I don’t promote scams or illegal things.

Let me post something really quick from the SEC’s website which is a government regulatory agency, about pyramid schemes:

“In the classic “pyramid” scheme, participants attempt to make money solely by recruiting new participants into the program. The hallmark of these schemes is the promise of sky-high returns in a short period of time for doing nothing other than handing over your money and getting others to do the same.

The fraudsters behind a pyramid scheme may go to great lengths to make the program look like a legitimate multi level marketing program. But despite their claims to have legitimate products or services to sell, these fraudsters simply use money coming in from new recruits to pay off early stage investors. But eventually the pyramid will collapse. At some point the schemes get too big, the promoter cannot raise enough money from new investors to pay earlier investors, and many people lose their money.”

If you don’t believe me go to google.com run a search for “scam” and gifting club and you’ll see what I mean. Again gifting programs or clubs are simply illegal pyramid schemes.

My guide the “Secrets to Making Fast Cash When Dealing with Bipolar Disorder” has nothing to do with these types of things:

http://www.bipolarcentralcatalog.com/bipolarfastcashspecialoffer/

Just be careful. I don’t want you to get hurt in something that is a scam.

David Oliver is the author of the shocking guide “Bipolar Disorder—The REAL Silent Killer.” Click Here to get FREE Information sent via email on how and why bipolar disorder kills.