Hi,
I wanted to drop and email to you about something that came up.
The other day I sent out a notice about my new resource titled:
“How to deal with your loved one’s lying,
manipulation and bipolar disorder.”
Located at:
http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/specialoffer/dealwithlying/
People have written me asking why I am saying that all people with bipolar disorder lie. I am NOT and I repeat I am NOT saying that.
I am not.
What I am saying is that when a person is going through a bipolar episode he/she can start lying and manipulating.
To say this true means either you are lying yourself or just not informed. This is the sad truth and I find it one of the most difficult things to deal with when it comes to bipolar disorder.
One of the biggest questions I hear asked is, “How do I deal with my loved one’s lying?”
Most supporters just don’t know what to do. Neither do therapists, psychiatrists, doctors, and many other experts. I have been to many support groups and heard experts say, “There’s really nothing you can do except try to do the
best you can.” THIS IS TOTALLY NOT TRUE.
If you have a loved one with bipolar disorder who is lying constantly and manipulating then I have great news for you.
I have a new resource you have to check out.
Take a look if you need it.
http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/specialoffer/dealwithlying/
I actually have to take off and head to my Goddaughter’s birthday part. She is turning two years old.
Talk to you tomorrow.
Dave
David I am finding that I seem do keep doing all the wrong things in my support of my fiencee who has bipolar. I seem to keep driving her away, or is it not me and I have to learn techniques. She seems to run or cause an argument to seeemingly alienate me. 24 times in the last 2 years she has done this. I also have not responded well i take it due to ignorance. I really want to be the best for Tracey. David please help.
Even worse is the pathological lying. He projects his diagnoses onto me, calls me the pathological liar, says I am the sick one (this comes out the sicker he becomes), says I poison the kids minds when it is his unstable behavior that has turned them away from him, and the best one – I overdosed him. In any other person this would be libel and slander but because he is sick and dangerous, I just have to ignore it? He projects his paranoia onto me and says I’m the paranoid one. His family of origin is not much better – they cannot be real about him being mentally disturbed so they use me as the scapegoat. No-one – not family, or the law – has made him accoutable for his behavior. He believes “the best liar in court wins” and has said it repeatedly. I don’t know if it is one long episode – since when he is medicated properly he is not as bad, or his personality. And he manipulates and triangulates and uses sociopathic styles to lie. I do not understand why the truth does not exist for a mentally disturbed person – delusional thoughts, confabulations or lies – it is very difficult to sort out but at the end of the day he is a liar that cannot be real.