Hi,
How’s it going?
I hope you’re doing ok today.
You know, we spend a lot of our lives just waiting.
Waiting to grow up.
Waiting to graduate from school.
Waiting to move out.
Waiting to get that career started.
Waiting for promotions.
Waiting for the right person to come along and marry.
Waiting for a baby to be born.
Waiting for our birthdays.
Waiting for holidays.
Waiting for vacations.
Waiting to retire.
Waiting for the weekend.
Waiting in lines.
Waiting at doctors’ offices.
Well, waiting is probably one of the hardest things for a supporter with a loved one who has bipolar disorder to do.
Not just the waiting in doctors’ offices…
But the waiting for your loved one to become stable.
It’s hard sometimes, especially if they aren’t stable right now.
It’s hard when you feel like you’re all alone.
That’s why you need to have your own support system, along with other things like I teach in my
courses/systems about dealing with bipolar disorder.
SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?
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http://www.bipolarparenting.com
HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?
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It’s hard just to cope and deal with bipolar disorder in the first place.
That’s why you need to read everything you can about the disorder, so you can be educated.
And having knowledge, you can gain some control over the disorder.
It’s hard to be a good supporter.
Sometimes you may feel overwhelmed.
Sometimes you may have negative feelings.
Sometimes you may even resent or be angry at your loved one, just because bipolar disorder is so much a part of your life together.
But waiting has to be the hardest thing to cope with as a supporter.
Waiting for your loved one’s medication to work.
Waiting for your loved one to learn to manage their bipolar disorder.
Waiting for them to get better.
Waiting for your loved one to GET STABLE.
But sometimes the wait is a long time.
Some people with bipolar disorder don’t take to their medications at first.
It’s a matter of trial and error to get them on the right medication.
Sometimes it’s hard to find the right doctor, psychiatrist and therapist for them.
Some supporters of people with bipolar disorder find it very hard to even get their loved one into treatment.
And waiting for a bipolar episode to end is the worst.
You may feel really helpless.
You may have to do some things that you don’t want to do, like put your loved one in the hospital.
You may have to count on other people to help you.
Your loved one may be hard to get along with.
They may even be in denial, which can be very frustrating for you.
So, yes, waiting is probably the hardest part.
But if your loved one does the things they need to do to get better (get stable), you will not have to spend all your time waiting any more.
The main thing is to get them into treatment and on the right medication.
And to take care of yourself as well.
Do you find yourself waiting on your loved one to get stable?
What are you doing in the meantime?