Revealed: Bipolar Research Warning

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Hey,

What’s new? Hope things are going well
for you today.

I received an email from someone
that said:

“Hey David, I have a quick question.
I don’t want to offend you but how
much of what you say about bipolar
disorder has been researched and
studied? Are there any studies
backing up suggestions you have
like the importance of sleep
and bipolar disorder?”
–Jerry

First let me remind everyone that
I am NOT a doctor, therapist, insurance
person, lawyer, or other kind of professional.
These are my opinions that I am giving.

I wanted to say something and I am NOT
saying this to brag.

As you know, my mom has bipolar disorder,
I have more than 100,000 people on my list.
I have between the #2 and #8 site in
the world for bipolar in google (ahead
of dozens of drug companies and sites like
webmd),

I have 8 people who work for me with bipolar
disorder, I been volunteering helping people
with bipolar disorder and supporters,
for more than 2.5 years, and the #1 most
read blog on bipolar disorder, I have lots
of audio and writing material for helping
people with bipolar disorder and supporters.

Again I am NOT saying this to brag but
to prove a really important point that
I am going to tell you. Again, I didn’t
write that list to brag.

PLEASE READ ON.

When I first got started. I did a ton
of research. I bought ever book. Most
weren’t any good. Then I interviewed
doctors, therapists, and tons and tons
of people with bipolar disorder.

I took lots of notes. I read and analyzed
my notes trying to make a plan or system
that could help my mom.

You know what? At the time, I was
too dumb to know how complex bipolar
disorder was. I assumed that I could
easily figure it out.

Actually this “dumb” almost naïve
little kid type thinking is what
enabled me to help my mom.

If I was thinking more intelligently,
I may have concluded that her
case was impossible.

Over time, I started to see how it all
would come together and what it would
take for her to be stable.

We had some ideas. We wound
up testing them and they worked.

I noticed that when I looked for studies
to back up so of my ideas and concepts
and almost in every case, didn’t find any.

Here is the surprising truth about
bipolar disorder. Much that goes along
with the management of bipolar disorder
is NOT studied. It’s really strange.

Early on, I figured medication is
super important but I knew there had
to be more. The studies do talk about
medication and it’s role in treatment
of bipolar disorder BUT I knew there
were other things as well.

My mom had taken medication almost
every year except the first 10 years
of being diagnosed.

But she still struggled. So I knew
there was more to it.

Then we started looking at stability
being more of an equation like
stability equaled medication +
therapy + sleep + stress reduction
etc.

It is interesting that in the last couple
of years of doing this, things that I
discovered or that someone told me they
knew worked for 10 years or longer are
now being announced as being important.

For example, recently in the news
they have been talking about how
psychotherapy helps with bipolar disorder.

Without a study, I knew that. How?
Well my mom stopped going to talk therapy
for a while after getting stable and
she got worse.

But today they are finally just announcing
it.

Some people on my list ask me if this
or that has been studied or confirmed to
help with bipolar disorder. I say to them
no it hasn’t because most things haven’t
been studied. And for whatever reason,
they don’t seem to be working too hard
on figuring out issues related to
mental health.

When I say they I mean like the drug companies,
governments, research people, etc.

It seems that more money and funding goes to
non mental health disorders. Just look around,
the biggest announcements rarely have anything
to do with mental health.

Announcements are usually bad news. Like
so and so killed so and so. Or so and so
did something really bad.

It’s never this studied concluded that
the introduction of calming music at night
for someone with bipolar disorder decreased
manic episodes by such and such percent.

Announcements are usually news is based on
something dumb like a new movie that
has a totally insane mentally ill person.

The important point here is, if you think something
will work for you or your loved one with bipolar
disorder, talk it over with your doctor and/or
therapist. Don’t wait years or even decades for
a study to come out.

Remember you can’t talk it over with me because
I am NOT a doctor or therapist. I really want
to keep on reminding people. I feel good
because many of the emails that I get all
start with, “I know you are not a doctor,
therapist or attorney but…” so that’s
good. Just want to be clear and not
misrepresent myself.

Anyway, with my mom, she runs any new idea or thing
she wants to try past her doctor and therapist
and they monitor.

One idea my mom had was to use calming music
to sleep better. Many people on my list
recommend this. I looked and there is no
study that talks about calming music and
bipolar disorder but for my mom, it’s worked
wonders.

Her doctor thought it was a great idea and
told her to try it. The results are great.

I hope you understand the point that I am
trying to make.

In my courses/systems, you’ll find that
many of the ideas, concepts and strategies
proven to work are the result of years
of struggle by both bipolar supporters
and those with bipolar disorder.

The reason I put together my material
was to help to reduce the time it takes
to figure it all out. These strategies
work but you won’t find each one backed
up by 57 different studies for the
reasons that I just talked about.

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Visit:
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HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http://www.survivebipolar.net

I hope this email made sense to you.
Let me know your thoughts.

I have to take off. I just got a notice
saying there is a problem with one of my
websites.

Your Friend,

Dave

P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/catalog.asp

P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/supporterblog/

P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
http://bipolarcentral.libsyn.com

  1. David,
    Thank you so much for your support. My daughter has Bipolar. She was diagnosed about 8 moths ago. I guess you would know it has been difficult. She spent 60 days has an out patient. She has trouble with alcohol as when ever something is stressfull she has to have a drink and of course it makes everyting worse. Anyway I just want to thank you for your articles, they have helped me alot. Donna

  2. David gives GREAT advice based on his knowledge from research he has done and from his EXPERIENCE with bipolar disorder. They say that EXPERIENCE is the BEST teacher and I’ve learned and continue to learn as I journey through life that EXPERIENCE is the BBST teacher. Thanks David for all you do for those who seek information from your website! I think it’s great that you reached out to help someone close to you and you have elected to extend that out to the public. I wish more people could do what you have chosen to do. Good Work!

  3. Hi David,
    Thanks much for your site I came across it about the same time I was diagnosed with Bipolar 2 disorder about 4 months ago. I’ve been trying some of your tecqniques.Sleep,vitamins,meditation,all seem to help some for me. After 48 years I finally have a diagnosis and can work on things. Problem 2 is I think my 14 year old daughter might have this to. She reminds me so much of me at that age and has many of the same issues. I feel bad for her.
    Thanks again.
    Carrie

  4. David. I have had bipolar diagnosed since 1999, but was in the psychologists office at the age of 2. I am now 33.
    Its been quite a spiritual experience for me, but my bad habits and bad behaviour paterns are so destructive. My dad says…kate….dont let your bipolar be an excuse for your bad behaviour. Sometimes get a bit confused as to whats what!

  5. Thank you so much for all your information. I do have a question, I was diaginosed with bipolar in 1991. I have had all kinds of problems since then. Until 3 months ago I was not stable at all. I went to where I get my meds to get them filled and all they had was my cymbalta, not my seroquel. they said check back in a week and they might have it then. I am still doing good and am still stable, but I think this is not very professional. Can I still be doing as good as I am even though I am not on all my meds or could it just all be in my head and I didn”t realize it. I know you are not a doctor I would just like to get your opinion on this since your mother is bipolar and you do have a lot of experience with this.please let me know something. thanks

  6. Dear David, I had been complaining about “brain fog” where cognitive skills hit a brain fatigue barrier, and my psychiatrist had nothing to offer except the medication, and his explanation of what it was. I went to a microbiologist for a blood study, and he immediately identified that I had “brain fog” due to a severe deficiency of protein = amino acids to support brain function and rehabilitation of the brain. Have just started taking them and will see the microbiologist in a month. Hope this helps me. Will let you know.

  7. Hi Dave and thanks so much for all the helpful information you so kindly give us. I am bipolar. I was wondering about this and really need to ask your help. How can this work? Me with bipolar and my husband (been married 6 years and have a little girl of 3.5) with depression and OCD. We both actually need supporters, but at the moment I take centre stage (and I so wished it wasn’t so, as I love him deeply and wished I could do more for him) and that makes him even more depressed. I need to know, how can this thing work in the long run? I am currently undergoing CBT and hope that I can be more to him after the completion of this course. He deserves the best, and I WANT TO give him my all. At the moment though, I seldom think about anyone besides myself and my feelings.

  8. Hi David,
    Thank you so much for the regular e mails.They are so helpful, and provide clarity and understanding,as to what might be going on in my head.I have just been diagnosed with biploar 2 after struggling for the past 20 years.Thank GOD that I now know the causes of my depresion and negativity,and dont have to tear myself to shreds,thinking that Im just a bad person.I want to beat this thing,and not be solely reliant on drugs to cope and find healing.Thank you for your concern and efforts to help those in need.GOD BLESS YOU and your TEAM. Kevin

  9. Hey Dave! I haven’t posted my history yet,but let me tell you my thoughts! Back in 2004 I had my last episode, then I used to hear calming music at night to stay relaxed before sleep. This really helped me so much and I combined as a part of my whole therapy. My Doctor told me that this could help me to reduce my depression levels,but there wasn’t the only way to manage this stress.

  10. Dave, sometimes experience IS the best teacher. Although I’ve had bipolar disorder for 37 years, I am slowly coming to the conclusion that one of my psychiatrists was right. He told me in 2001 that at my age, I “had the wisdom to discern what could cause a manic episode.” This was really SHOCKING to me. That he really THOUGHT that someone with bipolar could actually MONITOR their OWN moods, looking back on what “triggered” episodes in the past. I was ELATED. As I have NO supporters but the team at my local Community Mental Health Center, I can usually tell when my moods are out of whack. Then, I can call my shrink or my therapist and talk it out with them. “Talk therapy” really DOES work!

    Every six months I have to go over and sign a Treatment Plan with my therapist, listing goals and how to reach them. This makes me partially responsible for my own therapy. I KNOW what works for me doesn’t always work for other sufferers. Each person with the disorder is different; yes, it’s too bad that the only news you see about some suffering with bipolar is bad – someone killed someone or killed themselves. This only adds to the stigma of mental illness. But there are those of us who struggle day by day in some semblance of “normalcy” who DON’T make the news…

    So, I just suggest that you read David’s emails, because I KNOW he’s been there and DOES have the knowledge of what works and what doesn’t, and decide for yourself how you can incorporate some of his suggestions in your treatment plan, and FOLLOW IT. Take your meds, listen to calming music, go to your therapists and doctors, sleep well, etc., and you’ll be surprised how much better you’ll feel…

    BIG HUGS and God’s blessings on all supporters and sufferers on this blog. Love to you all:)

  11. Then, in my case I decided to hear the music that I liked to hear,but I reduced the levels of sound and there was so great that I’ve learned to enjoy and apreciate the music. Eventually I’ve changed several kinds of music and understood how to reduce my stress levels. This changes my life forever! Actually I enjoy all kind of music, no matter about the time I hear it. Thanks Dave, Greetings to your Mom!

  12. Hello, David~
    Your comments in your latest email struck home with me. I have suffered w/ bipolar for over 43 years, and have always been pretty much out of control. This was reconciled for me when a non profit I worked for took a real chance on me and allowed me to work with disabled people, many w/ bipolar. I have no formal training as you state you also do not have, but am very experienced in the disorder. Today, I am stable through the use of meds, sleep therapy, and stress control. Yes, I do drink a bit. But only at night, after 11 PM, and always in a measured amount. It aids w/ sleep. Lack of sleep is my biggest offender.

    Thanks for the emails. They have been very helpful, and are pushing me towards beginning a blog on bipolar disorder.

    Peace,

    Charlie~

  13. Dear David:
    I am so impressed, not only with all the research you have done, but with your motivation to help your mom, which drove all your hard work. Actually, I have more faith in what you say (“even though you’re NOT a Dr., therapist, etc.), but because you were so driven by your love for your mom and your approach to your studies was to “think outside the box”. Your creative thinking is what has made what you do so valuable.

    I just wonder what makes one son, like you, respond to his mother’s illness by throwing yourself feet first into finding out what it was all about and WHAT WOULD HELP – whereas another son (mine) refuses to have anything to do with me because of behaviors related to my illness. His attitude is “you can’t blame your behavior on your illness; if you try hard enough you can control your behavior; you’re just making excuses”. KATE: this is exactly what your Dad said to you! Probably a commom reaction.
    The problem is that my son hasn’t the slightest interest in learning about my disease, so it’s unlikely that his attitude will ever change. I feel like my heart is broken – we were so close at one time, and he’ll always be my baby boy. Anyone else experience the “loss” of a child due to bipolar?

    Thanks, David. You’re the patron saint of bipolar people! Really, I admire you so much, and want you to know that you’re one of MY supporters…

    Love, sue sue

  14. Well,Do you watch TV. Everyone knows, or specializes in bi-polar.
    Every other, segment talks about
    bi-polar. I myself know about bi-
    polar, in the flesh. Been their, done that, experienced the ups-downs, the meds, the reactions. Their is a group around me that get together and talk. DBSA Metro
    Detroit,Bi-polar Support Alliance.
    I really have no family to speak-off. I’m a label. Betty

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