Hi,

I am going to teach you a powerful bipolar disorder
strategy I used against a printer.

Okay if you have been on my list for a while, you know
that I have had HUGE problems with my printer. I am
currently working to transfer everything over to another
printer in upstate New York. It’s going to take about
3 weeks or so.

So far, this printer is EXCELLENT. HOWEVER, I still
have to work with the old printer who is a NIGHTMARE.

The old printer:
forgets work to be done
overcharges
doesn’t return my phone calls
gives me an attitude when I call
ignores me
talks down to me
doesn’t answer any of my questions
offers no advice on how to improve the system.
doesn’t really care about the work

This printer has cost me a fortune or time AND money.
Now, this email is not about printers it’s about bipolar
disorder. Look at this.

Guess who this is?

Forgets appointments
overcharges
doesn’t return my phone calls
gives me an attitude when I call
ignores me
talks down to me
doesn’t answer any of my questions
offer no advice on how to improve the system
doesn’t really care about the situation.

You might be thinking, “Dave you just wrote the same
thing again. What the heck is wrong with you? Do you
have bipolar disorder? Maybe ADHD or something else?
Should I stay on your list because maybe there’s
something wrong with you?”

GUESS WHO OR WHAT I AM REFERRING TO IN THE LAST LIST?
Then scroll down.

GUESS THEN SCROLL No cheating!

I am referring to my mom’s out patient program
that she went to for 90 or 100 days or so. What?
You are confused maybe. Let me explain.

When I was thinking about the printer, I realized
they were the same as the outpatient
program my mom went to.

NOTE: An outpatient program is this. People go
to inpatient where they have to stay. Then usually
hospitals or insurance companies put them out
and put them in outpatient programs where people
are only there for the day or a few days a week.
This is a really sneaky way for the system to reduce costs.

Anyway, Am I crazy? NO! That’s exactly what the outpatient
program was like. It was just like the printer I was
dealing with. Same type of issues just different people.

For example, the program would not tell me what was
going on with my mom and kept changing her doctors,
her treatment and always
saying she was doing great and should be released
even though she was not stable at all.

It’s like they wanted to just get rid of her. They
had no care in the world. I would call and they would
avoid my calls, ignore me, talk down to me, etc. I would
tell them how my mom was screaming and yelling at everyone
that she threw a phone at me. How she spit on me. How
she painted a message to my dad and myself on the wall
in the house and that she should NOT be let out of the program.
They would just ignore me. People would never call me
back.

They treated me like a young dumb kid.

Well, I have gotten a handle on the printer and I am
going to tell you which powerful bipolar strategy
I used on the printer.

What I did was this. I used the Mrs. C. Principle.
This is a strategy I learned from a woman who’s last
name started with a C. This lady was powerful.

Her son was one of my best friends in high school. He
had dyslexia and he was mistreated by the school until
Mrs. C, his mom, found out.

She had a strategy and it worked.

Here’s what I did based on what I learned from her
some 15 years ago.

First, you ONLY use this if your objective is
not in violation of any local, state, federal,
international laws. AND that’s it’s moral
and ethical and doesn’t go against your faith.

After I make this determination, I am ready to
go.

I start at the lower levels. Asking for whatever
I need. I am pleasant. I am nice. I say please.
I say thank you. I almost beg for assistance.

Then I will surely be blocked and not get help.
BUT, according to the Mrs. C. strategy, you have
to give them the ability to help you before
you move to level or strategy 2.

Then you find a supervisor or boss and state
your case and act just as nice as you were to
the first set of people or persons.

If this fails, level 3 is the next level.

You find the highest possible people in the
organization. You find, the CEO, the operations
people. People who run the entire show. You get
their addresses, fax number and phone number.

You prepare for an all out battle to get your
way. The person in this position does not want
to talk to you and will do whatever it takes
to make you go away happy. This is the way
large organizations work.

You write. You call these people. You go
and see them. You state your case. You
drive them crazy. You only talk to the
high up people and NOT the low level
people.

The top people HATE complaints and know
that too many complaints derail their “career
path.” They hate letters, threats of letters.
They hate hearing how their organization is
terrible and that you are going to tell others.

With my mom’s outpatient program, I did this. They
kept my mom in the program. They kept her to right
until the insurance ran out. They provided the best
service they could. They treated me nice. They
didn’t get my mom stable but the tried hard even
though I think most of them were clueless and
incompetent.

This only happened because I went to the top
and was all over the top people. The top people
wanted to avoid me like the plaque. They must have
issued a command of “MAKE THIS KID HAPPY” to
the lower level people. And, “I DO NOT WANT TO HEAR
FROM HIM AGAIN.”

You know in many mental health places, the service
is horrible and if someone started looking they would
be appalled. The people running the places aren’t dumb.
They know this. It’s a secret. They don’t want anyone
to know either. So when you start hammering the people
at the top, they want to make you happy and make
you go away and be quiet.

Now I only told you about 90% of the Mrs. C. strategy
because the rest is too long. I have to run. BUT, if
this doesn’t work. There is the final strategy
that I learned from her and another person that I have
NEVER seen fail. It gets results. Most people won’t
need it however. The people running most of these
mental health places you may have to deal with don’t
require it.

You can find out about it in one of my courses/systems:

SUPPORTING AN ADULT
Visit:
http://www.bipolarsupporter.com/report11

SUPPORTING A CHILD/TEEN
Visit:
http://www.bipolarparenting.com

HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http://www.survivebipolar.net

REMEMBER you can only use this for things you are in
the right with. For example you would not use this
strategy to get your loved one a f.ree TV and Sony
Xbox while they were getting well again.
That wouldn’t be right. You
can’t abuse the strategy.

If you do, there’s a counter strategy that can
be used against you so don’t do it.

With the printer, I called the CEO yesterday and got
an assistant to the President. She immediately didn’t
want me to talk to him (because she probably would have
been fired if I called him and got through).

She started to handle everything. With 60 minutes I was
called by many lower level people with temporary resolutions
to my problems. TEMPORARY. This printer is a nightmare. No
matter what, they will always be a problem so I have to
move on even if it looks good for the next few weeks.

This is a good lesson in itself for mental health. If a
doctor, therapist, hospital, etc. is terrible and then
you use the Mrs. C. strategy and turn them around, it
won’t last forever. You will have to keep doing it. I
recommend you use the strategy and transition to some
person or place that doesn’t require constantly
using this strategy.

SIDE NOTE-My best friend, graduated, went to college
and is a huge success thanks to his hard work and his
mom–Mrs. C.

Mrs. C is legendary. People would run from her and hide.
She meant business. She would blast people. She had a
way with words that instilled fear into the hearts of
those in the high school. She was one powerful woman.
NOBODY wanted to mistreat her son. He got the best
education he could. The education that he was legally
entitled to. Nothing more. Nothing less.

I have to run.

Catch you tomorrow.

Your Friend,

Dave

P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails that I have
sent in the past and lots of great information for you:
http://www.bipolarcentral.com/supporterblog/

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