Hi,
I hope you’re doing well today.
You know the old saying about a “chip on your shoulder” and about someone having one?
Well, first let’s talk about what it means before we talk about someone having one or not, ok?
So what do we mean when we say that someone has a chip on their shoulder?
We mean that they have something bothering them that never goes away.
This can even lead to a bad attitude that other people can see, if they’re not careful.
The point is that it’s something that they carry around with them.
Something that they still haven’t worked out. A burden, you could say.
Like a trigger to a bipolar episode, that lays beneath the surface until it’s aggravated, and then it goes off.
That’s the bipolar chip!
See, there are some people who have bipolar disorder that walk around with a bipolar chip on their shoulder.
Who have let the disorder become a burden to them.
Who may even walk around with a bad attitude, or a victim mentality because of the bipolar chip on their shoulder.
But you see, you don’t HAVE to walk around with a chip on your shoulder, especially a bipolar
chip!
If you have bipolar disorder, and you have read my courses, you know that you should have a support system, and a good support system is there to help you, to keep that bipolar chip OFF your shoulder!
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Having someone help you, like a good supporter, will help to make your burdens lighter, and will help keep you from having a bipolar chip on your shoulder.
Then your burden is lighter, and you can concentrate on the things you should be concerned about – like managing your disorder!
If someone with bipolar disorder carries this bipolar chip on their shoulder, it’s easier for other people to tell that they have the disorder.
Why?
Well, think about any person who carries a chip on their shoulder.
They might show physical signs of it.
They might hang their head.
They might be easily angered, or even fight a lot.
Or they might show signs in their face, or have a bad attitude.
They might even talk about it, or complain all the time.
Well, it would be the same thing if someone carried the bipolar chip on their shoulder, wouldn’t it?
Someone with bipolar disorder who does NOT have the bipolar chip on their shoulder is one of those who it’s harder to tell that they even have the disorder.
They would be spending more time managing their disorder than they would complaining about it.
They wouldn’t be hanging their head (in shame).
They wouldn’t have a bad attitude.
And instead of fighting others, they would be fighting the disorder.
Some people who have a chip on their shoulder put a lot of effort into getting that chip off their shoulder.
Some people who have a burden spend a lot of energy getting rid of that burden.
Like these days, many people have financial burdens, because we’re in a recession.
Even though so many people complain about it because they might have a financial chip on their shoulders, other people spend their time getting that chip OFF their shoulders!
They do things proactively to make things better for themselves.
Well, that’s what a proactive person with bipolar disorder would do!
They would spend their time making things better for themselves…
And getting that bipolar chip OFF their shoulders!
Do YOU have a bipolar chip on your shoulders?
What are you doing to get rid of it?
If you have gotten rid of it, how did you do it?