The Bipolar Process

Hi,

Today I’m going to talk about something different. I’m going to talk about the pain of childbirth. I know, you’re probably thinking well, what does that have to do with bipolar

disorder? Well, bear with me, and I’ll show you how it does.

In childbirth, there is immediate pain, but then the pain goes away. And in its place is something very beautiful.

I’ve done this, and I challenge you to do it, too. Ask around, and you will not find even one

mother who will tell you that the pain was not worth it.

Ok, let’s compare that to bipolar disorder. I’m here to tell you today that recovery from

bipolar disorder is every bit just as painful (you already knew that) but is also worth the pain.

When talking about childbirth itself, the act of it, the pain of it, that’s called the birth process.

Well, there’s something I call: THE BIPOLAR PROCESS. And the Bipolar Process can be

compared to the birth process. In the Bipolar Process, you grow in your stability like going from a child into an adult. In other words, you go from low functioning to high functioning.

See, learning to manage bipolar disorder is a process. It won’t happen overnight. And it will be painful.

You know I work out a lot, so in the gyms I’m always hearing the saying, “No pain, no gain.”

Well, in the Bipolar Process, it’s the same thing. There will be pain. But it’s like the childbirth process. Whatever pain there is, will be forgotten in the end, when you are left with something

beautiful – When you become that high functioning person with bipolar disorder – When you are stable and in recovery.

Now, remember that this is a process. And, like any other process…It will not happen overnight.

The birth process doesn’t happen overnight, does it?

But if you are consistent in the Bipolar Process…Just as in the birthing process…You will be successful.

There are many things in life that you can be successful in if you are consistent at them. And the Bipolar Process is one of them.

Consistency is one of the things you must have to be successful at it. Persistency is another thing you must have to be successful at it. It also helps to be determined. You will want to set realistic goals as well. Self-care is important. Taking the right steps toward recovery will help

you reach stability through the Bipolar Process.

Well, I have to go!

Your Friend,

Dave

  1. David: your insight is beautiful-how relavent relating it to the beauty and pain of birthing.Keep up the good work! Best Regards, Rich

  2. Dear David,
    I would totally agree with what you have blogged: and can relate your metaphor to what has happened over the last 3 years to my daughter, and her recovery from a huge bipolar episode and its attendant misery of critical care , residential care home recovery and her gradual return to successful stability Rachel has been stable now for 1 year YAY.
    The recovery process has been brutally hard and oftimes almost unbearable – like labour pains – and Rachel bless her won through- I am so proud of her and her endeavours.
    She has left her last employment because her contract ran out, and on her own, found new employment- and still Rachel grows in confidence bit by bit , day by day – not the least of her burdens is the attitudes of the public at large – and I am blessed with a daughter who regardless of what is happening arouond her – continues to forge ahead.
    I would not have come so far in my own thinking if I hadn’t had access to your blog, David when I most needed it
    regards
    Shona

  3. Dear David,

    Your inner feeling is really praiseworthy. I will always be expecting such illustration to boost my morale as I often feel morassed for my daughter suffering from BAD.

    Thanks,

    Subrata

  4. This was one of my favorite posts you have sent me, and totally understand it,
    I was diagnosed when I was quite young (now 41) with Bi-polar, and yes, the pain was horrible when i was younger, not knowing what what was going on with me, and I grew with it, the pain followed but in time I have learned how to deal with it all. I think the worst pain was is that the I felt so different from everyone else, not like them, that was part of my pain, (and still is )
    Up to date, I can deal with the pain so much better back then, now that i know so much more, I have read so much about bi-polar and being here on your site, I have learned so much more about it,
    I still deal with a lot of pain, but like you said the pain was worth it, made me understand my self as a Bi-polar woman. the biggest pain I am dealing with, is my husband…he thinks bi-polar is just silliness, does not believe it is real, think it is bull all in your mind, (he is bi-polar but denies it!) when i hit my mild espisodes, which are depression (like now) and other things he gets angry at me, and right now our marriage in a mess, hanging by a thread…..find it hard to respect him when he claims Bi-polar is bull and all in your head….does anyone else reading this dealing with this? feel so alone in dealing with this!!

    Christina.MacDonald168@gmail.com

  5. Retarded, stupid, wuss, jerk, a-hole,man-up, are just a few of my so called wife of 30 yrs nice words she calls me…Thank GOD and my meds, and this blog , im still tryin..HANG IN THERE 2 U ALL..

    ANDREW

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