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Hi,

How’s it going? I have a really important bipolar
disorder lesson for you.

I think I am actually going to
start sending the Sunday daily email later in the
day so I have at least one day to sleep in :).

I’ll let you know what I decide.

Anyway, today I have to do a lot of driving
and I noticed that my oil sticker on my car
is almost matching the number of miles that
means that I have to change my oil. So I am
going in on Monday to get the old oil changed.
Sounds like fun, huh?

Let me tell you this story about my oil, my
car and how this relates to bipolar disorder.

Ready? Here we go….

Once upon a time. Just kidding.

A couple of months ago I heard this weird sound
in my car. It kind of ran strange as well. So I went
to the car mechanic guy. He looked at my
car and then he said “you’re low” on oil.
I said, “Hmmm. okay.”

I know nothing about cars. One time this
woman was broken down on the side of the
road. I pulled over to help her. This was
about 15 years ago before cell phones.
Her tire was flat. I said, “Hey I will
help you.” She said okay. I had no idea
how to do it.

I asked her to get the manually. It didn’t
make sense to me. She saw me struggling and
I think she was probably like, “What a sad
kid whose father didn’t teach him how
to change a tire.”

I worked on it for seriously hours. Finally
I thought the tire was on. I was so worried
that it would fall off, I asked the lady
to drive super slow and be prepared to lose
the tire :). She laughed. She did and eventually
we got to a gas station.

Actually that lady wrote a super recommendation
which helped me get into college.

Anyway back to the oil story. Sorry.

He said maybe you have a leak or something.

So he checked it out. Then he looked up
at me and start calling me stupid and
that I was going to ruin my car. Can you
guess why?

Well I kind of forgot well I kind of ignored
the sticker that indicated how many miles
that I had to come in to get my oil
changed. I seriously thought that it was
a ballpark figure. I didn’t know it
was so critical.

It worked all these years for me 🙂

Anyway I got the lecture of my life from
George the car mechanic. Saying how if I didn’t
change the oil when I was suppose to, it
could lead to huge engine problems, my
engine could stop working, it would cost
a ton to fix, the world would fall
apart, my children, if I had any, would
suffer in the future (just kidding).

Anyway, that got me to thinking about
bipolar disorder and something that
many do. First I am going to talk about
what S O M E, I repeat some, I don’t
want to get hate mail from the people
who don’t saying, “hey I don’t do
that stop labeling me”, people
do.

Anyway, the doctor says come in at
this time. They say okay. Then they
take the appointment card and kind of
discard it and say, “I’m doing fine
and will come in when I want.” OR
these people do keep the appointment
card but they never make the appointment.

They are constantly rescheduling and pushing
it back and eventually like some people and
going to the dentist, a really long time
passes before they are seeing the their
bipolar doctor.

I have spoken to people who do this and
like me with my oil they really don’t
think it’s a big deal. Just think of
how I USE TO (before George yelled
at me), my car is fine, I can wait
to get my oil changed even though
I am suppose to.

Some with bipolar disorder think, “Hey
I am fine, I don’t need to go to the
doctor.”

But this leads to seriously problems. Bipolar
medications can’t be fine tuned. The doctor
starts to forget about you (you want the
doctor to remember you and keep you as a
5 percenter NOT a 95 percenter).
Moods aren’t tracked as well and slowly
the system you created which involves going
to the doctor can start to break down.

It’s a big mistake people make.

On the bipolar supporter side, many supporters
actually encourage their loved one to skip
the doctor visit or they go along with a
loved one who wants to keep skipping
appointments. This is a really bad
idea.

I know for myself, when my mom starts skipping
doctor appointments or using excuses to push
them back, it leads to an episode most times.
I also have it on my checklist as a potential
sign of an episode. When my mom is doing well
she goes to the doctor when she is suppose
to. But if she tries to miss appointments,
then I know this could be a sign of a
coming bipolar episode.

In my opinion like how I now feel about
my oil, appointments should NOT be missed.
If you have to, you schedule another one
right away period. No matter what you have
to do. Even if someone has to wheel barrel
you or your loved one their.

In many of my courses/systems below, you hear
people who are interviewed who talk about
how too many missed bipolar doctor appointments
lead to trouble.

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Don’t let this happen to you. I hope you
enjoyed me story. Oh, people ask me if
these stories are true. They are :).

I have to run. Have a great day.

Your Friend,

Dave

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