Here’s What Bipolar Problems Are Really…

Hi,

How are you doing?

I hope you are doing well.

Yesterday I did a few f.ree consultation calls I have with people who have bipolar question certificates.

These are the f.ree consultation certificates for those who get my bipolar supporter main courses below. This is for NON medical and/or NON legal questions.

Remember I am not a doctor, lawyer or therapist and I am not offering any medical or legal advice.

Someone asked me the other day if I was a doctor and I want to be really clear that I am not.

Okay, let’s jump into today’s topic which I talked with someone yesterday about.

Anyway, I heard an expression the other day that I thought was really neat:

“Problems are just solutions in work clothes.”

I mean, everybody has problems, right?

Whether you have bipolar disorder or not, or whether you’re a supporter to someone who has the disorder or not. Everybody has problems.

But you know how some people seem to be able to handle their problems better than other people do?

Well, that’s why I like this expression so much.

To me it’s having a positive attitude towards solving your problems.

And for people with bipolar disorder, that’s important.

I teach in my courses/systems that being positive is very important in the management of your bipolar disorder:

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But let’s talk about that expression:

“Problems are just solutions in work clothes.”

Let’s compare solving problems to working a garden.

In your garden, you might have the most beautiful flowers in the world, right?

But they wouldn’t come without a lot of hard work, did they?

You would have to clear away a lot of weeds to get to the beauty of those flowers, wouldn’t you?

Well, what if you let the weeds and pests overwhelm you and depress you and make you give up?

You wouldn’t have that beautiful garden, now, would you?

See, problems are like that.

Some are easy to solve.

But others are harder to solve.

The solutions are, like the saying says, “in work clothes.”

You have to work at them, like the person in the garden.

The solution is going to be a little harder to find. But it’s there somewhere!

You just have to get all the weeds and pests out of the way first so you can see clear to the answer to your problem, and you’ll have “beautiful flowers” (the solution)!

You just can’t give up too soon.

You have to work hard at it.

You have to try something, and if that doesn’t work, you have to be willing to try something else.

Then, eventually, you WILL find the right solution to your problems!

I’m not saying it’s easy.

No problem is easy to solve. Otherwise it wouldn’t be called a problem, right?

I’m just saying it CAN be done.

Do you agree with me?

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  1. Love the email “teasers” and would love to be able to purchase and read all the materials available….But I have a son with bi-polar that turned 18 and now refuses all meds and treatements. Any advice?

  2. Hi Dave,

    Problems are solutions in work clothes… hmm. I get the idea. We have to work for solutions, we cannot just give up at the first obstacle that confronts us. Asking for help is one of the best way to solve problems. Asking someone who knows more than we do about what ever area we have that problem in is the best idea. This means Psychiatrists and Psychologists when it comes to dealing with bipolar, but the Internet is a good source for information we need as well.

    Scour your resources, ask for help. I have heard it said that asking for help is a sign of weakness. If that is so, why is it so hard to do? We have to lean on people sometimes, our supporters, even the supporters of supporters and it doesn’t hurt to talk to the dr of our loved one, even if they didn’t sign a release of information for us to receive information from their dr… we can still give the dr information that just may save our loved ones’ life! If you are a supporter, and I am a supporter as well as survivor, it doesn’t hurt to talk with a psychologist to ask for help with our problems dealing with our loved one. Supporters need support as much as survivors do. Recently I have been helping someone who is suicidal. Bipolar. And I have now been both the one supporting someone who is suicidal and the one who was suicidal. I would say it is more emotionally painful to be the one who “is” suicidal, but it is more “Stressful” to be the one who is supporting someone who is suicidal because #1 we care about them and #2 we have little or no control over their condition. That is why seeking professional help for being a supporter is not a bad idea. The psychologist may just give you some information that will enable you to solve the problem by giving you information you didn’t have before, and they can help you learn how to deal with that much stress. It is, I believe, the most stressful event I have been in having a loved one who is suicidal and refusing treatment. There are ways to get them the help they need, but you won’t find it in the evening paper. Psychologists can help you to learn how to talk them into getting help, and that may just solve the problem. Fortunately because of my training with psychologist, being in therapy, I was able to get him to the hospital.

    Problems are solutions in the making, but we can’t solve what we don’t know how to solve, and asking for professional help is sometimes, a lot of times, the best route to take…

    Thanks Dave,
    Bob

  3. Hi Dave,
    Thanks for today’s newsletter – all your letters are very informative and useful. It amazes me that you know so much about Bi-polar when you don’t have it yourself. I’m bi-polar – unfortunately without a supporter at this time, but it helps to have your web site to refer to. I have to drive 30 miles one way to go to counseling and my Psychiatrist is a 1 1/2 hour drive (one way). So, I have to be very carefull and keep a “mood diary” because help is a drive away. I need to be able to see the “warning signs” ASAP.

    Keep up the great work!!

  4. Dave: One thing that DRIVES ME CRAZY when I am in an episode (medicated even) is people asking: “How are you doing?”, “Are you okay”, etc.

    I used to scream when I heard those expressions. A much better greeting for BP people (or anyone in therapy) is “Good to see you!”, “I’m glad you are reading this and hope you are well today.”

    Some of “us” feel like we are constantly bombarded with “ARE YOU OKAY” – when the answer is NO – but I’ll make it with help. No we aren’t okay. No, no, no. So quit asking. It just makes us question ourselves :” ARE we OKAY?” “WHAT is okay?????”.

    Regards!

  5. HI THERE……..,
    HMMMM…. Problems am lost for words i tend to solve every body else except my own then i have to take 10 steps back to my own, a think it easer to give addvise rather than to receive it. But if some one says somethink to me i all ways take it on board or am not stuborn, All so if someones not thinking straight it is hard to get through to them i no i have been there. Cos if you think about it even doctors, lawyers, therepists they must have there own problems then to top it every body else,s problem. But thats wot they get paid for. Mmmm a think al make that me next job am not saying i have the right addvise like.
    P.S I want a certificate x
    Take Care Linda x

  6. Hi,Dave you are doing good job
    IN my oponin bipolar disorder is more destuctive disease then cancer, hepatitis,i am saying this because cancer and hepatitis once cure didnot occur again but bipolardisorder once you recover from it.it will come back more severley then from early stage.reason behind it because scientists are still unbale to understand what are the main cause of this disease or mental illness.the other problem is that the disease symtoms vary in different persons.and most difficult thing is it diagonosis and its treatment.i am telling you about my experince that in under develop countries there very few neuropychiatrists are availble for adivce and oponin.once it struck to yours love one you didnot know what to do and where from you get help.bipolardisorder further classified into,bipolardisorder1,bipolardisorder2 an other name of this disease are mood disorder or manicpychosis.the differtial diagonosis of disease is also very difficult because it symtoms looks like aniexty,depression,phobia,schizopherina disorders.so hope you like my experince about this disease.i am telling you that i am not a doctor.with best wishes

  7. Hi, Dave, I enjoy reading all the information on bipolar disorder, especially todays’ commentary.

  8. Hello Dave,

    You dead right with your examples! Im a suporter and I also have Bipolar! My daughter is new on meds I have her going to therapy and even her shrink! I asked for her meds to be uped and he listened to me and did what I asked! I love her shrink cause hes not just giving her drugs he is listening to the people who deal with her all the time! He validated me when I told him my daughter has bipolar and he didnt through her on the highest dose he started small and I had him up it! Now she is feeling like her true self which she hasnt done since 2nd grade! I thank you for your E-mails cause even my daughter reads them!
    Heidi Alexander

  9. DAVE I SUPPORT A BIPOLAR SON WHO IS 40 YRS OLD AND KNOW SEVERAL PEOPLE WHO ARE BIPOLAR. YOU REALLY DESCRIBED IT WELL. PROBLEMS ARE SOLUTIONS IN WORK CLOTHES. YOU HAVE A VERY WELL IMFORMED WEBSITE ON BIPOLAR I ENJOY READING YOUR INFORMATION IT IS VERY HELPFUL THANK YOU KINDLY

  10. Worried Mum;
    Your son refuses “medication” for he as I and ALL others are FAR worse on them than off them.
    I do hope he tapered his way off them, or he will have an “episode” Also further Brain dammage.
    The meds & psych. are the Disorder. Dave is just another Puppet, a Clown for this FRAUD!
    “Therapy” causes brain damage which leads to the Behaviours listed in the DSM.
    Google cchr. For the Truth as I have lived it over 8 Years. They state it to be as I “lived” it.
    See if he will take 3000mg or so Fish Oil Daily, I am “BP” & on NO meds, this is great for me. You can get non smelly ones.
    David you should PAY those you “Console.”
    As you know NOTHING. Have you taken the Vile Chemical DECERIBRATION?
    Stayed Months in the Institutions, BEEN FORCE INJECTED with UNKNOWN Shit, seen a psych. ALONE as a “consumer?”
    NONE of the above & then some!
    AS you have BEEN NOWHERE & KNOW NOTHING, How on Earth do you possibly think you KNOW IT ALL? You PROVE to be a SHEEP, a preacher for the psych. religion….
    You read Books, & see psych.?
    That is ALL Bullshit.Propagander!
    You believe you know it ALL as ALL American Idiots believe the same!
    One FOOL told me: “You know nothing about psychiatry as you are not an American…”
    Glad I NEVER will be.
    Americans invented 2 things: Psychiatry, the FRAUD!
    AND FRIENDLY FIRE!
    BOTH of HUGE Danger to ALL of Humanity………
    The Debate Dave?

  11. Davis;
    You are either a Fool, or a Fraud?
    How on Earth does anyone with an IQ over 15 believe ANY a psychiatrists says or does?
    Even Dr.s’ Laugh at them!
    As you have NO actual experience with the Disorder, NOR thr aquiring of the Disorder. NONE AT ALL, WOW you read Books. I read a Book: “The Cow that Jumped over the Moon.”
    It has MORE credibility than what you , & they regurgitate.
    If you wish to know about the disorder, get yourself “Treated,diagnosed,& treated.”
    Yes ALL I know are “Treated” then “Diagnosed” If NOT “treated” NO disorder.
    You could have yourself “treated.” Then you will KNOW!
    However I do NOT recomend ANY “Treatment” as it DESTROYES THE MIND BODY & SOUL!
    AS ALL KNOW.
    WAKE UP, SHUT UP FOOL!
    THE DEBATE FOOL?

  12. HI….
    I would just like to add its easy to look in to some ones problems than it is to look in at your own problems.
    xlindax

  13. Well this is all easier said than done. My emotions over take me when I’m confronted with something or I am just halving a good old fashioned mood swing. i get ready to just throw it all away and walk away from my dreams and life in general. The power of positive thinking doesn’t even enter the picture while I am struggling. I feel like running from myself for sure!
    Wayne

  14. To TROY (or whatever your name is – I notice a “Mary-” in your email): When MY manic bipolar episodes go “untreated,” I am NOT myself. Although I told someone tonight, I would trade EVERYTHING I’m going through right now, for ONE manic episode – I KNOW that’s NOT the answer.

    AND – I do NOT believe that the meds CAUSE the bipolar; that is just cheap unreasoning. Line up 2 or 3 people with bipolar, and, while they’re in a manic, their symptoms are nearly ALL the SAME. Hyper-sexuality (where they become all-consumed with having sex, not caring with whom, risking AIDS and other STDs); spending money on “things” they don’t need or want, just to use that “plastic;” going DAYS without sleep, because of some UNREASONABLE goal or idea they can’t let loose of; not eating. TROY, do you see ANY of the above in how you were ACTING before you had medication “forced” on you? I’ll bet your high IQ wasn’t as high as you would like us other readers to believe.

    You get on this site and spew your inelegant prose toward Dave; as a result, the rest of us feel put-down, too. “Bipolar Disorder” is REAL, no matter how/why you deem it in denial. AND – I’m only talking about the “up” of the mood swings, not the “down.” Tell us; have you EVER been so exhausted and depressed that you have been suicidal? Answer THAT, and maybe someone on this blog can “show you the light.”

    Personally, I’m sick and tired of your tirades. If you don’t like what Dave writes, unsubscribe, and crawl back in the hole you came out of. You are certainly NOT an asset to the Supporters Blog. If anything, you worry and taunt those of us who have a REAL illness, and you make ME feel as if I’m “suffering” because of something I DID…

    BIG HUGS to all bipolar survivors and those who love us. May God bless you real good. I pray for my country.

  15. I am not familiar with using this method of communication or I would have done so before. I ma not particulaly responding to today’s letter. First, your daily letters have been helpful and supportive. I’m new to this as I have only just realised, after six rocky years, that my boyfriend is bipolar. I was subconsciously do the right thing (mostly, I’m human) in the way I handled it and all would have been as well as possible once we had discovered that medication is necessary as well as a GOOD doctor. Unfortunately, this doctor put him on pills and that was it and I, in my naivity thought all would be well.

    I am surprised that you say that your course does not deal with sex and infidelity. I think I could put up with almost anything except that, and that is what has happened. It is very painful, because I know this person loves me, that I am there best support in the world, and yet I have had to be strong and not tolerate this situation. It is my boundary. I think I have done right, as painful as it is. Does bi-polar mean diminished responsibility to your loved ones?

  16. I think that Troy guy missed his meds for the day. Troy, 99.9% of professionals (Doctors, therapists, etc.) ARE NOT BI POLAR.

    Troy, your comment is nonsense if you actually do have the disorder and care about yourself. You don’t have to believe everything that you read and this blog certainly is not, and does not claim to be, the be all, end all on the subject. Maybe even acknowledging you post is a mistake and all you want. If you wan t attention you can certainly go pay someone to listen to your nonsense for an hour.

  17. Sorry it’s so long.
    BOB;
    I have survived many psych. visits, and too many institutions in my short time.
    I am yet to assess a psych. who is willing to even discuss why I have the mood I do.
    How does the “dr” know what you feel, when the meds do to you the exact oppisite of what the “dr” tells you they do?
    ALL they EVER do with me is render me Comatose with Mind Destroying Drugs.QED? The one to make the diagnosis, & the drug cartels.
    First visit to “hospital I was Drugged into a Coma for a Week then told I was BP.
    Thus I truly believe I have merely Medicaly induced Brain Damage, which displays a little of DSM Behaviours.
    Entirly Iatrogenic Via Polypharmacy.
    On :antipsychotics” & OR “Moodstablisers” I am Far worse,Lonly, Depressed, angry, Scuicidal…
    Bob you seen a psycholigist, I am not allowed to see one of those as I am “psychotic” & “need medication”(like a Hole in the Head, NO that would be Far more Humane).
    Psycholigist MUST deal with the FACTS as they cannot preseribe “medication.”
    Hence I want to see one. My first psych. she got $21.6K/hour.
    She ended up telling me:
    “Their is NO pill or Injection that will change you,anyone or anything else, nor can I.”
    I then asked what then was their combined use or purpose. NO answer.
    I told her, she is sick in all ways, though she does not want my help. & profesionaly she made the tits on the Bull look useful. (I had told her this B4), though this time she responded:
    “You need not see me anymore if you do not want to.”
    I was elated.
    World Wide studies have proven far greater results whithout meds. & Far less Readmition. Carpenter or Carpender? & others.
    SCIENCE & MEDICINE also PROVE ALL psych “therapies” the Drugs, the ECT (Which is against the Geneva convention) & the Lobotomy.
    ALL of these “treatments” CAUSE Damage to areas of the Brain which it is PROVEN Damage to these areas CAUSE the Behaviours Listed in the psych. Bible. The DSM. TRUTH. CAN’T BE BEATEN.
    EDDIE;
    Is the only way people will listen to you for an Hour is if you pay them?
    Are you one who profits from this form or Tourture?
    ED, have you ever been in any institution, ever recieved Permanant Brain Damage, via force injection of Deceribating Chemicals?
    I think not.
    Though in the US at 15 you can refuse “Treatment.”
    SUZANNE;
    Mary, thats my Mothers Name. She was home when they made the connection. They seggested the address. I pay for it. B4 it was in my name. All emails sent say from Troy.
    I first went into a psych. Ward as I was Very scared as Their where Many Men after me. Followed & intimidated me for Months,their where too many of them. I had desturbed their end of Rummadan Feasting, at 4am. They where keeping me awake.Resturant beneath my Unit.
    I don’t know why I did it, as I had to leave for work at 5am anyway, thus of NO use 1 hour of quiet.
    Even Zen Monks get the shits; Ask 1.
    I got myself into the Ward, I told them the wrong date,I said it was ’50 or ’60 something, then DOH you whern’t here ’till ’74, they’ll know. They do not care. everything else I told them was True.
    Bit like “The Thud Experiment” Check it out, it’s on You Tube.
    I told the psych. why I was scared & I was their for protection, to hide.
    “where are they Now?”
    “Mabe they only wanted to scare me so I would move from Punchbowl, I am now 435KM away.
    One I had not seen told my Dad:
    “It’s good you came to get him, they will Kill him soon.”
    psych. did not test my story for truth. Told me things where co-incidental, & I was Delusional.
    Told me I was having “an acuite Depressive episode.”
    Wrote me up on 10mg Zyprexa, and Nightly “Vitimin B” injections.
    Even though I was a Voulenteer “consumer” I was Not allowed refuse even the “Vitimin B”
    The Thugs told me:
    “You can take it the easy way, or the hard way.”
    The “Vitimin B” Had me OUT in Minutes, Comatose for 20 Hours a Day, semiconscious & feeding for 4.
    The Slow Moving Sloth was a Cheeter in comparison. Not to mention its’ superior mind. As always when I am “medicated.” I can read 1 sentence many times and not have a clue what I read.
    None I know can Read whilst on any “medication.”
    On Just 2mg of respiridone. I can’t read. That also gives me a Headache.
    Well the “Vitimin B” was 4 Nights in a row, I then woke on a bed in the Group Room, after being K.O’d in my Room, readers Diagest everywhere one opened on my chest, I had not been reading for I could not read my Name I had no mind.
    I knew the fold up bed was not made by me it was Military precision, Where did it come from? The Group Room is cleaned out at 10pm, and Locked.
    I thought I would ask my psych. what happened, I or My room mate must have requested the move, possibly me as he snored loudly.
    I asked my psych.Thinking the Nurses would have made a report; She said:
    “That wasn’t you, that was Scott.”
    “Who’s Scott”
    “Another Guy in here.”
    I am yet to meet Scott.
    Whilst bearly semi-conscious just awake from a Coma, she upgraded me from Acuite Depression to BP.
    This was my first time, NO “mainia.”
    The “Vitimin B” was stopped, I was put on 2000mg Lithiun Daily, & 10mg Zyprexa.
    Had 2 MRI’s in 1 Week, & a Four Kit Lumbar puncture, with Sciatic Nerve strike, I made a lot of Noise, the “dr” laughed & said: “I’m not even in yet.” I looked at The one to order the LP he started to cry & left the room. WHY?
    He had told my Parents “We Need to do a Lumbar Puncture to see why he has Bi-Polar. The sooner we can find out why, the sooner we can fix it.”
    I knew this was all bs, I said NO for about 2 Hours.
    He told my parents I was desplaying “typical Behaviour. Their is nothing in the Lumbar Spine to damage. their is nothing there.”
    I was 26. He made my Mum sign s scrap of paper, did it in the Group Room Not sergury…
    Dad asked him of the results a Week later.
    “We got no Juice.”
    Still barely semiconscious I told the quack what it needs to record. So as I would be released, I would rather be delt with by any other organisation.
    One needs to agree with psych. so as to be released.
    So I stated: “I was quite unwell…. I feel much better now…Thank You.”
    she smiled and told me I could go home. As it was recorded on Cassette, and written down by many schoolgirls.
    Another Success.
    ALL LIES.
    If you want the 8 Years, I can send it as an attachment to your email address.
    A Woman told me she would be happy to sit in a Room full of people with “mental disorders” But NEVER wants to sit in a Room with 1 psychiatrist.

  18. Comment Number 6.
    Linda it seems your diction (Word Choice/useage), is getting worse.
    Is it you who had tremmour on Lithium, and instead of Just Lowering the dose; As Tremour is an Overdose sign. your psych. gave you a change of chemical?
    Perhaps this is the reason for you now sounding like an uneducated person.
    Whilst on 2000mg daily I had huge tremmors, dry Mouth. psych wanted to give me Epillium, for the tremour. I told the psych. I did not have or want Epilepsy, psych told me I would get used to it.
    I adjusted the dosage. I cut it to 1250mg a day.
    Now I take just 250mg a Day, as I read miniscule amounts protect the brain.How much is “Miniscule?” What is “Normal?”
    I knew tremour was an OD sign, as I read the Lithium users handbook he gave me.
    It also says to eat a little more Salt NaCl. Sea Salt, table salt. As the Li ion attaches to the Na ion for elimination. Low sodium levels, well Cramps, I don’t know what else.

    OK little one I still have a little insight/paranoia depending on which side of the fence you Choose to sit on.
    HMMMMM Having a go at me are ya? DOH!
    Very good, good to see that’s a sign of life.
    I don’t mind you can say what you want, & follow any Religion you chose even the psychiatric Religion.
    COULD we discuss things other than BP?
    I KNOW VERY LITTLE ABOUT BP.
    I WAS TOLD I HAD IT OVER 8 YEARS AGO. I try to find out about it, barely any applies to me.
    I do see I have things in common with some of you. Then again I should we are all Human.
    We are all different,yet the same.Their is the “Placebo effect” The Mind is the Most Powerful Tool.
    I may not be BP. Never was Pre psych.. No Symptoms at all.
    3 or 4 Years Post labeling I had Delightful “mainia” lasting over 2 Months whithout sleep. I still ran a Large Factory, my Ideas made a Fortune for the Owner. Now if I had an Original thought it would Die of Lonlyness.
    I believe “type 2 mania” The “Womans” verson. I was told to have the quack rule out type 2, don’t lok good. “Their are now 6 kinds of BP?”
    “Mania” was Wonderful. The lack of sleep was due to no Alcohol.
    Being an Alcoholic I needed to drink a lot to get 6 Nights of 4 hrs sleep per week. I will not say how much I drank.
    No Drink, No sleep. Simple.
    I went in as the Women I lived with where concerned, they knew I did not sleep. They also told me I was: “Too happy.” Very SAD World. Circa 2004.
    I have Medicaly Induced Brain damage. Caused by “medication.” Force fed to me in 2000.
    Profs. state these Drugs & all other psych “therapies” Damage parts of the Brain, such Brain Damage causes the Behaviours listed in the DSM. Self written psych. Bible.
    I am now an angry left Brained moreon. (Fool).(Can’t spell Moron).
    I never had anger pre psych. Now it’s my only emotion. I have NO emotion, or Anger.
    I want to see a Psycholigist, though I am not allowed, as “I am psychotic.” “I need medication.”
    Yes like a hole in the head, though that would be far more Humane, worse still NO Ca$h in it for psych.
    As psycholigist can not prescribe drugs, they must then have to deal with the causes of the issues.
    Appart from being Brain Damaged why do I have such anger…
    How to rewire my Mind?
    Restore Neurotransmitters?
    I will see if my Nurse can get me in to see one. She does a lot for me, she’s My Champion.
    In 08 psych. tried to get me scedualed, she hadn’t seen me in 4 Years I had made a Complaint….
    Professors of psych,one from the UK, the other from the USA Both told me:
    “WAT HAS HAPPENED TO YOU IS NOT ONLY UNETHICAL, IT’S ILEGAL WORLD WIDE.”
    So I reported the Crimes, psych. wanted me in. As then it’s all just a psychotic episode. Psych Registrah read my file, told me it has been changed. Doctored, Fancy that?
    My Nurse stopped the entrapment, she told me “They can’t do that. Why do they say that when they can’t do that? That’s entrapment.”
    She keeps me away from psych. & its’ feding ground. She knows I am unmedicated.
    I have seen 1 Counciler for 3 Years he told me their have been no changes in my mood, in 3 Years. I see him once a Month, My Nurse when ever she wants, sometimes she comes to see me at home.
    The Counciler, I can make him laugh or cry.
    I can’t find ANY worth in him, though I must see him.
    He is also perverted, loves it when I talk of sexual things, If I go the Hour whithout he complains. Well he says as I don’t get any, it’s good to at least hear someone is.
    “Counciler” Divorced 3 Times. He is about 50. I will ask him if he does Marrage/Relationship Counciling.
    I tell him things happened to me I thought where OK, they make him cry?
    Learned response, so as I think he cares? Probably.
    I told my Nurse this Year I want to be far less angry, as it is good for nobody.
    I told her I would do as she said, though No meds, and I know their will be no “hospital.”
    She did not exactly agree, though she and others told me I look & sound better.
    I would love to be able to Meditate better, I do OK though not Quite there…
    Do any know where to get Meditation Cd’s that work?
    I believe they would be most useful, same as Yoga Kandilini I think Mother of ALL yoga.
    Proven for over 7000 Years, psych. never will be proven.
    I hope to get help on the Neditation/Yoga side of things.
    Go the 5000mg of Fish Oil Daily.
    I also prepose to leave you folk alone more.
    Heres to Happier Times.

  19. Where is my response to Number 19’S ROT ED, Eddie,
    EDWARD;
    If I where medicated I would be far worse, yet I would NOT be able to read your Comment.
    Let alone respond, I sent earlier, it wasn’t posted.
    Fair enough I have 2 or more big ones up already.
    Not my site.
    Mine is http://www.freedommind.org check it out please.
    This site states the TRUTH.
    Type into Google also IAAPA. Or victiums of psychiatry.
    My Dad & my Nurse will NOT let me go in again, as they see it, the “treatment” is degenerating, it is the Disorder.
    They also keep me away from psych. & “Medicine.”
    Hence I function.
    I am NOT 1/2 in the head as good as per psych. Mind GONE hence NO life!
    Family RUINED also…. Thus psych. did its’ job.
    I Know I need help with Anger issues, post psych.
    OK short & sweet:
    Ed SAD you must pay one to listen to you, I have time, I do not need sleep, & I will listen for free.
    If Ed is the deluded psych. he sounds or otherwise I invite him to a debate.
    What part of any Fact I have stated Eddie is Nonsence?
    Dave I know you have done well by me & posted ALL my advice, opinions Knowledge GAINED via over 8 Years in the Field.
    Though I must converse with Ed, he NEEDS help. He is delusioned.
    Eddie Mate, have you EVER been Locked in a little Dark padded, sound proof Room,(Can be fun)!
    Bashed unconscious By Many thugs at a time & Force injected with Deceribating Antaginising Crap which of which you do not even know the Name?
    If you havn’t been their and Copped it, shut the F up.
    Please.
    If you are a “Treatment Virgin” You my Little friend know Zip.
    It is Morons like you who aid and abbet this FRAUDULENT Vile Sadistic Medieval trade!(I know I am the Worlds worst speller).
    Sorry people like you enrage me.
    I don’t tell a Pilot how to Fly Their Plane, as I havn’t had to do it EVER myself, theirfor I know Naught about it.
    Likewise you, my little friend. Possible member of the psych. Cult.
    That of which you know NOTHING about, you should BUT OUT OF.
    Otherwise you will only CAUSE ill feeling….
    NO SCIENCE, NOR MEDICINE BACKE ANY OF THE PSYCH. TRADE.

  20. SORRY DAVE;
    You did post my response to Edward.
    It’s so long I didn’t read it.
    I just thought I posted him his own invite to discussion/Debate?

  21. I feel that the help that you give to the suporter with bipoler is a blessing. I know that I have a very hard time with bipoler. But with the help of my Husband we get by. When I sign up for the help with Dave I didn’t read the his post that he sent me. I know now that it helps with everything that I need help with. My friend that I have got me hook up on this site and I am thankfull for that. I have four kids and I love them to death. It hurts me a lot that they have to see me go though the bipoler. I am wanting to get suport from other people with the bipoler and see how they cope with there bipoler and help from other people that want to have a friend ship that helps other people with bipoler. I am thankfull my husband becouse he does be on means of help. I coldn’t do it with out him and my dr. With me reading the emails snice I started reading them will help me cope with my bipoler. Thank you for your emails Dave.
    Sincerly
    Michele

  22. Absolutly 100%. No one is perfect, in fact maybe the chemical imbalence in bipolar is a gift and not a disability.

  23. I don’t know what to do anymore. Things have started to make sense to me since I found that my mom is bipolar and not just trying to hurt me. My mom’s sister confirmed that my mom is not the only one in their family. I found out that my husband’s family has bipolar running through it too. My daughter’s behaviour fit in, now my other daughter is also displaying symptoms. My husband seems to be slipping now too. And I can only wonder who is gonna be around for me if/when I slip. I don’t have any money to pay for your courses David…I am sure you think they are well worth it but the medicines and eating come first.

  24. Hi Dave, I just wanted to say how your emails have helped me and my sons. My first husband was bipolar and ended up committing suicide. We had 4 beautiful sons together and of them 3 have bipolar disorder. Thank God for the most part they are doing okay. Your support has really helped us all. Thanks.

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