Dealing With Bipolar? Critical Maintenance Procedure

Hi,

How’s it going for you today? I hope it’s a good day.

I have to tell you, I am not a car mechanic (no big surprise, huh? LOL) But I do practice good car preventative maintenance. I get my oil changed regularly. I flush the gas lines. I rotate the tires. I keep up the fluids. Now, do I like doing these things? Not especially. But do I like the alternative? Definitely not.

I’d hate to have my car overheat on the side of the highway on a really hot day just because I ran out of fluid. So I do it for good car preventative maintenance. It’s the right thing to do.

Well, it’s the same with bipolar disorder. You have to practice good preventative maintenance with bipolar disorder too, in order to stay stable.

So let’s talk about one of the types of preventative maintenance of bipolar disorder: Medication.

You don’t take medication in the middle of a crisis, right in the middle of a bipolar episode, and expect it to instantly stop the episode. You take it regularly, on a daily basis, to prevent the episode in the first place. That way it keeps you stable, on an even keel.

Just like a diabetic takes insulin on a daily basis to keep their sugar regulated, and doesn’t wait until they’re in the middle of a crisis to do it.

Another part of preventative maintenance for bipolar disorder is: A Psychiatrist.

The psychiatrist helps you control your disorder through management of your medications and the side effects from them, if necessary. This they do on a regular basis, so things don’t get out of hand – again, you wouldn’t go to see them in the middle of a crisis. You see them for regular appointments, when they can do the most good.

They can adjust medication dosages, change or add or delete medications, etc. They can watch and see how medications are affecting you.

Another part of bipolar preventative maintenance is: A Therapist.

The therapist works with you on a regular weekly or bi-weekly basis to help you deal with the issues surrounding having bipolar disorder. This helps you, for instance, to manage the stress and anxiety that you might have to face on a daily basis with your disorder.

You can learn skills, like anger management, stress management, and time management, among others.

Another part of bipolar preventative maintenance is: A Doctor (Family Physician).

A Doctor helps you by attending to your physical body and any other illnesses besides your bipolar disorder, such as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, etc. They will also do routine blood work for your bipolar medications, check liver function, etc.

Another part of bipolar preventative maintenance is: Bipolar Support Group.

Going to a bipolar support group helps you get feedback from other people as to how you are doing with your disorder. It’s great for both supporters and survivors.

Well, I have to go!

Your Friend,

Dave

  1. Hi I was wondering if you can send me symtoms of Bi-polar and how to recognize it. I believe my sons mom may be bi-polar. He keeps screaming when he has to go back and I know she blows up and so on. I know her emotions run out of control. So I am really looking for the symptoms to see if thats truely the case.

  2. You always say have a plan. And you are so very right.
    Before My BiPolar spouse and i were married he loved that we went to the dr together. Now he says he feels like a child when I go and he’d rather me not. I tried to say if he would stop acting like one he would not feel that way. But Episodes are hard on me and I’ve tried to plan what to do to prepare and how to try to handle things when he is yelling and screaming. And then of course afterwards he is sorry and I know he doesn’t mean it but at the same time I lose a piece of me like an onion peeling away. I wish there was a magic work I could say to bring him back but its just not possible I guess. I try to explain he would not like to live under such circumstances and even though he agrees it doesn’t help when they are in an episode. Any advice?

  3. thankyou for the information on bipolar. we did find a support group this week to start attending also. My son has finally reached the point where he wants to go to a dr. and get meds. he is out of control and his girlfriend left him with their baby. maybe it takes something like that to happen to make the final step. i just hope he keeps it up. he is willing to go to support group too. thankyou for the emails, i am forwarding them on to him. jeannie

  4. To KEVIN: I’m no medical professional, but I’ve suffered with bipolar disorder for 42 years, so feel I am qualified to offer SOME of the ways you can tell if a person has it. For one thing, bipolar disorder is associated with WILD mood swings, from euphoria and delusions to deep, clinical depression, sometimes at the same time, sometimes periodically. When a person becomes irritable, goes without sleep for extended periods of time, has gradiose thoughts and an insufferable religiosity (NOT clear, NOT real), then this “could” be a sign of mania. When a person feels listless, stays in bed for extended periods of time, takes no interest in anything, including their hygiene ( even NOT applying make-up or taking a shower), is not nterested in doing things they once enjoyed, is SAD to the point of suicidal thinking, then they are in a depressive epsode. I hope these symptoms of bipolar have helped; however, not all of these have to be present for a person to be labeled “bipolar.” I highly lsuggest you encourage your ex-wife to see a professional counselor for a diagnosis, especially since there is a child involved.

  5. Dear Dave and readers,
    My name is Lynn, and I’m a recovering alcoholic. I also live w/Bipolar II Depression, One Day @ A Time. If I were not SOBER, FIRST, I wouldn’t be able to care for my mental health, and I prolly wouldn’t CARE if I did!! I have a regular schedule of mtgs. of A.A., sponsor 2 women, have my own sponsor, and am in service to A.A. I take my meds religiously, and see my Dr. regularly. I’m currently on the waiting list for some more sessions @ my mental h ealth center. However, the County Board of Supervisors is considering closing these clinics, which couldn’t be a worse decision, and potentially a dangerous one!! We’re trying to fight it w/the help of 2 attny.’s, having forums and speaking out @ the Board mtgs. Dave, we could sure use your help and expertise here!! Thanks for letting me share, and vent a bit. Lynn S., Sacramento, CA

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