Bipolar? Use This To Help Prevent Problems

Hi, how’s it going? Hope you are doing well.

I just got my oil changed in my car. Now, I don’t know much about cars, but from what I understand, the oil is very important. It apparently flushes the car’s system. I know that you aren’t supposed to wait until the car is out of oil to change it. It is an issue of maintenance.

The same thing can be said about bipolar medicines. You shouldn’t wait until you are in the middle of an episode to take them. They are also meant to be a preventative medicine. This means that it may be able to keep relapses from happening in the first place. So they should be taken even when you are stable.

I know that many people don’t like the idea of having to take a medication for the rest of their lives. But it’s better than the idea of having to deal with all the pieces of a bipolar episode for the rest of your life. It’s better than dealing with the instability that comes with untreated bipolar disorder. And it’s better than losing everything you have and want because your bipolar episode allowed you to burn bridges.

Just think of it this way: Someone who has insulin-dependant diabetes will have to take insulin for the rest of their lives in order to stay healthy. Someone who has high blood pressure may have to take blood pressure medicine for the rest of their lives. Someone who has chronic seizures may have to take anti-seizure medication for the rest of their lives. It’s the same sort of thing.

Bipolar disorder is a medical problem that happens to affect the mind more than the body. And, since it is a medical problem, it needs to be treated in a medical way. There are no surgeries that can be performed to cure bipolar. There isn’t a cream you can rub on your forehead that will take it all away. There isn’t even a miracle-cure pill that you can take one time and it will cure you.

But there is such a thing as preventative medicine. Unfortunately, at this point in time we cannot cure bipolar disorder. But we can prevent it from taking over a person’s life. Isn’t that great news? But it can only be great news if you take your medicine that was prescribed to you and follow the rest of your treatment plan.

Now, if your medicine is wrong or if you are having problems with it, then you need to talk to your psychiatrist. If there is a serious problem then they can usually see you on an emergency basis, especially if it is during business hours.

Find out ahead of time what your psychiatrist’s policy is on emergency visits. It is always better to know ahead of time so you can be prepared. Also, keep in mind that some minor side effects are normal and usually go away within a short time after starting the medication. If you have any major side effects, then you should talk to your psychiatrist immediately.

They will know whether your medications need to be changed or altered. Also, if your medications need to be changed, then they will know whether you need to be weaned off of your current medication gradually, or if you can stop it all at once. Make sure you follow all of their instructions when it comes to this.

When you and your psychiatrist have worked together and found the mediation that is right for you, then it is important that you take it exactly as prescribed, without missing a dose. Also, know ahead of time what to do if you should miss a dose. Usually you either need to wait until the next dose is due or take it in between doses. Your pharmacist or psychiatrist will be able to help you determine that. It should also be on the pamphlet that came with your medications.

Taking the right medications regularly as prescribed can help prevent relapses and keep you stable. It is well worth the effort it takes to take them, even if it is for the rest of your life. Stability makes it worth it.

What are your thoughts on this?

Well, I have to go!

Your Friend,

Dave

  1. Dave,

    Had prepared a nice comment for you but something went wrong and it would not go through. Just wanted to say great emphasis on the medicine as I am going through a down time now. I do not know what I would do without the medicine. I have been taking it steady. It is very expensive and I am 65 right now.

    Again thanks and I do read all of your emails. Thanks for the help in this tough time for me.

  2. Trying again to get a message to you and not going through. You are right on with the medicines!!

  3. I am so glad to see you taking a stand and explaining why meds need to be taken even when a person is feeling “fine.” I had a friend who was the first person to offer bipolar as the reason for my behaviour. He recognized it becaue he is bipolar himself. He used to have blackouts that would run anywhere from one to three weeks. Even that didn’t teach him that he needed to take his meds as prescribed rather than when he felt like it.

    Bipolar meds are not aspirin. They have to be taken correctly regardless of how a person feels. As you said, it is also a preventative.

    Best wishes to all,
    Victoria

  4. While I agree with 99% of what you’ve shared, there is one piece that is not completely accurate. You can be compliant with your medication, meaning taking it regularly and as prescribed. It can work great. Yet, Bipolar Disorder is a mystery in some ways. Even on your medication you can have an episode that throws you into mania or depression. While I will always advocate compliance, it’s important to note that even doing the right thing all of the time doesn’t guarantee you will always be stable.

  5. It is so true that medication taken properly will help a person with bipolar. But, because it is such a mystery and so many younger people are developing this disorder, the proper medication isn’t always proper. Anti-psychotics can build up and become non effective, that’s why is it so important to have regular appointments with your psychiatrist. My son, brother, granddaughter and father all have bipolar. My granddaughter was diagnosed at the age of 7, she is now 17 and has regular weekly meetings with her councler and every 3 months with her psychiatrist. This disorder affects every person you come in contact with, from family to friends, teachers, even at church. My daughter and I educate as many people we can about this disorder, as well as constant study for ourselves. Dealing with close family members can be stressful and loving at the same time, once you learn how to deal with it. Thank you all for taking a stand for this disorder, the more people know about it the less afraid of it they are.

  6. Dear Dave and all readers:
    That abt. says it all.
    My name is Lynn and I’m a recovering alcoholic; I also live w/Bipolar II depression, one day @ a time. By the Grace of God and my active participation in the 12-step Program, I have had continuous sobriety for 30 yrs. now. I’ve been treated for major depression since ’91, and, in the last 2-4 yrs., it escalated to Bipolar cuz of my episodes of suicidal depression. It was also discovered that I am hypothyroid [=low], so I also take a daily thyroid supplement. [Low thyroid can cause or contribute to depression.] I have been on ‘the right combination’ of meds for abt. a yr.-and-a-half now, and was not admitted to the ‘nut-hut’ @ all, this last winter season; I also am affected by S.A.D. [=Seasonal Affective Disorder=worse depressions in the shorter winter days w/less sun and lots of RAIN.] For all of this, I am extremely grateful. I believe that, if I don’t do what I need to do to take care of my alcoholism on a daily basis, I would never be able to manage my depression, and it’s likely that my meds would not/could not, work properly. I believe I have truly been blessed by God, and am also grateful to my doctors, case managers, and therapists, who are my treatment TEAM, which aids my stability, too. Thanks for letting me share. Lynn S., Sacramento, CA

  7. my girlfriend was diagnosed “bipolar” many years before we ever met. she mentioned possibly getting on medication to help. at the time i shrugged it off cause i didn’t really understand the way it works. now looking back at the struggles we’ve been through the last eight years. right now we are going trough a bad one she left the house sunday night saying she would be back in a few hours. now its friday morning and she still hasen’t come home she’s called a few times on monday and teusday then wedensday she called and said she need to think about if she even wants to try at all anymore. just last week we were happy in love. rough times money wise but still in love. two years ago she tried taking affexor but she had a very hard time keeping on the routine. and this turned out to be even more painful for me as she ended up cheating with others guys. i love this girl but i’m at my wits end. right now i haven’t been able to reach her since wed evening. i’ve heard she got a couple tats one covering her entire arm the other right next to her personal area. what am i to do? walk away and find happiness elsewhere? well this is where i’m at you asked for a response well here it is!

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