Bipolar Lesson From Red, White, and Green Grapes

Hi,

Hey, how’s it going?

I was thinking about something today.

How come if a grape is a grape is a grape, they have to come in three different colors – red, white, and green? What’s the difference? It’s still a grape, isn’t it?

And then I started thinking about it in relation to bipolar disorder (I always think of everything in relation to bipolar disorder LOL)

Everybody’s different. But everybody who has bipolar disorder still has the same disorder.

Everyone that has bipolar disorder still has to take medication and go on a treatment plan.

But does everyone have the same treatment plan?

Let’s think about that.

First of all, let’s think about medication.

Yes, everyone has to take medication, but not everyone is on the same medication.

You might be on “red grape” medication, the next person might be on “white grape” medication, and the next person might be on “green grape” medication, but it’s all still bipolar medication.

The important thing, though, is that you’re all on some type of medication, because that’s crucial for management of bipolar disorder..

Ok, now let’s talk about therapy.

You might like “Talk Therapy” – let’s call that “red grape” therapy. The next person might like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy” – let’s call that “white grape” therapy. And the next person is doing great in family therapy – “green grape” therapy.

But you’re all in therapy, and therapy is very important in management of bipolar disorder as well. Whatever type of therapy you choose.

Now, everyone who has bipolar disorder should be living a healthy lifestyle. I go over that in my courses/systems:

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A healthy lifestyle includes such things as eating right, exercise, and sticking to a good sleep regimen.

However, a “red grape” person might prefer fruits and vegetables, while a “white grape” person might be a meat and potato person, and a “green grape” person a mixture of both.

All of them acknowledge the need for exercise, but each might choose a different type.

And although all of them keep a good sleep schedule, they might each go to bed and rise at different times.

Now, there are the other elements that make up a good treatment plan, such as stress reduction techniques,
relaxation exercises, hobbies, productivity, etc.

Although each is important to a good treatment plan and management of a person’s bipolar disorder, this is
where the true “type of grape,” or individuality steps in.

The “red grape” person might use meditation as their stress reduction or relaxation technique, the “white grape” person might use quiet music as theirs, while the “green grape” person might use a dark room and laying down for awhile for theirs.

The important thing is what you do what works for you.

“Red grape’s” hobby is scrapbooking. “White grape’s” hobby is skiing. “Green grape’s” hobby is working in her garden.

Yet each enjoys her hobby just the same. Each one has a wonderful supporter who loves them and stands by them.

They each have a different relationship from the others, but they all understand how important it is to have a
supporter.

All their supporters go to different support groups as well.

Say each person makes a To-Do List for their productivity.

Do you think they’re going to list the same things on each of their lists? Of course not. The important thing is that, as part of the management of their disorder, that they are productive.

There are many different parts to make up a good treatment plan, and as many ways to implement one as there are people who use it.

Choose one that works for you, just like the examples in this email.

And be flexible! Too rigid a plan (or someone else’s plan), and you won’t stick to it. If you need to change something around, do it. As long as you follow a good treatment plan that helps you to manage your bipolar disorder.

Know what I mean?

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  1. Dave Oliver: I really like your analogies that you present every day. I have seldom taken prescription medication as I am borderline bi-polar. I took prozac for a time several years ago. Recently my doctor prescribed an anti-depressant. I, however have several family members with many different degrees of bi-polar. I believe I stated before that I have a nephew who lost both kidneys because of thirty years of lithium. Thanks for all of the good information. When are you going to be on the Today show? Your friend, Chuck Lessard

  2. HI THERE….
    My treatment plan is to keep my self busy. And to find a job that suits me something i will enjoy doing that is what i am aiming for. Just keep thinking positive i no its hard some times.

    Take Care Linda x

  3. Regarding BP, it is my thinking, as I’ve lived with one, and supported one. I’m a hunter. An office worker too. I love living life to the fullest. But I think that different people, who are on different medication, get what they get because of gravity. You see, our blood has got a good element on its side of fighting the depleted energy, iron. And what controls us is our brain. You see, our brain needs oxygen in order to breath just like we’re breathing. And this gravity flow, sometimes I think it interferes with our daily lives but we fail to detect it. Stars form in a very magnetic area. I think that gravity and magnetism are one force, like you think grapes are grapes are grapes! 🙂 If you want to know how I think they’re same, just email me and ask me, at jaupak@hotmail.com

  4. I must be a “purple” grape! I follow a good treatment plan, am finally on the right cocktail of meds, and go to my therapist every other week. I tried Seroquel (on my suggestion) after taking Zyprexa for 3 years – and it screwed me up. I’m back on Zyprexa, and feel good with it.

    Just as all “normal” people are different, so, as you mention in your email – all bipolar survivors are different. What works for one, doesn’t necessarily work for another. It takes trial and error sometimes to find the right “combination of ingredients” to help us become “stable.” I feel like I am one of the fortunate ones, in that I have not had a manic episode for 32 years! I do NOT have a live-in supporter, but rely on the professionals at the Community Mental Health clinic for my “support.” Fortunately, I haven’t had a significant weight gain, or any sign of diabetes; but my blood is taken every 3 months to keep me “stable.”

    I hope that the bipolar survivors out there are doing A-OK with their meds, talk therapy, and hobbies. It IS possible to live a happy and (somewhat) healthy life with bipolar disorder.

    BIG HUGS to all bipolar survivors and those who love us. May God bless you real good. I pray for my country.

  5. yes i agree,some people are more red grapes then green. Ilike to cross stitch when i fell an episode comming on or to keep one from comming on.

  6. Dave;
    Does that make me the Black Grape?
    No Colours antmore….
    As “medication” & psych. I & ALL I speak to find is the disorder!
    Yes as ALL know the Brain Damage caused by the “medication” causes the behaviours listed in the DSM!
    What is “Therapy?”
    The psych. is mearely a Pusher. ALL I & those I know EVER got where “Medications.” NO Talk, NOTHING.
    OK I WAS GIVRN A 4+ KIT LUMBAR PUNCTURE: “TO FIND OUT WHY HE’S BP. WHEN WE KNOW WE CAN FIX IT QUICKER.”
    A WOMAN HAD HER BRAIN VAPORISED WITH SHOCK “THERAPY.” THEN THEY LOWERED HER MEDS, SHE CAME TO. THEY SAID :”LOOK AT THE “THERAPY RESULTS.
    SHOCK “THERAPY” I THOUGHT WAS ILLEGAL, YET I HEAR IT & LOBOTOMY, ARE STILL DONE.
    YUES IT IS AGAINST THE GENEVA CONVENTION, & HAS NO SCIENCE NOR MEDICINE TO BACK IT.
    NOTHING PSYCH. DOES IS BACKED BY SCIENCE NOR MEDICINE.
    HENCE MEDICAL FOLK REFUSED TOP WRITE THE DSM.
    PSYCH. MADE THEIR OWN UP.
    A PROFESSOR OF PSYCH. TOLD ME “SOON WE COULD HAVE THE WORLD ON THESE MIND, BODY & SOUL DESTROYING DRUGS. IT’S DIABOLICAL.”
    DAVE DID YOU RUN FROM THE DEBATE I OFFERED?
    GUES THAT WOULD BE THE WISE THING TO DO.
    AS WHAT YOU PREACH HAS NO BACKING, PROOF, OR SUPPORT FROM ANYWHERE.

  7. To “TROY” (or whatever your name is):

    I don’t know what perverse pleasure you get in writing on Dave’s Supporter’s Blog inccessantly, with your annoying and baseless arguments – but you are making me MAD!!

    I have written to you before on this blog; I have no wish to DEBATE you, as you are decidedly of one mind as to how “iatrogenic” the antipsychotic meds are. I do NOT believe they “cause” bipolar – they are used to “control” the chemical imbalance that is in the brain of all bipolar people. If you read the drug “fliers,” they ALL say they DON’T know HOW they work, or why – but they DO work.

    When I’m in a manic episode, I am totally OUT OF CONTROL, with impulse problems such as being on a sexual merry-go-round, and spending like a drunken sailor. At least the psychiatrists (the good ones, at least), recognize certain behaviors that indicate that a psychotropic drug IS called for to inhibit the impulses to a more manageable behavior. I would much rather be stable and as “normal” as I can be WITH the drugs, than uncontrollable and annoying people with manic drivel. You see, when I’m totally manic – I don’t make much sense, either…

    So – take YOUR drivel and try NOT to annoy the rest of us. I, for one, am tired of it.

  8. Suzanne, Thank you for telling Troy not to annoy the rest of us. I was taking zyprexa and it was great for me. I am now taking abilify and it has done wonders for me. I just wanted you to know about it because I
    think it is a fairly new medication.

  9. Hi David, I would like to say thankyou for your daily information I draw strength from it… My 11 year old son was diagnosed with pre pubis bipola last oct after counciling since he was 4yrs old, he suffers 8 or more extremly aggresive eppisodes a day wich is difficult for our whole family he has 3 brothers. We have tried Risperdal, Seroquel and now Eppalin(Valpro) with non of them making any dent in his behaviour.
    I have been filling your daily notes and mini course so I can read over them again, but when I went to do todays my file has been deleated could you please resend them to me… much appreciated Trish

  10. I would like to hear more about the nutritional end of this disease. Most Drs. are not trained in the nutritional aspects of this or general medicine. Iv’e asked..I dont have the money to shell out for a nutritionist right now….I do agree about the grape thing tho..were all different with something in common.
    I,m getting a lot out of your book too! So if any one has a special regimine,or certain foods that are good for bipolars..anything I would appreciate some feedback..because frankly smoetimes I just dont feel like eating in the morning.

  11. I agree with about all you have said. I am a supporter of a bipolar teen. He has doing very good, but now we have a big problem. He can’t get a medical card and his medication is just too expensive to purchase. My daughter is going to talk to his doctor to see if she has any thoughts. She has applied for some type of medical assistance but it will take up to a month to get approved. What do people do that don’t have insurance to help them out with their meds cost? Any suggestions?

  12. Dear Vicky Grant, Im on lithium, I go to Walmart,and I get my presciption for anywhere from 4.-six dollars depending on how many pills I get.the DR. usually prescribes me for a months supply, I take 4 a day.Just go into Walmart and ask about their $4.00 presription program. I hope you get this..Its really great. Good Luck, Angela

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