David,
Thank you for putting out this information. I will work at getting the necessare funds together to get the material. I have invested 11 years into a marriage and I truely still love my wife. She is asking for a divorce only based on her ideas in her head. She wants to rewind time and live on her own now that she can financially do so. She does not want a family or any tie downs like a child or husband. She wants to be responsible to no one. She has recently connected with an Ex boyfriend who is putting things into her head. According to my wife there relationship was a really bad one. He was very abussive and he treated her really bad without going into to many details. I am having a really hard time understanding this need to go back to something that was superficial and juvenile. She has started going to therapy on her own and so have I. She says that she wants to committ to 6 months of therapy but does not want to go. I hope that the material will help me get a grasp on what I can look forward to.

Regards,

J. Montefalcon