Different is Not Always Bad with Bipolar

Hi,

I have something really interesting to tell you today.

You might not know this but I have about 14 people now who work for me with one or more mental illnesses. One has even been diagnosed with 10 different disorders, and she is still able to work for me.

Am I out of my mind? Some people think that I am.

But I want to tell you two things.

First, that if you have one or more mental disorders, you can still do well.

Just look at this one person’s story:

She is a writer who has 10 different disorders, starting from when she was 12 years old! She is

on disability, but she loves to write, so maybe that’s part of it – she is doing what she loves to do.

Do you think that’s her secret? I think her secret is that she is stable. And she is stable because she follows a good treatment plan, including taking her medication and seeing a therapist on a regular basis.

Secondly, I have found that people who have mental disorders like bipolar disorder are really

very smart when they are stable. It’s amazing actually. I have found people in my company that once stable can do tasks and projects that nobody else can do or wants to do. These people can think faster, better, solve problems faster, and are solution-oriented, proactive, take initiative, etc.

It’s amazing!

If your loved one has a mental illness, remember this. Great things in society were done by many people with mental illnesses.

Edgar Allen Poe was a great writer, and they say that even he had a mental illness. There were (and are) a number of great authors, actors, composers, writers, etc., who they say had (have) mental illnesses. They say that even Van Gogh had a mental illness. Believe it or not, even Abraham Lincoln was thought to suffer from bipolar disorder because of his documented

depressions. And Mozart, too!

People today include:

• Patty Duke

• Carrie Fisher

• Jane Pauley

• Jim Carey

• Robin Williams

• Ted Turner

• Mel Gibson

• Patricia Cornwell

• Robert Downey Jr.

• Tim Burton

If someone says you are odd, the only reason you would be odd is because you have such

tremendous potential. But does that mean you have a mental illness? Not necessarily.

Many times, I talk about the stigma associated with mental illness, and that it’s due to society’s fear of people who are different than they are. Different? Smarter? More creative? If your loved one is these things, it’s not something to be afraid of.

As long as they are stable, and taking their medication and following a good treatment plan, you can remain supportive without fear of them. Remember about the people I told you about who work for me. Think about all the famous people I told you about, both in the past and the present.

Different is not always bad. It just means that you look at things differently, as people with bipolar disorder do. I call it “coloring outside the lines.” Or, as it is more commonly known, “thinking outside the box.” I can always count on the people who work for me to do that.

If your loved one seems different than other people, embrace that difference. It can be a good thing.

Well, I have to go!

Your Friend,

Dave

  1. My son who has been diagnosed with schizo-affective disorder with the manic part of bipolar is extremely bright, talented, and creative. I just wish he wasn’t in denial about his mental illness and would follow his treatment plan. His creativity takes a negative, paranoid, and violent turn when he’s not on track.

  2. Yes David, I agree wholeheartedly. I have read all Carrie Fisher’s books, plus Margaret Trudeau (I’m Canadian lol). As long as I’m taking my medications (which is every day), I am fine. I am very intelligent and creative. I write short stories and got a 3.5 GPA at college, which I recently completed,to be a social worker. I can remain focused on the task at hand, and am perfectly capable of doing many things…as I’m sure most other bipolar folks are. Just stay on those meds! They do work wonders.

  3. I agree because God made each of us different. We have lots of commonalities, but the truth is … we’re all very, very different and not only in our looks, but also in our thought pattern and the way we process things. God is so awesome, and so are each of us!

  4. This is wonderful to hear, but the problem of getting my son to take his medicine correctly is constant. Just when we get him on track and on a good regimen of medication and he starts to improve – he starts abusing his medication or not taking it correctly and gets manic, paranoid, delusional and confrontational. This has happened over and over for the last two years. He was diagnosed with bipolar disorder 10 years ago and has gotten progressively worse. When he is paranoid and delusional NOBODY can get through to him. No matter how many people tell him he needs to see his doctor or check in to the hospital – he stays in denial and continues on with his self destructiveness. There is no help with MHMR or the police department or the legal system – I’ve been there and tried all of that. Always “he has to be a danger to himself or others.” He is – but he is unable to see it because he is living in a delusional world. At the same time he drives me absolutely crazy with phone calls and late night ringing of the doorbell (always arguing because he says I don’t believe his rants about the marines being in his house, and his house being bugged, and how everyone out there is out to get him and they can read his mind and his thoughts,) and I just can’t take any more. What can be done about THIS kind of mental illness? When NOBODY can convince him he needs to get help?????

  5. Hi, Dave and readers.
    My name is Lynn and I’m an alcoholic; I also live w/Bipolar II and take meds on a daily basis. I have found this ‘phenomenon’ also in Alcoholics Anonymous. Our ‘Big Book’ says that some of us will never earn the previous salary in our lifetimes. But recovering people go on to get married, have families [or 2nd families!!], go back to college, etc., etc. I appreciate being able to share here, cuz I don’t ‘do blogs.’ Thanks for listening.
    Lynn S.
    grateful alkie

  6. When I was a kid growing up other kids would tell me, “You’re weird!” My reply would be, “I’m not weird, I’m unique!” Even as an adult I just couldn’t relate to most people. You’re right about us. I make beautiful Christmas wreaths, paint on wood crafts, bead jewelry, & on top of that I’m mechanically inclined. God blessed me with many gifts. So having a mental illness isn’t all bad. My psychiatrist told me we’re also one to lean on in an emergency situation because we seem to know just what to do. I was a lifeguard many years ago but I never panicked when something happened. I think it’s great that someone else noticed that we have a great deal to contribute even though we’re weird. Hee!Hee! Now please don’t take that seriously.

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