Bipolar? Follow the Directions

Hi,

How are you doing?

I’ve got to tell you about the funniest thing that happened.

You know how we’re taught to follow directions from the time that we’re a child, right?

But you also know that it’s typical for men not to follow directions. I mean, women complain about that all the time about men.

Not me – I follow directions (I learned the hard way).

But my friend?

He’s a typical macho type man – no following directions for him.

He went to put this toy together for his kid.

I thought it looked really complicated and, like I said, I would’ve followed the directions (all 3 pages of them!).

So he’s putting together this toy, which had like a gazillion pieces to it.

So I said, “Are you sure you don’t want to follow the directions?”

And he said, “Dude. I know what I’m doing.”

An hour later, sweating and swearing…

I asked him, “Are you sure you know what you’re doing?”

He just grunted at me.

Another hour and a half…

Still sweating but no longer swearing, my friend pronounced the project done.

I looked at all the leftover pieces doubtfully, but didn’t dare say a word.

You’ll never guess what happened (well, maybe you will). Scroll down to find out.

Keep scrolling…

Almost there…

The minute his son touched the toy, the whole thing fell apart! LOL

It was hilarious (at least to me)!

This time I couldn’t resist saying something, so I said, “Dude. Maybe you should have followed the directions.”

It was funny to me, but it sure wasn’t funny

to him.

But he brought it on himself by not following the directions.

There are times when it is crucial that you follow the directions.

With your medications, for example.

Sometimes they can be very confusing.

The directions might say to take it four times a day, or every four hours.

So you might wonder when to take it, or question if you have to take it at night.

But you can (and should) ask the doctor or pharmacist to clarify the directions for you, because it’s imperative that you take your medications right.

You have to follow directions, or you may not have a positive outcome, like my friend.

Like in my courses/systems, which give you directions on how to reach stability.

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You need to do what your doctor and other professionals tell you to do.

They’re looking out for your best interests, and they know from experience what works best for people who have bipolar disorder.

That’s why they give you directions, and you need to follow them if you want to get better.

There are pieces to stability, just like there were pieces to my friend’s project.

And you need to follow the directions to get the pieces all put together right.

Are you someone who follows directions?

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  2. I used to “tweak” my medications, by self-medicating with, first, alcohol, and then morphine, neither of which helped my psychotropic meds to work. I quit drinking in 1999, when I was put on a different med regimen. Then, for a lark, I took up smoking weed WITH my morphine and other drugs. Of course, at the time, I didn’t think that would have an effect on me. I enjoyed the “high” when I was with other people, but it wasn’t the same when I was alone, so I just up and quit 2 years ago. Now, I follow my prescriptions to the letter. It also helps to have a med box and “bubble wrap” for the Klonopin, so I don’t forget how many I’ve taken. Strict compliance with your meds is MANDATORY for stability, and…right now, I’m stable, thank God.

    BIG HUGS to all bipolar survivors and those who love us. Ma God bless you real good. I pray for my country.

  3. At last I managed to speak to my loved one’s psych about the drinking, so he brought up the subject at the last appointment. He won’t listen to me, but hopefully he will listen to his psych. He has not been following any directions for quite some time. He has been “down” for a long time and only a couple of weeks ago began to cheer up a little. Then the other night, on the drink, he started to talk about God in a certain way, which alarmed me. I think I have done the right thing by talking to his psych and hope he will keep an eye on his drinking and prevent an episode.

  4. Sherie,
    Thanks for offer to be my ‘friend.’ Ohhh..how I need a ‘friend.’ I am all alone here, thinking…ohh…if I just has a ‘friend.’ And then you came along…how fortunate I am to not only have your friendship, but your support. Wow! Now, I can go out of this world knowing someone extended their hand to me and really gave a !(*@#$@!$@

  5. tried em all
    THERE IS A REASON WHY YOU HAVE NO FRIENDS. As much fun as this has been, i have no desire to continue communicating with you. Go about your misery,and i will LIVE my life.

  6. Sherie,
    I would hope that as a psych nurse, you do NOT speak to your patients as negatively as you just did to me in your above post. I don’t need or want your ‘friendship’ either. You wrote to me, I did not reach out to you…I don’t need insultive people like you. I have had enough of this kind of ‘talk’…thanks, but no thanks!

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