Bipolar Disorder Can Change

Hi,

Did you ever have a time in your life when things were going along a certain way…But then all of a sudden things changed? For example: You had plans for a certain career…But then found yourself in a totally different career than the one you had foreseen yourself in? Or…Had you imagined marrying a certain type of person…But found yourself instead married to a completely

different type of person than the one you imagined you would marry? These are just examples. But you get what I mean.

The thing is…We can’t plan for every eventuality in life. Sometimes, no matter what we do…

The unexpected happens. Things change. And there’s nothing we can do to help that. There’s something important you need to know about bipolar disorder, in case your doctor didn’t tell you…Bipolar disorder can change. There are different kinds of bipolar disorder. And you can be diagnosed with one type of bipolar disorder, but as you get older, you can actually end up

with a different type of bipolar.

Here’s a case study:

Sylvia had bipolar disorder for most of her life, but wasn’t diagnosed with it until she was older. When she went into bipolar episodes, she always went into manic episodes, though. She never experienced the bipolar depressions she heard so much about. However, when she was well into her 60’s, Sylvia experienced a bipolar depressive episode that thoroughly confused her, since she had never had one before. It was a particularly bad one, where she couldn’t even get out of bed for three weeks. When she eventually came out of it, she asked her psychiatrist about it, and he said that since she was older now, her bipolar disorder had changed. They went over her triggers and found out that, in fact, her age did have something to do with her depression.

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Here’s the thing about aging and bipolar disorder. As you get older, there are other issues that affect you other than just your bipolar disorder, but that can contribute to a bipolar episode.

For one thing…You’ve heard of “senior moments,” right? Where you start to have memory problems as you get older? Some people do get depressed over that issue. Another thing that can lead to depression in older adults is not being able to do the things they used to do just because of the aging process itself. At first there can be a sense of denial, and they might still try to do those things…But then get frustrated when they find that they can no longer do them. There might even be some anger before there is the inevitable acceptance. Or they might experience depression, especially if they have bipolar disorder.

The “Empty Nest Syndrome” can contribute to a bipolar depressive episode, too. As children get older and leave home, your role changes, and that can cause problems, even making you depressed if it’s hard for you to accept the new change and the fact that your children (and you) are getting older.

Physical illnesses beset older people more frequently as well, and that can be a cause for depression. There are normal things like high blood pressure and high cholesterol that older people have to contend with…But there is also the fear of stroke and heart attack as well.

All these things can combine to give a person with bipolar disorder the risk of having a bipolar depressive episode even if they’ve never had one before.

Well, I have to go!

Your Friend,

Dave

  1. how about thinking of cultivating a romantic relationship with a prospect who could potentially be bipolar….instead of pretending it’s our family members or friends that have the bipolar???? It’s not the first thing a person who wants marriage does yet…..

    at first blush, one may say why would anyone want to do that (i like my life just the way it is, without having to commit to someone else’s harshness if the proper medication is not taken). the reality is this, no one wants to be in a ‘forced situation’ however i think it’s quite possible to be a relationship where the loved one has a problem – so you got me – it’s not a relative, not a son, not a daughter not quite just a friend it’s perhaps a love interest…..i watch soaps and this actor has this very condition and it goes very undetected; In fact he works functionally, i’ve read his marriage is successful and his children love him.

    secret to his success: he takes his medication (willingly) so the coworkers and the spouse dont have a problem….dont’ know about his Boss but i’ve also read his wife wouldnt’ trade him for someone without the disorder……Try Love — that really does work – even your articles are geared toward a “loved one” with Bipolar…….if that person feels and experiences the love, then his surrounding naturally acquiesce to accommodate him/her. A functional support system. by the by his name is Maurice Benard (he plays Sonny Corenthos) on television; if I had a husband that adorable, I’d be part of his solution not problem…

    the reason things often don’t work out, is the nonwillingness to make it work. One has to be willing to be love, be loved and want love…..if someone doesnt want your love, don’t force it upon them either….it’s like medication – they have to want to be better as a result of the problem not be given a problem as a result of another’s selfish endeavor. There’s a young man that even said to me, I feel as though I’m losing you….(I looked at that as a way of him saying, you are going to make decisions based on your own wants/desires/and willingness; isn’t that what not being miserable or being sicked all about?

    Thanks again,love works

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