Hi,<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve been thinking about something, and wanted to share my thoughts with you. It\u2019s about what happens when you try to accomplish too much too fast. Think about it.<\/p>\n
When you try to accomplish too much too fast, you are just setting yourself up for failure, because you\u2019ll never be able to do it. It also gets very discouraging for you.<\/p>\n
Also, if you don\u2019t know how long something should take, you can start to think it\u2019s taking
\ntoo long. For example, after an episode. It could take up to a year to fully \u201cfix\u201d the after
\neffects of an episode.<\/p>\n
Like the financial ruin \u2013 you can\u2019t fix a bankruptcy in just two weeks! But some people think you can just do it overnight! We don\u2019t rush the stroke victim or even the cancer victim, why do we rush the victim of bipolar disorder?<\/p>\n
Thinking that they should be over an episode after just a week or two is just plain unrealistic
\nexpectations. Would we have that same expectation if they were getting over a physical illness?
\nThen why are we expecting it from a bipolar episode?<\/p>\n
There are certain things in life that take a certain amount of time to happen. It\u2019s just the way it has to be. Think about things in nature. Like the butterfly \u2013 it starts off as a caterpillar\u2026then it goes into a cocoon\u2026 and only after a certain period of time does it metamorphose into that beautiful butterfly! It just doesn\u2019t happen overnight. And if you interrupt it at any point in the
\nchain of events, the whole thing would be ruined!<\/p>\n
Some things just can\u2019t be rushed. Other things just have to take place in a certain order. And still other things have to take place at a certain time. Wanting your loved one who has bipolar
\ndisorder to get over their episode overnight is like wanting them to be that beautiful butterfly without going through the cocoon phase!<\/p>\n
Some things are just worth waiting for. You just have to be more patient sometimes. I know it\u2019s hard to be patient sometimes. It was hard for me with my mom, too. But I had to learn to be patient with her as she learned how to manage her bipolar disorder and get over her episode. It didn\u2019t happen overnight. It took time.<\/p>\n
Some supporters also expect their loved one to go right back to being themselves after an episode, and sometimes that just doesn\u2019t happen either \u2013 that\u2019s something else that might take some time.<\/p>\n
Some family members make this mistake, too, at the very beginning: They think, good, now that they are diagnosed, they can just take a pill and they\u2019ll be better. Then they get frustrated when it doesn\u2019t happen right away. It takes time even in the beginning to get used to the diagnosis.<\/p>\n
Well, I have to go!<\/p>\n
Your Friend,<\/p>\n
Dave<\/p>\n
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Hi,<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve been thinking about something, and wanted to share my thoughts with you. It\u2019s about what happens when you try to accomplish too much too fast. Think about it.<\/p>\n
When you try to accomplish too much too fast, you are just setting yourself up for failure, because you\u2019ll never be able to do it. It also gets very discouraging for you.<\/p>\n
Also, if you don\u2019t know how long something should take,<\/p>\n