Hi,<\/p>\n
I came across this post on my blog the other day, and feel like I need to respond to it, as this woman talks about so many problems:<\/p>\n
\u201cHi Dave, this is a good one, really made me think about my supporter, oh wait, I do not have
\nany! I am all alone in dealing with my Bi-polar, even though I am married\u2026.my husband is so
\nnot a supporter! he thinks Bi-polar is just all in the mind, and I need to be stronger, and not be so
\nweak! (and he is bi-polar to, but refuses to deal with it!) So I deal my Bi-polar on my own, read
\nyour fanstastic information here, read books onto how to help control it. I am not on any medication, have not been for a while, I was many years ago\u2026thinking maybe I may need to be, I am under a lot of stress and depression, as my marriage is failing, it feels that way, my husband and I are not doing very well, pretty far apart, argue, fight, all that great stuff in marriage. So I am not sure what to do with all of this, feel very alone and alineated, no one to talk to, no one to turn to, not sure how long this can go on, but dealing with it the best I can.\u201d
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\nSo many problems! I feel so sorry for this poor woman. But let me address the issues one at a time. The first thing she talks about is not having a supporter. This is such an important issue.
\nWhether you have bipolar disorder or are supporting someone who does, it is so very important that you have a good, strong support system to help you. Especially if you\u2019re the supporter.
\nBecause if you are the only one your loved one has to depend on, you will burn out.<\/p>\n
And you also need others to whom you can turn so that you have support for yourself, just to take care of yourself, so that you can continue to take care of your loved one. So having a good, strong support system is crucial to being able to manage bipolar disorder. You just can\u2019t do it alone. At the very least, you need a team of medical and mental health professionals to support you with a good treatment plan in place to help you. And this woman says nothing about that.<\/p>\n
In fact, she clearly states another HUGE problem: That she is NOT on medication! That could be the crux of all her other problems. No, there is no cure for bipolar disorder yet. But there is treatment for it. And the best treatment is still medication. But that won\u2019t do you any good if you don\u2019t take it. This woman said she used to take it, but doesn\u2019t take it any more.<\/p>\n
I wonder if things were better for her when she did take it? Because things usually are. And she needs to get back on it for the best hope of managing her bipolar disorder. She says that she is dealing with things the best she can, but she would be able to deal with things so much better if she were on medication.<\/p>\n
She would also be able to deal with things so much better if she were seeing a psychiatrist and therapist on a regular basis. A psychiatrist would help her regulate her medication and help her with any medication changes that needed to be made. A therapist would help her cope and deal with any issues related to her bipolar disorder, like the problems she is having with her marriage.<\/p>\n
One of the biggest problems is that she says that her husband also has bipolar disorder, but won\u2019t deal with it. He needs to get help for it, but she can\u2019t make him. And that\u2019s a big problem. So she also needs to learn to be a supporter to her husband, while managing her own disorder.<\/p>\n
This woman has a lot of problems, but her bipolar disorder can still be managed. She just needs to tackle one problem at a time and they will fall into place, starting with getting back on her
\nmedication.<\/p>\n
Well, I have to go!<\/p>\n
Your Friend,<\/p>\n
Dave<\/p>\n
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Hi,<\/p>\n
I came across this post on my blog the other day, and feel like I need to respond to it, as this woman talks about so many problems:<\/p>\n
\u201cHi Dave, this is a good one, really made me think about my supporter, oh wait, I do not have
\nany! I am all alone in dealing with my Bi-polar, even though I am married\u2026.my husband is so
\nnot a supporter!<\/p>\n