{"id":5648,"date":"2007-03-01T09:12:00","date_gmt":"2007-03-01T14:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/david-oliver-offers-bipolar-support-called-fking-ahole\/"},"modified":"2007-03-01T09:12:00","modified_gmt":"2007-03-01T14:12:00","slug":"david-oliver-offers-bipolar-support-called-fking-ahole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/david-oliver-offers-bipolar-support-called-fking-ahole\/","title":{"rendered":"David Oliver offers bipolar support, called f#$king a#$hole"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey,<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re going to laugh today. I just was called a<br \/>f#$king a#$hole. I took out some characters but<br \/>I am sure you know what those two words are.<\/p>\n<p>Before I tell you that story, I have to tell you<br \/>this one.<\/p>\n<p>The other day I sent an email<br \/>titled Lies, Lies, Lies and Bipolar Disorder. I had<br \/>almost 1000 responses to this email.<\/p>\n<p>The email talked about the idea that people who<br \/>have bipolar disorder can lie when they are not<br \/>stable.<\/p>\n<p>To see a copy of this email keep reading to find<br \/>out how.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I was meeting up with a prominent psychiatrist<br \/>and also going to volunteer.<\/p>\n<p>First let me tell you, the volunteering went really<br \/>long. I got home at like 11:30.<\/p>\n<p>I even got pulled over by the police which annoyed me<br \/>until I saw it was my friend Bill who I use to train<br \/>with at a gym.<\/p>\n<p>Well back to the email I sent, I said that I was going to<br \/>ask this really expensive $600 or $650 a hour doctor<br \/>WHY someone lies in a bipolar episode.<\/p>\n<p>Last night I got my chance. I asked that question to<br \/>the doctor. This guy has been in practice since like 1960<br \/>and he is like a walking book. He is almost in<br \/>practice in NYC.<\/p>\n<p>He gave a very complicated answer as to<br \/>why people may lie when they are in a bipolar<br \/>episode.<\/p>\n<p>To make a long complicated answer short, based on my<br \/>understanding, it&#8217;s because bipolar disorder is a<br \/>mood disorder. When a person is not stable they can<br \/>be &#8220;psychotic&#8221; and enter a state of psychosis (which<br \/>are hard words to spell&#8230;good thing I have spell check).<\/p>\n<p>During these times, a person&#8217;s beliefs can become altered<br \/>and cause them to not perceive things correctly, or interpret<br \/>what&#8217;s being said or not said about them wrong which causes them<br \/>to respond saying things that aren&#8217;t true which ultimately<br \/>turns into a lie. <\/p>\n<p>I hope that makes sense. <\/p>\n<p>On another note. You know how in my course at<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I harp on how to find a doctor. Well it&#8217;s really strange. When<br \/>I volunteer, the only thing people want to know is all centered<br \/>around medication. Nobody asks stuff like<\/p>\n<p>How to find a doctor<br \/>How to find a therapist<br \/>How for pay for these people<br \/>How to get a loved one into treatment<br \/>How to find a great job for someone with bipolar disorder<br \/>OR someone who is a supporter who needs a flexible schedule<br \/>How to handle a loved one&#8217;s mood swings easily<br \/>What to do if a loved one gets into a ton of debt<\/p>\n<p>There are so many other important things that I could make a list<br \/>that is 6 pages long.<\/p>\n<p>When ever and where ever I go to volunteer, people always ask the same<br \/>set of questions for the most part. It&#8217;s all around medication. No one<br \/>asks the really important questions, like what I just listed out.<\/p>\n<p>I just don&#8217;t get why people are focused on what<br \/>I think is the wrong stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Trying to learn about medication in a meeting doesn&#8217;t make any<br \/>sense to me. I just don&#8217;t get it.<\/p>\n<p>Also, since I have been volunteering in three groups for 2 years,<br \/>I see certain patterns develop. Want to know what they are?<\/p>\n<p>=> Only 1 person has been to three meetings in a row<br \/>=> There are virtually no high functioning people with bipolar disorder<br \/>   at these meetings.<br \/>=> Those that are high functioning every now and then get turned off<br \/>   because they feel so many people are negative<\/p>\n<p>=> People take lots of f.r.e.e information that I am sure they aren&#8217;t<br \/>   going to use. How do I know? Well if you take 5 to 10 of the same<br \/>   thing, I am sure you aren&#8217;t going to read it.<\/p>\n<p>That brings me to the email I just got. Mary wrote me:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;David you suck!!!!!!!!!!!  My daughter has bipolar disorder.<br \/>I click on your site and you are selling your information.<br \/>I can&#8217;t believe you. What kind of person are you. Your mother must<br \/>be ashamed your evil ways. If you even have a mother. You probably<br \/>don&#8217;t because you are a liar. If you really cared, you should share your<br \/>information freely. But it probably sucks like you do. Take me off your<br \/>list f#$king a#$hole.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I took out some characters with those two words to keep this family<br \/>friendly. I am sure you know what two words she called me.<\/p>\n<p>I am going to practice what I preach is not respond to this email. I<br \/>of course removed her. But I wonder if she is so smart why she can&#8217;t<br \/>remove herself. But that&#8217;s another story.<\/p>\n<p>Do you want to know something? I have give my course materials to 7 people<br \/>totally f.r.e.e and guess how many have gone through it? ZERO. One friend<br \/>has had it on his shelf for 1.5 years. He told me he is going to get it to it.<\/p>\n<p>This is why when I get the ridiculous emails that say &#8220;If you really<br \/>cared you would share all your information for f.r.e.e.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When I get these, I am like &#8220;HELLO? Is anyone home?&#8221; I<br \/>have a emini course and tips that cost me THOUSANDS of dollars<br \/>to create. There is NO cost to this.<\/p>\n<p>I have over 1000 pages of information on my article website that has cost<br \/>me a fortune to put together. Again no cost. I have more info that is no<br \/>cost than any other site online. Period. But can I really send manuals,<br \/>check lists, worksheets, reports, a set of 10 cds, etc. to someone<br \/>for f.r.e.e?<\/p>\n<p>With my material however, I offer it with a guarantee and if you send<br \/>anything back, I even let you keep some stuff for giving it a try. This<br \/>way you come out ahead. I mean could you ask for anything else?<\/p>\n<p>And for those that say I can and should, let&#8217;s say I gave it all away for no cost, how would I pay all the doctors, therapists, writers, programmers, graphic designers, book keeper, accountant, hosting frees, marketing person, advertising, consultants, shipping, customer services, phone lines, etc. etc.?<\/p>\n<p>I have already sunk a ton of my own money into this. And some people want<br \/>everything for nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone who really does any kind of thinking knows that even if I gave<br \/>it all away, people wouldn&#8217;t even go through it.<\/p>\n<p>I just look at the three groups I volunteer at. I am the &#8220;literature<br \/>giver out person.&#8221; Because there is no cost, we run out, in minutes,<br \/>of everything and people don&#8217;t even take what they get seriously.<\/p>\n<p>Just think about the spoiled kid or the person you knew who got<br \/>everything handed to them on a silver plate. Remember that person?<br \/>They didn&#8217;t do to well. Because when people get something for nothing<br \/>they do NOT value it for the most part.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly where I volunteer, guess what? 99% of the time we don&#8217;t have a full supply of material because people take so much and there&#8217;s not enough money to get more of it.<\/p>\n<p>This past year, I had to buy all the stuff to house the literature<br \/>and I had to pay someone to organize it because all the other volunteers<br \/>quit.<\/p>\n<p>The give it all away model would make no sense.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, sorry for the rant today but I just had to say it. Some<br \/>people write me thing that have no clue how to run an organization.<\/p>\n<p>Hey I have to take off. If you want to respond to my email or write<br \/>Mary a note, please do so here:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www2.blogger.com\/comment.g?blogID=12584731&#038;postID=3524050475230810891\">https:\/\/www2.blogger.com\/comment.g?blogID=12584731&#038;postID=3524050475230810891<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Your Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>P.S. Visit my blog to get a copy of the email I sent the other day<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/supporterblog.blogspot.com\/\">http:\/\/supporterblog.blogspot.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey,<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re going to laugh today. I just was called a<br \/>f#$king a#$hole. I took out some characters but<br \/>I am sure you know what those two words are.<\/p>\n<p>Before I tell you that story, I have to tell you<br \/>this one.<\/p>\n<p>The other day I sent an email<br \/>titled Lies, Lies, Lies and Bipolar Disorder. 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