Hi,<\/p>\n
I have some really bad news for me. Good news for
you. Here’s the deal. Over the last 10 days or so
my mom has increasing NOT been doing well.<\/p>\n
I haven’t said anything because I like to
see how it goes before I make any determinations
as to what course of action I am going to take.<\/p>\n
This is bad news for me. The good news is
I am going to try to explain what I did
to help her so you don’t have to learn the
hard way.<\/p>\n
Over the last few days I have gotten a lot
of “That’s great your mom is doing great”
emails. I was thinking that maybe people
don’t know the entire situation.<\/p>\n
Bipolar disorder is a life long thing. My mom
WAS doing great up until 10 days ago. But
something has changed. The thing is, you just
never know what can happen. She can be doing
great and then something happens. So
I don’t want to mislead you into thinking
there are never, every any problems.<\/p>\n
The system I have setup handles most of
the problems but things are not perfect. A
year ago we had a situation. 6 months ago
we had a situation. Then since it’s a mood
disorder, my mom’s moods change quickly
so I have to deal with that.<\/p>\n
Do NOT think for a second that everything, on
every day is perfect because it’s not. I want
to be 100% honest with you.<\/p>\n
When I started these sites, I wanted to bring
how to information and positive material not
just negative stories you can read in the news.<\/p>\n
I have courses\/systems here that focus on people
who do well:<\/p>\n
SUPPORTING AN ADULT SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER? I think in doing so I may have unintentionally Currently, I can’t even describe what’s going Meaning, there is no screaming, no yelling, It’s VERY strange. I don’t know if it’s What happen? Well I can’t get into it because If you think you couldn\u2019t do this, it’s going to be So anyone could do what I am going to be doing to Basically, a part of my system caught that there NOW before you get mad at her doctor. It’s not It all kind of got worse really fast so it’s Today I have to investigate from a to z. I am Now, I have to be prepared for the following. And them helpful treating me nice You might think, “Dave, why wouldn\u2019t they talk Normally people hope for the best and plan I model all the disasters and what I would Last night I was talking to my dad. He is REALLY I assured him that this was IMPOSSIBLE. There is He said he believes me but I know in the back of his He said some rather interesting things to me. He He was telling me how he’s been married to my mom He told me a few stories and I must say, they Stories of how right after they first got married I must say, I can’t imagine dealing with someone’s Imagine that? People complain on my list that there’s It must have been a TOTAL nightmare. My dad told me FYI: My dad calls my newsletter list “that thing.”<\/p>\n Anyway, it was kind of sad. It’s almost like the policy The Policy of Appeasement was the attitude, strategy, and Over the years, my dad almost always gave into my mom’s When I stepped in in 2004 and 2005, I redefined a new The rest is history. Well I have to run and get ready I also have a war with my printer. And another one. I am I have a complete strategy for all of them. I must I will win. I am 100% certain of it.<\/p>\n People wonder why I talk so much about wars, history, Some days you lose the battle but in the long run, I have to run.<\/p>\n I will keep you posted on my mom. Have a great day.<\/p>\n Your Friend,<\/p>\n Dave<\/p>\n P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give Hi,<\/p>\n I have some really bad news for me. Good news for I haven’t said anything because I like to This is bad news for me.<\/p>\n
Visit:
http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n
Visit:
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caused you to think that everything is perfect
all the time with my mom.<\/p>\n
on with my mom but it’s a growing problem. BUT,
she is NOT exhibiting traditional signs she
normally exhibited in the past. This makes
it really complicated.<\/p>\n
no cooking random food, no spending money,
etc. All the stuff you can read in my story
that was in her last big episode.<\/p>\n
an episode or something else. I have never considered
something like this happening.<\/p>\n
I have to prepare to talk to her doctor, therapist,
and employment specialist today. It’s VERY complicated
to explain. I am going to be making charts, diagrams
and stuff for the doctor and therapist.<\/p>\n
on paper. I have no idea how to use any kind of graphics
program. I draw about as good at as a 7th grader.<\/p>\n
get my point across to the right people.<\/p>\n
was a problem. Her doctor was alerted. Keep in
mind her doctor 2 weeks or so ago, said she was
doing absolutely positively great and wanted to
see her in two months.<\/p>\n
her fault. Anyway, her doctor was alerted about
the situation. She responded and is bringing
my mom in early before 2 months.<\/p>\n
been hard for me to keep up.<\/p>\n
going to be talking to 3 people that help her.<\/p>\n
this is important for you to realize. When I
call these people, I will be ready for all
possibilities:<\/p>\n
them hostile not treating me nice
them saying I can’t talk to them
them saying they won’t talk to me<\/p>\n
to you?” Well that’s part of the problem with
my mom BUT it’s hard to explain. On the other hand,
they may say they lost the talking release form
so I can’t speak
to them. I am not saying they will but they
may and I will be prepared.<\/p>\n
for the best which makes no sense. I hope
for the best and plan for a major disaster.<\/p>\n
do and how the system would help me.<\/p>\n
REALLY worried. When this happens he thinks it’s
going to go back to 2 years ago.<\/p>\n
NO way that can happen. There is NO way the current
system would allow for it.<\/p>\n
mind he is really worried.<\/p>\n
had a message for you as well.<\/p>\n
for 41 years. For 39 years he was run over by my
mom’s bipolar disorder. He said he practiced
appeasement and it didn’t work.<\/p>\n
were disturbing. Stories from 35 and 38 years ago.<\/p>\n
my mom went into an episode and he didn’t even know
she had bipolar disorder or what was wrong.<\/p>\n
bipolar disorder when there was no internet, no support
groups, no courses\/systems like mine, no good books,
very few doctors, very few medications, very few
therapists, etc.<\/p>\n
nothing to help. How about 35 years ago?<\/p>\n
to tell you and I quote: “Tell your people on
your thing, they are lucky to have something
that tells them what to do or how to do it. I never
had that….Maybe I made a mistake and could have
done more research but I will tell you, 30 years
ago, there was no information. I tried to research
but there wasn’t anything. It was during that time
that I kind of gave up trying to beat the bipolar
disorder. It beat me.”<\/p>\n
of appeasement which was a contributor to World
War 2.<\/p>\n
thinking Britain and France took against Germany before
World War 2 started. It’s the willingness to give
in to aggressive powers no matter what they wanted.<\/p>\n
bipolar disorder episodes.<\/p>\n
strategy. I told my dad if I was going to help, there
was going to be a new strategy, policy and philosophy
and his had failed. He agreed.<\/p>\n
to go to my various “battles” for the day. In addition
to running my other businesses, working out, volunteering,
etc.<\/p>\n
currently engaged in 3 wars with three different things
all at the same time. Think I will lose?<\/p>\n
admit, my resources are being really taxed.<\/p>\n
battles, etc. If you haven’t already noticed, this is
a war with many battles along the way. You are fighting
a war against bipolar disorder NOT your loved one. A
war that must be won.<\/p>\n
you have to win the war. Battles make wars. To many
battle lost lead to losing the war. Make sense?<\/p>\n
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/a><\/p>\n
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
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you. Here’s the deal. Over the last 10 days or so
my mom has increasing NOT been doing well.<\/p>\n
see how it goes before I make any determinations
as to what course of action I am going to take.<\/p>\n