{"id":5498,"date":"2007-07-29T09:41:00","date_gmt":"2007-07-29T13:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/the-key-bipolar-secret-underrated\/"},"modified":"2007-07-29T09:41:00","modified_gmt":"2007-07-29T13:41:00","slug":"the-key-bipolar-secret-underrated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/the-key-bipolar-secret-underrated\/","title":{"rendered":"The Key Bipolar Secret Underrated"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Key Bipolar Secret Underrated<\/p>\n<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s it going today. I got up super late today. I<br \/>have no idea. But it&#8217;s Sunday so I guess I am allowed<br \/>to get up late.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I have to really make this quick because I am<br \/>going on a 9.8 mile hike today in the Delaware Water<br \/>Gap.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway let&#8217;s jump into today&#8217;s important bipolar<br \/>disorder lesson. <\/p>\n<p>Last night I was interviewing a person by the <br \/>name of Bob. Oh yes, you might be thinking<br \/>it&#8217;s sad that I am a) working on a Saturday night<br \/>and b) interviewing people on a Saturday night.<br \/>I guess it&#8217;s kind of sad but it&#8217;s for a good<br \/>cause :).<\/p>\n<p>Okay so Bob had about 10 years of really difficult<br \/>struggle trying to get stable with bipolar disorder.<br \/>Eventually after 8 to 10 years and 6 different doctors,<br \/>he found on that helped him get on the right Bipolar<br \/>medication which led to him being stable now for<br \/>years.<\/p>\n<p>During the interviewing Bob was faced with numerous<br \/>challenges like having an alcoholic dad, a mother<br \/>that didn&#8217;t know what was wrong with him, teachers<br \/>that didn&#8217;t know what was wrong with him, a drinking<br \/>problem himself, a drug problem himself, violent<br \/>thoughts, suicidal thoughts, attempts of suicide,<br \/>and doctors that fell asleep while he was talking<br \/>to them, one doctor that basically said he was a<br \/>lost cause and there was no hope, a doctor that<br \/>just didn&#8217;t care at all or really help and many<br \/>other major difficulties.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, Bob was his own supporter. Unlike<br \/>many people on my list with bipolar disorder,<br \/>bob didn&#8217;t have a wife or kids that were trying<br \/>to help him. I must say, this is the first interview<br \/>of it&#8217;s kind that I have done.<\/p>\n<p>Most people with bipolar disorder have supporters<br \/>of some kind. Now they may have alienated them<br \/>but they had or kind of have them. Bob on the<br \/>other hand didn&#8217;t have any one really.<\/p>\n<p>DURING THE INTERVIEW I WAS AMAZED<\/p>\n<p>I was really amazed at Bob. I must say, <br \/>I was thinking, &#8220;With everything that<br \/>Bob had going against him, he should<br \/>have been dead.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I have heard of many people who had far less<br \/>going against them and they had wound up <br \/>dying in some way. These of course are people<br \/>with bipolar disorder that were not stable.<\/p>\n<p>So I was thinking, &#8220;What made the difference<br \/>with Bob? Why did Bob hang in there until<br \/>he found a doctor to help him become stable????&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I was waiting to get the answer during our interview<br \/>and then&#8230;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>IT CAME!!!!!!<\/p>\n<p>Bob finally said the key or the secret. Guess what<br \/>it was??????? First take a guess and see if you<br \/>can guess it and then scroll down for the<br \/>right answer&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>DON&#8217;T CHEAT \ud83d\ude42 Guess then scroll<\/p>\n<p>THERAPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s right it was therapy. Even though<br \/>Bob didn&#8217;t have the great doctor when he <br \/>got on his journey to stability, he did<br \/>go to therapy and did involve himself<br \/>in the church which gave him a kind of <br \/>therapy. He did a lot of therapeutic<br \/>things.<\/p>\n<p>That was the key for Bob. So Bob had<br \/>enough therapy that when he was faced<br \/>with difficulties he could work through<br \/>it so he could eventually get to the<br \/>right doctor.<\/p>\n<p>I was really excited and then I was thinking<br \/>&#8220;Hey I need to email you guys to let you know<br \/>this.&#8221; Why? Well because therapy is really<br \/>underrated. I am not sure why.<\/p>\n<p>Many people that are dumb or &#8220;meat heads&#8221; in weight<br \/>lifting talk, think therapy is for woman, wimps<br \/>or weak people. This is NOT true. <\/p>\n<p>NOTE-&#8220;meat heads&#8221; is a term used in weight lifting<br \/>and football. It&#8217;s big rather dumb people who <br \/>talk in simple terms and define everything in<br \/>terms of it&#8217;s level of masculinity\/strength. For example,<br \/>the &#8220;meat head&#8221; says to the person with a good<br \/>job, family and career, &#8220;Dude I am stronger than<br \/>you.&#8221; To the meat head, therapy is for woman<br \/>or weak men. But the meat head doesn&#8217;t get<br \/>far in life :).<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I interviewed Bill a couple of weeks ago. <br \/>Bill is like 6&#8242; 5&#8221; 270, multiple black belts and <br \/>he can kill a person with probably one finger but he doesn&#8217;t because<br \/>he is a really nice guy. BUT he could if he<br \/>had to defend himself. Anyway Bill is a &#8220;man&#8221;<br \/>and he said the key with his stability was therapy.<\/p>\n<p>I am not sure why therapy is not talked about a lot.<br \/>Now don&#8217;t get me wrong medication is super important<br \/>but I believe therapy is as well.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone that I interview with bipolar disorder<br \/>in my courses\/systems that does well goes to therapy. <\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT?<br \/>Visit:<br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN?<br \/>Visit:<br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/>http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/p>\n<p>Many supporters go to therapy as well and it helps<br \/>them become better supporters. I am not sure why<br \/>therapy is not talked about more often. BUT, <br \/>I will say therapy runs through 95% if not<br \/>more of the bipolar success stories that I <br \/>know.<\/p>\n<p>Hey I have to take off now. I have to get <br \/>ready for my hike. Tomorrow I will write more<br \/>on this subject. <\/p>\n<p>DO ME A FAVOR. If you have great results<br \/>with therapy write a story at the link below.<br \/>Let&#8217;s try to &#8220;sell&#8221; more people on therapy<br \/>so we can help lots of people.<\/p>\n<p>Your Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails <br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great <br \/>information for you:<br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/p>\n<p>P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give <br \/>mini seminars designed to teach you information <br \/>you can&#8217;t learn anywhere else.<br \/>http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Key Bipolar Secret Underrated<\/p>\n<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s it going today. I got up super late today. I<br \/>have no idea. 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