==>>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==
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for all aspects of bipolar disorder by visiting:
http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/p>\n
Hey,<\/p>\n
How’s it going? <\/p>\n
It’s almost Labor Day weekend in the US. I didn’t
even realize it was here. Anyway, I am working
all through the weekend. Why? Because I like
what I do.<\/p>\n
Yesterday I got an email from someone
and it said:<\/p>\n
“I can’t believe my husband wants to
divorce me. He has bipolar disease
and is acting really crazy. He screams
and yellls at me all the time for
no reason. I can barely take it.
I tried to talk to him for months
to stop. <\/p>\n
Dave, why does he does he do and
say such mean things?”
-Pam<\/p>\n
Take a look at that again. I want
you to read it and try to guess what
the 3 letters that spell trouble
are?<\/p>\n
Guess and then scroll down for the
answer…<\/p>\n
Scroll after you have the answer…<\/p>\n
It’s why? Why is deadly I think with bipolar
disorder. I think it can seriously drive
a bipolar supporter AND a bipolar survivior
crazy. <\/p>\n
When you start asking:<\/p>\n
why do I have bipolar disorder?
why did my loved one say this or that
why did my loved one do this or that
why is bipolar disorder such a nasty illness
why do people with bipolar disorder say such mean
things<\/p>\n
Why is a word that just makes you feel depressed
because with most of the questions there really
are no answers.<\/p>\n
Ever sit and start thinking “why this and
that.” You never can come up with answers
and it makes you feel depressed.<\/p>\n
It’s like when a girlfriend broke up with
me some time again. I would sit for days
wondering why she did. There was no explanation
that I could come up with. Especially since
I am such a cool guy :).<\/p>\n
Anyway I stopped asking why she broke up
with me and started asking what I was
going to do since she was gone. I then
moved one how I was going to get a new
girlfriend.<\/p>\n
Make sense?<\/p>\n
I think that people can get paralzed focusing on
why and it creates major problems for them.
This lady Pam you can see is focusing on the
why way too much.<\/p>\n
I focus on the how. What’s that mean? Well
I focus on how to correct the problem.<\/p>\n
You see with bipolar disorder, a person
can live a perfectly normally life with
the right treatment plan.<\/p>\n
Instead of asking why? Ask how do I get
myself or my loved one on the right
bipolar treatment plan.<\/p>\n
I know sometimes you may read my material
here and say, “What the heck Dave? That’s
so simple and not useful. Easy for you
to say! Thanks for nothing.”<\/p>\n
Seriously I am really telling you what
to do. <\/p>\n
If you look at my course\/systems:<\/p>\n
SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/p>\n
SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/p>\n
HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?
Visit:
http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/p>\n
You’ll notice that it’s all based on how
tos. I don’t tell long sad stories of
how bad bipolar disorder is. I focus
on how to handle virtually all the situations
you will come across whether you have
bipolar disorder, are supporting an adult
or supporting a child\/teenager.<\/p>\n
The situation with my mom turned around
when I started asking how instead of
why. <\/p>\n
I actually have to take off for the day
but I want to leave that with you to think
about.<\/p>\n
I want to say another thing. I want to make
it clear that I use to focus on the why
and then I transitioned to focusing on the
how. I think that it happens with everyone
dealing with bipolar disorder. It just takes
some longer than others.<\/p>\n
Your Friend,<\/p>\n
Dave<\/p>\n
P.S. Don’t forget to take a look through the
different programs I’ve put together… each one is designed
to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether
you have it or you are supporting someone with it.
You can see them all and get the details by visiting:
http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/p>\n
P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails
that I have sent in the past and lots of great
information for you:
http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/p>\n
P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give
mini seminars designed to teach you information
you can’t learn anywhere else.
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