{"id":5401,"date":"2007-11-05T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2007-11-05T14:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-supporter-has-this-ever-happen-beware\/"},"modified":"2007-11-05T09:00:00","modified_gmt":"2007-11-05T14:00:00","slug":"bipolar-supporter-has-this-ever-happen-beware","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-supporter-has-this-ever-happen-beware\/","title":{"rendered":"Bipolar supporter? Has this ever happen? Beware"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>==>>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==<br \/>Check out all my resources, programs and information<br \/>for all aspects of bipolar disorder by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s it going?<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s it going for you? I hope you had a<br \/>good weekend.<\/p>\n<p>Hey I have a couple of new jobs<br \/>that I have. I am going to be sending<br \/>out an email (customer service, animation,<br \/>graphic design and some other stuff) <br \/>so we can keep it in the family so to speak. <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a crazy few days. I had<br \/>one woman calling me over and over and<br \/>over and over again demanding money<br \/>from me. <\/p>\n<p>She claimed I owed her money. She is in<br \/>no database of mine and never bought<br \/>a thing from me. I finally had to <br \/>just put the phone down because I felt<br \/>it would be rude to hang up on her.<\/p>\n<p>Then another person called and demanded<br \/>that I help him with bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n<p>Then another person left me a ton of messages<br \/>claming that she was unable to ever get me<br \/>and my voicemail never works?<\/p>\n<p>In all cases, I had no idea who the above<br \/>people were. No idea.<\/p>\n<p>Then I had ANOTHER situation.<\/p>\n<p>Someone that I know went off his meds<br \/>and went from being stable to totally<br \/>unstable in like 30 days.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the interesting thing. I kind<br \/>of thought this person was off is him<br \/>medications but he had assured me<br \/>and sold me that he was on his bipolar<br \/>medications.<\/p>\n<p>He also sold and convinced<br \/>other people that I know.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s something about the first couple<br \/>of weeks or even a month of someone who<br \/>is off his\/her bipolar medications. He\/she becomes<br \/>incredibly persuasive and try to get<br \/>you to do all kinds of things you normally<br \/>wouldn&#8217;t do.<\/p>\n<p>When I say you, I mean the bipolar supporter.<br \/>In this case that I am telling you about, this<br \/>person was doing some work and not doing it<br \/>well because he wasn&#8217;t on his medications.<\/p>\n<p>Slowly but surely everything that he was<br \/>doing started to fail.<\/p>\n<p>He do a whole lot of bad work and created<br \/>lots of problems with others as well.<\/p>\n<p>The thing that just so darn amazing with<br \/>bipolar disorder is how you have to be on<br \/>guard of not being sucked into a person<br \/>who is off medications.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s another example. My mom was actually<br \/>on her medication but on the wrong medication<br \/>and was not stable. But she was persuasive.<\/p>\n<p>She convinced me to give her lots of money.<br \/>She convinced my dad to give her lots of money.<br \/>She convinced her mother to give her lots of money.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t really explain exactly how she did<br \/>it but it was done.<\/p>\n<p>She then started convincing people to <br \/>do things like not work at her job or gang<br \/>up on her boss and not listen to what the<br \/>boss said. When I was looking back and<br \/>trying to figure it all out, it was<br \/>amazing.<\/p>\n<p>She wound up convincing people all sorts<br \/>of things. Keep in mind this was like in 2003<br \/>when her big bipolar episode was starting<br \/>and picking up steam.<\/p>\n<p>As I look back, it was amazing how so many<br \/>people wound up being persuaded and sold on<br \/>doing all kinds of things they really didn&#8217;t<br \/>want to do. All by someone who wasn&#8217;t on<br \/>the right bipolar medications and not stable.<\/p>\n<p>Now, after I started to learn about bipolar<br \/>disorder and started to figure out what was<br \/>going on, I started to stand up to my mom&#8217;s<br \/>bipolar disorder and stopped going along<br \/>and being persuaded.<\/p>\n<p>Now if I look at this particular person that<br \/>told you about this past weekend, he was able<br \/>to convince a whole lot of people about his<br \/>stability and wound up causing a lot of problems.<\/p>\n<p>If you are a bipolar supporter you have to <br \/>be careful not to fall into this trap. <\/p>\n<p>I call it &#8220;fooled by bipolar.&#8221; Bipolar<br \/>is a slick thing so to speak. It works<br \/>to persuade and trick you into various<br \/>things that are bad for you the supporter<br \/>and you the person with the disorder.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes when I talk about bipolar being<br \/>an &#8220;it&#8221; or almost like a person people<br \/>think I am &#8220;out of my mind.&#8221; I am not.<br \/>But when you think of it as something<br \/>that is inhabiting your loved one,<br \/>it makes it much easier to deal with it<br \/>and separate it from your loved one.<\/p>\n<p>The purpose of today&#8217;s daily email is<br \/>to remind people that those who go<br \/>off their bipolar medications wind up<br \/>doing really bad things generally and<br \/>are very persuasive trying to get you<br \/>to go along with them or do things<br \/>that are not in your best interest.<\/p>\n<p>Also, you&#8217;re loved one can be on bipolar<br \/>medications and still become unstable and<br \/>you can be susceptible to being &#8220;fooled<br \/>by bipolar disorder.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t fall for it. IF you hear of<br \/>an idea, plan or something from<br \/>your loved one with bipolar disorder,<br \/>resist going on. Don&#8217;t go along to<br \/>get along. That&#8217;s what my dad tried<br \/>for so many years and it never ever worked.<br \/>And my mom tells me to this day, she wishes<br \/>he didn&#8217;t do that because in the end it<br \/>wound up hurting her, him, me, my brother<br \/>and lots of other people.<\/p>\n<p>In my courses\/systems below:<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com\">http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net\">http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I talk at length how to stand up to bipolar<br \/>disorder and how to handle someone<br \/>in an episode who thinks they are fine.<\/p>\n<p>I am not sure why. But again, the person who<br \/>is off bipolar medications or the person on<br \/>medications but in an episode is very persuasive<br \/>and can get people who don&#8217;t have bipolar disorder<br \/>to do a whole lot of things that are totally <br \/>destructive.<\/p>\n<p>I would appreciate people posting some<br \/>stories of how persuasive and destructive<br \/>a person who is in a bipolar episode or off <br \/>his\/her medications can be.<\/p>\n<p>Your Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>P.S. Don&#8217;t forget to take a look through the <br \/>different programs I&#8217;ve put together&#8230; each one is designed <br \/>to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether<br \/>you have it or you are supporting someone with it. <br \/>You can see them all and get the details by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails <br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great <br \/>information for you:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give <br \/>mini seminars designed to teach you information <br \/>you can&#8217;t learn anywhere else.<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com\">http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>==Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-supporter-has-this-ever-happen-beware\/\" class=\"more-link pull-right\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Bipolar supporter? Has this ever happen? 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