{"id":5369,"date":"2007-12-04T09:12:00","date_gmt":"2007-12-04T14:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/ever-make-this-huge-mistake-with-bipolar-disorder\/"},"modified":"2007-12-04T09:12:00","modified_gmt":"2007-12-04T14:12:00","slug":"ever-make-this-huge-mistake-with-bipolar-disorder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/ever-make-this-huge-mistake-with-bipolar-disorder\/","title":{"rendered":"Ever make this huge mistake with bipolar disorder?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>==>>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==<br \/>Check out all my resources, programs and information<br \/>for all aspects of bipolar disorder by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s it going?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s snowing again where I live. It&#8217;s going<br \/>to be really hard to get around this morning.<\/p>\n<p>So I am going to have to take off rather<br \/>early and make this quick.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I got several really angry emails<br \/>from some people with bipolar disorder.<br \/>Why were they mad? Well they said that<br \/>I basically unfairly say people with<br \/>bipolar disorder can&#8217;t handle money<br \/>well.<\/p>\n<p>I never said that at all. What I have<br \/>said is that when people go into<br \/>bipolar episodes, they can spend money<br \/>they normally would never ever spend.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason, there are many supporters<br \/>and people with bipolar disorder that don&#8217;t believe<br \/>this.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know why? I have heard so many stories<br \/>about how bipolar has wrecked someone&#8217;s finances.<\/p>\n<p>I lost a ton of money from bipolar disorder<br \/>over the years.<\/p>\n<p>I personally know people who have lost $50,000,<br \/>$100,000, $250,000, and more than<br \/>$500,000.<\/p>\n<p>I remember this one guy calling me about 2<br \/>years ago. He was in California. He was on<br \/>my list and wanted to get my how to marry<br \/>someone with bipolar disorder course.<\/p>\n<p>We talked for a while. He told me that he was<br \/>a millionaire (he wasn&#8217;t arrogant it just<br \/>came up in conversation) from real estate <br \/>and that he had worked really hard to<br \/>make something of himself. I was really<br \/>happy for him.<\/p>\n<p>He was marrying someone with bipolar<br \/>disorder. He said she was doing<br \/>great but he just wanted to get my information<br \/>just to read up on bipolar disorder before<br \/>he got married.<\/p>\n<p>I warned him. I said, make sure you <br \/>put systems in place to protect your money.<br \/>I actually then asked him to grab a pen<br \/>and that I was going to give him a mini<br \/>seminar and that this would save him<br \/>a lot of money in the future.<\/p>\n<p>He said, &#8220;no thanks, she is great with<br \/>money. She never overspends.&#8221; He laughed<br \/>and said, &#8220;actually, I overspend and maybe<br \/>I should protect myself from myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He thought it was funny. I urged him<br \/>that this was serious and to heed my warning<br \/>and to setup the systems. I told him the<br \/>worst that would happen is that he would<br \/>have systems in place that don&#8217;t cost anything<br \/>and nothing would happen. He would have only<br \/>spent some time setting them up and that&#8217;s<br \/>it.<\/p>\n<p>He kept saying no. I could tell that I think<br \/>he felt that if he setup the systems he would<br \/>not be trusting his wife. I think he thought<br \/>that setting up the systems would mean he <br \/>didn&#8217;t believe his wife&#8217;s bipolar disorder<br \/>we okay.<\/p>\n<p>I then let it go. I was thinking in my head,<br \/>&#8220;Geeze this guy is in trouble.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Anyway about 7 months went by. I got a call<br \/>from another lady that lived in Texas. She had<br \/>told me that her son had &#8220;run through&#8221; more<br \/>than $350,000 and she was dead broke.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t even have to ask how it happen. Probably<br \/>the same way it happen with my mom. It just happens.<br \/>Anyway, I didn&#8217;t want to rub salt in the woman&#8217;s<br \/>wounds. She wanted to start a business to<br \/>make money to make up for all that had been lost.<br \/>I gave her a number of ideas.<\/p>\n<p>Okay then a month later after this woman called,<br \/>I got a call from the real estate guy. He called<br \/>and sounded terrible. He was really sad. I kind<br \/>of forgot who he was because I talk to so many<br \/>people. He told me he was filing bankruptcy and<br \/>his wife had ruined his c.redit, and gone<br \/>through over $1 million of his money. She had<br \/>also taken out loans in his name. It was a total<br \/>mess.<\/p>\n<p>His wife had gone into a &#8220;super episode&#8221; he said<br \/>and that he felt stupid because he didn&#8217;t listen<br \/>to me. He was yelling at himself. I calmed him<br \/>down and told him that he was young, like my<br \/>age and that he could bounce back. I spent a lot<br \/>of time giving him a plan.<\/p>\n<p>I had his number and would call to check in. He<br \/>was really depressed all the time and I tried<br \/>to make him feel better. One day his phone<br \/>was turned off and never turned back on again. <br \/>I have no idea what happen to him. It was really<br \/>sad.<\/p>\n<p>I could go on and on. But I am sure you get<br \/>the idea.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the thing. Bipolar disorder is a mood<br \/>disorder. It affects the way a person thinks and<br \/>feels. If a person goes into an episode, he\/she<br \/>can do stuff they normally would not do. One<br \/>thing they can do is spend money. It takes a life<br \/>time to build a savings but it only take a day to<br \/>spend it all. It&#8217;s kind of amazing. <\/p>\n<p>This is what can happen with bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n<p>This is what I HIGHLY recommend setting <br \/>up systems to protect your money.<\/p>\n<p>All my courses below: <\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com\">http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net\">http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>have these systems in them. I teach it from <br \/>a to z. I think I am the only person that does.<\/p>\n<p>When I talk about money and bipolar disorder,<br \/>people think I am &#8220;out of my mind.&#8221; I have<br \/>had people call me and said, &#8220;why do you have<br \/>a cd called money and bipolar disorder, is <br \/>that a mistake?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t have systems in place, you need to<br \/>set them up right away. Don&#8217;t wait until<br \/>it&#8217;s too late. <\/p>\n<p>And, if nothing ever happens, nothing is<br \/>lost. Meaning, if you setup the systems,<br \/>your loved one never goes into an episode<br \/>forever, nothing is lost. You just have<br \/>your money protected. But you need<br \/>to do something. TODAY. Don&#8217;t wait.<\/p>\n<p>I would really appreciate if people post<br \/>some stories of what can happen. People<br \/>with bipolar disorder who are newly diagnosed<br \/>and new bipolar supporters many times don&#8217;t<br \/>believe this kind of thing is possible until<br \/>it happens.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a story, post it below.<\/p>\n<p>I have to run and get ready. Catch you tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Your Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>P.S. Don&#8217;t forget to take a look through the <br \/>different programs I&#8217;ve put together&#8230; each one is designed <br \/>to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether<br \/>you have it or you are supporting someone with it. <br \/>You can see them all and get the details by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails <br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great <br \/>information for you:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give <br \/>mini seminars designed to teach you information <br \/>you can&#8217;t learn anywhere else.<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com\">http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>==Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/ever-make-this-huge-mistake-with-bipolar-disorder\/\" class=\"more-link pull-right\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Ever make this huge mistake with bipolar disorder? - Bipolar Supporter Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/ever-make-this-huge-mistake-with-bipolar-disorder\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Ever make this huge mistake with bipolar disorder? 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