{"id":5347,"date":"2007-12-23T11:13:00","date_gmt":"2007-12-23T16:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/problems-plumbing-and-bipolar-disorder\/"},"modified":"2007-12-23T11:13:00","modified_gmt":"2007-12-23T16:13:00","slug":"problems-plumbing-and-bipolar-disorder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/problems-plumbing-and-bipolar-disorder\/","title":{"rendered":"Problems, plumbing and bipolar disorder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>==>>Help with ALL aspects of bipolar disorder<<==<br \/>Check out all my resources, programs and information<br \/>for all aspects of bipolar disorder by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to share  this email I got, because<br \/>this woman talks about a real important<br \/>point I want to talk to you about.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Dave,<br \/>I want to tell you about something that<br \/>happened to me.  We recently had a really<br \/>bad plumbing problem, that was going to be<br \/>really, really expensive to fix, way more<br \/>money than we had in our savings account.<br \/>We just didn&#8217;t know what to do.  My first<br \/>reaction was to just sit there and cry and cry.<\/p>\n<p>All I wanted to do was go to bed and pull<br \/>the covers over my head and pretend that<br \/>the problem would go away by itself.  It <br \/>honestly felt like my bipolar disorder was<br \/>talking to me and telling me to do that!<\/p>\n<p>But then I remembered something you <br \/>said in one of your emails and in your<br \/>course.  You said we had to stand up to<br \/>our bipolar disorder, and not let it get the<br \/>best of us.  You talked about how it might<br \/>seem sometimes like the disorder would<br \/>actually &#8220;talk&#8221; to us, like it was an entity<br \/>of its own!  Well, that&#8217;s exactly what I<br \/>felt like!<\/p>\n<p>So I stood up to it, and I didn&#8217;t go up to<br \/>bed.  We checked with a few friends, and<br \/>found a couple guys who could fix the<br \/>problem without charging us, so all we<br \/>had to do was pay for parts, which was<br \/>less than we had in savings!<\/p>\n<p>So thanks to you for reminding me that<br \/>I could stand up to bipolar disorder like<br \/>it was outside of me, and I could solve<br \/>a problem without panicking and it<br \/>could work out \u2013 I didn&#8217;t have to<br \/>hide from it.<br \/>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you something.  This<br \/>woman really encourages me \u2013 I<br \/>hope she encourages you, too.  It&#8217;s<br \/>nice to know that something I said in<br \/>my emails and courses helped her,<br \/>because I know that in my courses I<br \/>do teach about standing up to bipolar<br \/>disorder and not letting it get the best<br \/>of you:<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com\">http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net\">http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The important thing is NOT to panic!<br \/>Try to reason out what to do in the <br \/>situation.  I know it sounds crazy, but <br \/>it IS true that sometimes you can actually<br \/>&#8220;hear&#8221; your bipolar talk to you \u2013 this<br \/>woman isn&#8217;t the only one I&#8217;ve had to<br \/>tell me the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>The point is, that if your bipolar had<br \/>its way, it would make you give up at<br \/>the first sign of a problem.  Then you<br \/>would always remain low functioning<br \/>and supporters would always be burned<br \/>out.<\/p>\n<p>The other point I wanted to make was<br \/>like the woman in the email said \u2013<br \/>being honest, that at first she did cry.<br \/>It&#8217;s ok to react honestly \u2013 you don&#8217;t<br \/>have to pretend to be superman or<br \/>superwoman.  It&#8217;s ok to have regular<br \/>human emotions!  You don&#8217;t have to<br \/>assume you are automatically going<br \/>into a bipolar episode!<\/p>\n<p>So you can react normally, as long as<br \/>you don&#8217;t panic.  Then you can think of<br \/>what to do.  Try to ignore what your<br \/>bipolar is telling you to do.  Fight it!<\/p>\n<p>A friend of mine uses an expression<br \/>called &#8220;doing the next right thing.&#8221;<br \/>Try to do that when faced with a<br \/>problem like this lady had.  Don&#8217;t let<br \/>the bipolar tell you that you are<br \/>defeated, just because the problem<br \/>seems bigger than you are.<\/p>\n<p>Try to stay positive, don&#8217;t panic, and<br \/>look for a solution to your problem.<br \/>Sometimes it will mean asking someone<br \/>else for help \u2013 which is something that<br \/>bipolar usually doesn&#8217;t want you to do, <br \/>is it?  <\/p>\n<p>If the disorder had its way, most<br \/>of you would be isolated.  So it&#8217;s hard<br \/>to fight that.  But you can do it!  If you<br \/>share your problem, you can usually<br \/>find help in solving it.  Use this lady&#8217;s<br \/>story as a positive example.<\/p>\n<p>Well, I&#8217;ve got to go.  Think about this,<br \/>so that the next time you&#8217;re faced<br \/>with a seemingly impossible situation,<br \/>you won&#8217;t panic and let the bipolar get<br \/>the best of you!<\/p>\n<p>Your friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<br \/>&#8211;<br \/>P.S. Don&#8217;t forget to take a look through the <br \/>different programs I&#8217;ve put together&#8230; each one is designed <br \/>to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether<br \/>you have it or you are supporting someone with it. <br \/>You can see them all and get the details by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails <br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great <br \/>information for you:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. 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