{"id":5293,"date":"2008-02-07T08:43:00","date_gmt":"2008-02-07T13:43:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/"},"modified":"2008-02-07T08:43:00","modified_gmt":"2008-02-07T13:43:00","slug":"bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/","title":{"rendered":"Bipolar Disorder and The 10-2 Equation Revealed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>=>PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <=\n\n<br \/>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>I need to talk to you about something<br \/>that is really bothering me.<\/p>\n<p>You know I get tons and tons of emails,<br \/>right?  Well a lot of them are positive<br \/>ones, and they make me feel really good,<br \/>like ones that tell me how much these<br \/>emails help them, and others on how <br \/>much they have learned from my courses<br \/>and stuff like that.<\/p>\n<p>Those are the emails I really like, and the<br \/>ones I&#8217;m used to, pretty much.  But then<br \/>there are the emails I get that really get<br \/>me down.  And I&#8217;m not a person who<br \/>likes to get down, or who gets down<br \/>easily.<\/p>\n<p>But I got this email, and this woman<br \/>went on and on and on about her<br \/>problems.  Now, don&#8217;t get me wrong \u2013<br \/>it&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t care about people&#8217;s<br \/>problems, because I wouldn&#8217;t be doing<br \/>what I&#8217;m doing if I didn&#8217;t care.  You<br \/>know that, right?<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s just that I deal in solutions.<br \/>That&#8217;s what I write about and teach in<br \/>all my courses, how to find solutions:<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com\">http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net\">http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The solutions, right?  Not dwelling<br \/>on the problems.  Those who have<br \/>gotten my courses know that that is the<br \/>type of person I am.  And so do you,<br \/>who are reading this email.  I don&#8217;t<br \/>dwell in the negative \u2013 I dwell on the<br \/>positive, and I expect the people who<br \/>are around me to dwell on the positive<br \/>as well.<\/p>\n<p>So I get really disappointed when they<br \/>don&#8217;t.  Like this email I got the other<br \/>day where this woman just went on and<br \/>on complaining, but didn&#8217;t offer any kind<br \/>of solution to the problems she was having.<\/p>\n<p>To tell you the truth, after reading that<br \/>email, I felt like I should have charged her<br \/>a consultant&#8217;s fee, like a psychiatrist would<br \/>do, just for reading (&#8220;listening to&#8221;) all her<br \/>complaints!<\/p>\n<p>Now again, I don&#8217;t want hate mail for this,<br \/>or people saying I don&#8217;t care, when you <br \/>know how much I do care.<\/p>\n<p>The point is, after all this positive email I<br \/>had read, this one negative email had the<br \/>power to bring me down.  Why?<\/p>\n<p>So I thought about it.  And I talked to<br \/>Michele about it.  And she told me about<br \/>this equation she used when she was <br \/>bringing up her kids:<\/p>\n<p>THE 10\/2 EQUATION:<\/p>\n<p>Regarding negative people \u2013 If you are<br \/>a 10 and they are a 2, and you hang <br \/>around with them, you will not bring<br \/>them up to an 8, they will bring you<br \/>down to a 4.<br \/>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>She used this in teaching her<br \/>children how to choose their friends<br \/>wisely.  But really, can&#8217;t you see <br \/>how it can be used in dealing with<br \/>bipolar disorder as well?<\/p>\n<p>Here, follow me with this, as I apply<br \/>it to the email I got.  I can either<br \/>surround myself with positive people<br \/>or negative people.<\/p>\n<p>Regarding the email I got, I am the 10<br \/>and she is the 2.  I could try to answer<br \/>her with positive answers, and try to<br \/>bring her up to an 8, but considering<br \/>how negative her email was, most<br \/>likely that won&#8217;t work, and she will<br \/>just succeed in bringing me down to <br \/>a 4 instead.<\/p>\n<p>See what she&#8217;s done already?  I&#8217;m<br \/>already bummed out about it, feeling<br \/>negative, letting it upset my day to<br \/>the point that I&#8217;m writing about it on<br \/>my blog and sharing it with you.<\/p>\n<p>OR\u2026\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>I can choose to stay a 10 on the <br \/>positivity scale in the 10\/2 Equation.<br \/>I can let that email go.  I can surround<br \/>myself with positive people.  I can<br \/>stay positive and NOT let negative<br \/>people bring me down.<\/p>\n<p>These are choices I can make.<\/p>\n<p>People like the lady in the email are<br \/>going to be negative no matter what.<br \/>They will try to get other people to<br \/>listen to them complain, but they are<br \/>not solution-oriented.  They just want<br \/>someone to buy into their negativity.<\/p>\n<p>But we don&#8217;t have to do that.  We are<br \/>TENS!  We have a choice!  We don&#8217;t<br \/>have to be brought down to 4&#8217;s if<br \/>we don&#8217;t want to!  We can surround<br \/>ourselves with positive people!<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of that, I&#8217;m going to the<br \/>gym and surround myself with positive<br \/>people who are taking care of their<br \/>bodies!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll talk to you tomorrow!<\/p>\n<p>Your friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. Want your own copy of these daily bipolar<br \/>emails sent to you for F.ree? If so, visit: <br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/register3\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/register3<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. Don&#8217;t forget to take a look through the <br \/>different programs I&#8217;ve put together&#8230; each one is designed <br \/>to help you with a different area of bipolar disorder whether<br \/>you have it or you are supporting someone with it. <br \/>You can see them all and get the details by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.P.S. Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails <br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great <br \/>information for you:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>P.P.P.P.S Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give <br \/>mini seminars designed to teach you information <br \/>you can&#8217;t learn anywhere else.<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com\">http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>=PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\" class=\"more-link pull-right\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Bipolar Disorder and The 10-2 Equation Revealed - Bipolar Supporter Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Bipolar Disorder and The 10-2 Equation Revealed - Bipolar Supporter Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"=PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES Continue Reading\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Bipolar Supporter Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2008-02-07T13:43:00+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"David Oliver\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"David Oliver\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"David Oliver\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/#\/schema\/person\/bdb1948c35c678d8a189cbe999dcad75\"},\"headline\":\"Bipolar Disorder and The 10-2 Equation Revealed\",\"datePublished\":\"2008-02-07T13:43:00+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2008-02-07T13:43:00+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\"},\"wordCount\":15,\"commentCount\":34,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/#\/schema\/person\/bdb1948c35c678d8a189cbe999dcad75\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\",\"name\":\"Bipolar Disorder and The 10-2 Equation Revealed - Bipolar Supporter Blog\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2008-02-07T13:43:00+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2008-02-07T13:43:00+00:00\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-the-10-2-equation-revealed\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Bipolar Disorder and The 10-2 Equation Revealed\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/\",\"name\":\"Bipolar Supporter Blog\",\"description\":\"With this blog, I want to keep all of you updated on important information about bipolar disorder and how it affects families. 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