{"id":5274,"date":"2008-02-26T08:18:00","date_gmt":"2008-02-26T13:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-warning-dont-fall-for-this\/"},"modified":"2008-02-26T08:18:00","modified_gmt":"2008-02-26T13:18:00","slug":"bipolar-disorder-warning-dont-fall-for-this","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-warning-dont-fall-for-this\/","title":{"rendered":"Bipolar Disorder Warning. Don&#8217;t fall for this."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>=>PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <=\n\n<br \/>Hi, <\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s new?<\/p>\n<p>I hope you are doing really well<br \/>today.<\/p>\n<p>You know, most of the time I get<br \/>emails that make me think I\u2019m doing<br \/>a lot of good out there, that a lot of people<br \/>are reading my emails and are learning from<br \/>them and are feeling positive towards me and<br \/>towards the emails.<\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019ve got to tell you, I got this one email<br \/>this week that made me wonder about all of<br \/>that.  Not as bad as wanting to shut down the<br \/>whole thing like I did that one time, but at<br \/>first, yeah, I did kind of feel down that bad,<br \/>thinking what am I doing, I\u2019m not really<br \/>helping anyone, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the email, so you can see for yourself<br \/>why I would feel that way:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I have become more informed about the <br \/>disease. It has also succeeded in<br \/>making me more frightened about taking <br \/>on a significant other with bi-polar<br \/>disorder. In your e-mails I do not gain alot <br \/>&#8220;of positives&#8221; and after researching your site, <br \/>I&#8217;ve become very upset and leery about continuing my<br \/>relationship.&#8221; &#8212; Andrea<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>I felt so bad after reading that email!  I mean,<br \/>I don\u2019t want to be responsible for her being<br \/>more afraid about taking on a significant other<br \/>with bipolar disorder, or becoming very upset<br \/>and leery about continuing her relationship.<\/p>\n<p>She also says that in my emails she doesn\u2019t<br \/>gain a lot of positives, even after researching<br \/>my site.  Now, this really bothers me, because<br \/>I always try to be uplifting and positive.<\/p>\n<p>So I wracked my brain to try to think of<br \/>what she was talking about, or how she<br \/>could have gotten this impression.<\/p>\n<p>The only thing I could think of is that<br \/>some of the things I talk about, yeah,<br \/>they can seem like they\u2019re negative<br \/>things, but that\u2019s only because I want<br \/>you to know the TRUTH, and sometimes<br \/>the truth, when you\u2019re talking about<br \/>bipolar disorder, can seem negative.<\/p>\n<p>But instead of thinking about it being<br \/>negative, like when I present them in <br \/>my courses, I present these issues as<br \/>being realistic, NOT negative:<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com\">http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net\">http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This isn\u2019t just in my courses and <br \/>systems, either.  It\u2019s in my emails,<br \/>as you know.  Like when I talked<br \/>about the Stockdale Paradox,<br \/>(I also talked about this in my <br \/>courses as well), where you hope<br \/>for the best but still be expected for<br \/>the worst, like another bipolar<br \/>episode.<\/p>\n<p>I have a friend that looks at it this <br \/>way:  You know the story about<br \/>the glass being half full\/half empty,<br \/>right?  If you see the glass as half<br \/>full, you\u2019re an optimist.  If you see<br \/>the glass as half empty, you\u2019re an<br \/>optimist.  Well, my friend says she<br \/>doesn\u2019t see the glass as half full OR<br \/>half empty \u2013 she just sees a half a<br \/>glass of water.  She is just a realist.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what I\u2019m talking about.  I\u2019m<br \/>not a negative person.  Far from it.<br \/>But I am a realist.  And I try to help<br \/>you to be a realist as well.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t begin to think I can help this<br \/>woman in the email with her personal<br \/>relationship \u2013 I\u2019m not a therapist, a<br \/>doctor, psychiatrist, or a marriage<br \/>counselor.  In fact, if I were to respond<br \/>to her at all, I would advise her to go<br \/>to one of those professionals.<\/p>\n<p>I would also remind her that every<br \/>case of bipolar disorder is different,<br \/>and I could not respond to her single<br \/>email and give advice, again, because<br \/>each case is different, so I just don\u2019t<br \/>do that.<\/p>\n<p>So, in my defense, and I hope you<br \/>would back me up on this, I am NOT<br \/>a negative person, and I try very hard<br \/>not to put negative stuff on my site or<br \/>on my emails \u2013 but I do print the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Now, sometimes on the website, like<br \/>when I print the news, well, I can\u2019t<br \/>help it that that might be negative.<br \/>But would you rather I didn\u2019t print<br \/>the news?<\/p>\n<p>The one thing I am is HONEST.<br \/>And sometimes that might come<br \/>across as negative, even though I don\u2019t<br \/>mean for it to be.  But would you<br \/>rather I sugar-coat the truth, or give<br \/>it to you honestly?<\/p>\n<p>Tell me, please, am I completely<br \/>wrong on this?  Am I misunder-<br \/>standing? Is this woman right <br \/>and I\u2019m wrong? I\u2019d really like to know.<\/p>\n<p>Just one last point that I would say<br \/>to this woman in my own defense.<br \/>If I were so negative against bipolar<br \/>disorder, would I have hired so many<br \/>people who have the disorder to work<br \/>for me?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d really like to know what you think<br \/>about this.<\/p>\n<p>Your Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>===>> Great Resources For You <===\n\nGet Your Own Subscription To This Newsletter<br \/>Want your own copy of these daily bipolar<br \/>emails sent to you for F.ree? If so, visit: <br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/register3\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/register3<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Get More Help On Bipolar Disorder<br \/>Don&#8217;t forget to take a look through the <br \/>different programs I&#8217;ve put together&#8230; each <br \/>one is designed to help you with a different <br \/>area of bipolar disorder whether you have it or<br \/>you are supporting someone with it. <br \/>You can see them all and get the details by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>View Past Daily Bipolar Emails For F.REE<br \/>Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails <br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great <br \/>information for you: <br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Get Audio Information On Bipolar Disorder For F.REE<br \/>Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give <br \/>mini seminars designed to teach you information <br \/>you can&#8217;t learn anywhere else.<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com\">http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>=PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES Great Resources For You <\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-disorder-warning-dont-fall-for-this\/\" class=\"more-link pull-right\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Bipolar Disorder Warning. 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