{"id":5255,"date":"2008-03-13T08:29:00","date_gmt":"2008-03-13T12:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/new-bipolar-lesson-from-my-moms-current-situation\/"},"modified":"2008-03-13T08:29:00","modified_gmt":"2008-03-13T12:29:00","slug":"new-bipolar-lesson-from-my-moms-current-situation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/new-bipolar-lesson-from-my-moms-current-situation\/","title":{"rendered":"New bipolar lesson from my mom&#8217;s current situation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>=>PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <=\n\nHi,\n\nHow&#8217;s it going?\n\n<br \/>I hope you are doing well.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to email you something really<br \/>important concerning my other email<br \/>that I sent yesterday about my mom.<\/p>\n<p>Let me sum up yesterday&#8217;s email.<\/p>\n<p>Basically I said that my mom sent me<br \/>an email saying she was feeling signs<br \/>of a manic episode coming on. As a result<br \/>she immediately called her therapist and<br \/>doctor and let them know.<\/p>\n<p>I told you how in the hold days, this would<br \/>never happen. Her manic signs would eventually<br \/>get worse and worse and worse. Eventually she<br \/>would go into a full scale manic episode.<\/p>\n<p>Then I told you how my mom emailed me back<br \/>and told me that her doctor changed her<br \/>bipolar medication.<\/p>\n<p>After that, I was flooded with emails from<br \/>people that said how excited they were that<\/p>\n<p>a) my mom is handling her bipolar disorder<br \/>herself.<\/p>\n<p>b) that my system\/courses really work.<\/p>\n<p>A person even posted:<\/p>\n<p> &#8220;Karen said&#8230; <br \/>Hi Dave,<br \/>You did it, your systems are so complete, you <br \/>really do have strategies for all the bipo brings. <br \/>I think I have been here like 6 months now and <br \/>one time it tricked you- I remember you were <br \/>kinda upset- it was a time for a tune up but you <br \/>were upset that it snuck up on your mom and you <br \/>did not catch it. <\/p>\n<p>When you figured out what was trying to happen <br \/>it seemed that bipo insulted you for even tryen. <br \/>Your system is that damn good. I was so relieved <br \/>when I first received the books I could tell just <br \/>by flippen through them that I would be able to <br \/>take control, educate myself through your hard work <br \/>and the bipo cling on that wanted your mom and <br \/>through your wars you did effectively learn how <br \/>to kick its ass. <\/p>\n<p>You are one of a kind, I would be most likely in <br \/>jail now, by the time they told me, iwas a extreemly <br \/>dangerous pissed-off bipo. Karen was gone, I <br \/>disasosiated and watched from above, I was <br \/>premeditating, playen with guns, had a mark, <br \/>target, someone the bipo was stalking, waiting <br \/>for the perfect time. <\/p>\n<p>The bipo refused to take meds. I think you emailed <br \/>me not sure for how many days- take the meds, <br \/>you were like a broken record, finally I did had <br \/>an allergic reaction thought i was going to <br \/>die but for the first time in my life my brain <br \/>started to quite down, wierd, I knew then I <br \/>was sick.<br \/>Thank you Dave, Karen&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>================<\/p>\n<p>Karen&#8217;s post on my blog below brings<br \/>up several important points.<\/p>\n<p>1. Sometime ago, my mom was stable and<br \/>then went unstable and bipolar did get<br \/>the best of us. <\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s is how I stopped that. After <br \/>EVERY episode, I did what I call a<br \/>PEA. What the heck is a PEA? I call<br \/>it a Post episode analysis. I told<br \/>my mom these were required and not optional.<br \/>She can either work with me or I do<br \/>them myself.<\/p>\n<p>I simply sit down with her bipolar<br \/>stability equation variables and look<br \/>to see which ones were &#8220;violated&#8221; <br \/>or &#8220;weak.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then I can figure out what potentially<br \/>led to the episode. I also look to figure<br \/>out what systems broke down or which<br \/>ones didn&#8217;t exist.<\/p>\n<p>2. Overtime I figured out how to improve<br \/>incrementally. Then I took this information<br \/>and rebuilt it back into my main courses\/<br \/>systems below:<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/>http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/p>\n<p>Or in some cases, I built them into a<br \/>separate course. <\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I wanted to say something else.<\/p>\n<p>Many people were excited that my mom picked<br \/>up the phone and called her therapist and<br \/>doctor. The fact the therapist and doctor<br \/>acted fast and changed my mom&#8217;s treatment<br \/>plan.<\/p>\n<p>People were excited. Amazed like me. <\/p>\n<p>Want to know the one thing that I have<br \/>learned about this situation? Let me<br \/>ask you a question. What could go <br \/>wrong?<\/p>\n<p>I want you to think long and hard. This is<br \/>a test. Don&#8217;t worry I can&#8217;t grade you and<br \/>send a report card home to you.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, what&#8217;s the one thing that I MUST<br \/>watch out for now? What&#8217;s the danger?<\/p>\n<p>Think about it and then scroll down&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>NO CHEATING. Think then scroll&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Did you think of something? Scroll down&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>My mom&#8217;s medication and treatment was changed. SO,<br \/>even though it was from her doctor and therapist.<br \/>It\u2019s possible that this change could, and I repeat<br \/>could make things worse. It&#8217;s not probable but<br \/>it&#8217;s possible. <\/p>\n<p>Also, my mom could have a new side effect. My mom<br \/>AND dad (I already called and quizzed him, he hates<br \/>when I do that especially when I email the results<br \/>out to all you guys) are prepared for problems<br \/>in this area. My mom is going to report any additional<br \/>problems right away in her worksheet that we<br \/>have (same on in the bipolar success course above)<br \/>and my dad is on standby to monitor any signs<br \/>or symptoms or side effects. <\/p>\n<p>He has instructions what to do in the worst<br \/>case scenario.<\/p>\n<p>I am out of the picture and only would step<br \/>in under an extreme circumstance. In my mom<br \/>own mind I run &#8220;the worst case scenario.&#8221;<br \/>Which would be, my mom gets way worse goes<br \/>into a totally out of control manic episode<br \/>and bipolar just overwhelms my dad. This is<br \/>not probable but is possible. <\/p>\n<p>I have a plan if it happens. I am 100%<br \/>convinced that I could easily handle the situation<br \/>if it did get this bad. I doubt it will but<br \/>I have a plan.<\/p>\n<p>Hey, I have to run. Catch you tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Your Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>===>> Great Resources For You <===\n\nGet Your Own Subscription To This Newsletter<br \/>Want your own copy of these daily bipolar<br \/>emails sent to you for F.ree? If so, visit: <br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/register3<\/p>\n<p>Get More Help On Bipolar Disorder<br \/>Don&#8217;t forget to take a look through the <br \/>different programs I&#8217;ve put together&#8230; each <br \/>one is designed to help you with a different <br \/>area of bipolar disorder whether you have it or<br \/>you are supporting someone with it. <br \/>You can see them all and get the details by visiting:<br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/p>\n<p>View Past Daily Bipolar Emails For F.REE<br \/>Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails <br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great <br \/>information for you: <br \/>http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/p>\n<p>Get Audio Information On Bipolar Disorder For F.REE<br \/>Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give <br \/>mini seminars designed to teach you information <br \/>you can&#8217;t learn anywhere else.<br \/>http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>=PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES Great Resources For You <\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/new-bipolar-lesson-from-my-moms-current-situation\/\" class=\"more-link pull-right\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>New bipolar lesson from my mom&#039;s current situation - Bipolar Supporter Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/new-bipolar-lesson-from-my-moms-current-situation\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"New bipolar lesson from my mom&#039;s current situation - 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