{"id":5216,"date":"2008-04-14T08:28:00","date_gmt":"2008-04-14T12:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/please-help-and-the-real-truth-about-bipolar-disorder\/"},"modified":"2008-04-14T08:28:00","modified_gmt":"2008-04-14T12:28:00","slug":"please-help-and-the-real-truth-about-bipolar-disorder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/please-help-and-the-real-truth-about-bipolar-disorder\/","title":{"rendered":"Please help and The Real Truth About Bipolar Disorder."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>=>PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <=\n\nHi,\n\nHow&#8217;s it going?\n\nI need your help read on please.\n\nI hope you are doing well.\n\nI just got back from the gym.\n\nYesterday was a really difficult day for me.<br \/>I had a whole lot of problems with a bunch of people<br \/>that work for me. I don&#8217;t know why but yesterday<br \/>was probably the worst day ever in terms<br \/>of different people&#8217;s different disorders<br \/>all creating problems on the same day.<\/p>\n<p>Hopefully everyone will be okay today.<\/p>\n<p>I did however get sucked into wasting a<br \/>whole lot of time arguing with several <br \/>people about absolutely nothing.<\/p>\n<p>I guess I kind of forgot about the nature<br \/>of the illnesses that I am up against.<\/p>\n<p>With now 12 people who work for me that<br \/>have bipolar disorder, I do have to remember<br \/>this.<\/p>\n<p>One of the most difficult things with bipolar<br \/>disorder is that the disorder causes people<br \/>to do and say things that will ultimately<br \/>lead to their demise. It&#8217;s really strange<br \/>when you think of it. There is no other<br \/>disorder outside of a mental illness where<br \/>the illness or disorder causes a person<br \/>to say things and persuade people into<br \/>things that will cause total destruction.<\/p>\n<p>Even though it&#8217;s difficult, I continue<br \/>to hire those with bipolar disorder and remember<br \/>the good and try to forget the bad. <\/p>\n<p>Just because yesterday was one of the worst<br \/>days ever, this mean that I get all mad and<br \/>throw my hands up in the air and quit. <br \/>No. I actually spent a lot of time reflecting<br \/>on what went wrong yesterday and how I got<br \/>sucked into arguing. It will NOT happen again.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, with that said, on Thursday, just so<br \/>you know, I am going to California on a business<br \/>trip. I have a whole lot of work to do<br \/>across several of my businesses and also <br \/>specifically with this organization for helping<br \/>people dealing with a mental illness. I have<br \/>to meet with several people.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I am leaving on Thursday.<\/p>\n<p>            PLEASE HELP ME<\/p>\n<p>I need some help.<\/p>\n<p>I am looking for people that are in something<br \/>called Ticket To Work.<\/p>\n<p>If you are, please email me your experience&#8211;<br \/>how&#8217;s it going, how you like it, has it helped.<\/p>\n<p>Email me at feedbacktodave@mentalhealthworld.net<\/p>\n<p>If you have no idea what I am talking about, just<br \/>ignore this.<\/p>\n<p>If you know anyone, please forward this email to<br \/>them.<\/p>\n<p>Okay let&#8217;s move on. I brought up this<br \/>topic before and since a lot of people<br \/>are writing me with problems, I wanted<br \/>to bring it up again.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I reread something I read when I am having<br \/>a hard time.  It&#8217;s by M. Scott<br \/>Peck, M.D., from the book The Road Less<br \/>Traveled.  The thing about it is that it was<br \/>written in 1978, but it is still as true<br \/>today as it was back then:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Life is difficult.  This is a great truth,<br \/>one of the greatest truths.  It is a great truth <br \/>because once we truly see this truth, we<br \/>transcend it.  Once we truly know that life<br \/>is difficult \u2013 once we truly understand and <br \/>accept it \u2013 then life is no longer difficult.  <br \/>Because once it is accepted, the fact that <br \/>life is difficult no longer matters.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Wow!  Don&#8217;t you think that&#8217;s powerful?<br \/>I sure do.<\/p>\n<p>Especially when you&#8217;re living with<br \/>bipolar disorder.  Just living life in<br \/>general is difficult enough, but when<br \/>you throw bipolar disorder into the<br \/>mix, it can seem practically impossible<br \/>sometimes, doesn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve talked about truth and bipolar<br \/>disorder before, but not in this way.<br \/>What Dr. Peck is talking about is<br \/>accepting truth in such a way as to<br \/>rise above it once we understand it<br \/>and accept it.<\/p>\n<p>So the key is to accept the truth,<br \/>Like accepting the truth of having<br \/>bipolar disorder, because once you<br \/>do, the next thing you have to do<br \/>is learn all you can about it, so you<br \/>have the knowledge you need to<br \/>rise above it \u2013 to make that<br \/>knowledge work for you, instead<br \/>of against you.  In fact, that&#8217;s<br \/>one of the things that I teach<br \/>in my courses\/systems:<\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com\">http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>Visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net\">http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I like the way Dr. Peck says that<br \/>once we truly  understand and accept<br \/>that life is difficult, then life is no<br \/>longer difficult.  I mean, he doesn&#8217;t<br \/>say that anything changes or anything,<br \/>I mean nothing changes in your life<br \/>except your attitude towards it!<\/p>\n<p>Just like I&#8217;m always telling you \u2013<br \/>It&#8217;s always in the way you look at<br \/>things \u2013 you can look at them in a<br \/>negative way (then you&#8217;re defeated)<br \/>or in a positive way (then you&#8217;re<br \/>positive and proactive).<\/p>\n<p>If you believe that your life is<br \/>a mess just because you or a loved<br \/>one has bipolar disorder and it has<br \/>just ruined your life, then you will<br \/>become a self-fulfilling prophecy,<br \/>and bipolar disorder probably will<br \/>ruin your life.<\/p>\n<p>But if you look at it as a challenge,<br \/>that you&#8217;re going to overcome,<br \/>look at it like you are going to beat<br \/>it, no matter what, then that will be<br \/>your self-fulfilling prophecy, and<br \/>you will beat the bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n<p>I think what Dr. Peck is saying is<br \/>that YOU are responsible for how<br \/>you look at life.  You have a<br \/>CHOICE.  You can look at it like<br \/>it&#8217;s really difficult, or you can look<br \/>at the very same life and understand<br \/>and accept it and life is no longer as<br \/>difficult as you thought it was.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the way you need to look at<br \/>your or your loved one&#8217;s disorder.<\/p>\n<p>As Dr. Peck says, &#8220;[then] the fact that <br \/>life is difficult no longer matters.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What do you think?  Do you agree<br \/>with him or not?<\/p>\n<p>When I started this organization, I really<br \/>didn&#8217;t realize how hard it was going to be to<br \/>build. It&#8217;s been a massive project. I can see<br \/>why no one else has done it. Even drug companies<br \/>with millions upon millions of dollars to invest<br \/>in things, haven&#8217;t been able to figure out how<br \/>to reach and help as many people as me.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been difficult. I constantly remind myself<br \/>that life is really difficult and you have to<br \/>deal with it. Agree?<\/p>\n<p>Your Friend,<\/p>\n<p>Dave<\/p>\n<p>===>> Great Resources For You <===\n\nGet Your Own Subscription To This Newsletter<br \/>Want your own copy of these daily bipolar<br \/>emails sent to you for F.ree? If so, visit:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/register3\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/register3<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Get More Help On Bipolar Disorder<br \/>Don&#8217;t forget to take a look through the<br \/>different programs I&#8217;ve put together&#8230; each<br \/>one is designed to help you with a different<br \/>area of bipolar disorder whether you have it or<br \/>you are supporting someone with it.<br \/>You can see them all and get the details by visiting:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/catalog.asp<\/a><\/p>\n<p>View Past Daily Bipolar Emails For F.REE<br \/>Check out my F.ree blog with copies of emails<br \/>that I have sent in the past and lots of great<br \/>information for you:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/\">http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/supporterblog\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Get Audio Information On Bipolar Disorder For F.REE<br \/>Check out my F.ree podcast. Hear me give<br \/>mini seminars designed to teach you information<br \/>you can&#8217;t learn anywhere else.<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com\">http:\/\/bipolarcentral.libsyn.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>=PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES Great Resources For You <\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/please-help-and-the-real-truth-about-bipolar-disorder\/\" class=\"more-link pull-right\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Please help and The Real Truth About Bipolar Disorder. - Bipolar Supporter Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/please-help-and-the-real-truth-about-bipolar-disorder\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Please help and The Real Truth About Bipolar Disorder. - 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