=>PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES <=\n\nHi,\n\nHow’s it going?\n\nBad day for me. \n\nI seriously have like 5 people with bipolar disorder
driving me insane on my list. They
email, call, email, call, email call. Each is
making things up that is beyond comprehension.<\/p>\n
Even worse 30% of the time, some of them
are happy then mad. It alternates. <\/p>\n
2 of them wanted to work for me? What
a strange thing.<\/p>\n
What a week.<\/p>\n
Sadly I see why so many people in this field
throw in the towel and go into other fields
with far less grief.<\/p>\n
I also see why the turn over in organizations
that help those with these type of illnesses
is massive.<\/p>\n
Anyway, I have to take off for a meeting.<\/p>\n
Before I do, I wanted to talk about today’s
topic.<\/p>\n
Here is a simple truth for you:<\/p>\n
LIFE IS NOT AN EMERGENCY!<\/p>\n
I’ve had hundreds of people who have
written or called me and they are so upset
and there is so much drama surrounding
them that you would think that to them,
life is an emergency! But as they go on
with their story, I see\/hear that it is only
an emergency to them.<\/p>\n
These people come to me for advice, but
they are so upset and so caught up in their
stories and what is going on in their lives
and their or their loved one’s bipolar disorder,
that they don’t even let me get a word in
edgewise. <\/p>\n
Now, I’m just a third party, so of course,
whatever they’re telling me is not an
emergency for me. But even though they
wrote or called me for advice, they can’t get it,
because they won’t even stop long enough
to listen to me! <\/p>\n
These people remind me of the Type A
personalities we hear of in business who
work 80 hours a week, who are so driven,
who have such high expectations, that if
they don’t meet that 80 hour work week,
that they have failed in some way. They
are always walking around like a chicken
with it’s head cut off, afraid that everything
won’t get done, because to them, everything
is an emergency!<\/p>\n
I had a supporter who called me who was
like that. She was so upset over her inability
to be perfect that her doctor had prescribed
her anti-anxiety medicine. She was acting
(and feeling) like there was a gun pointed
at her head and the sniper was demanding
that everything she did as a supporter had
to be perfect \u2013 or else! Again, the silent
assumption was, this is an emergency!
The truth was, no one other than her had
created the pressure she was experiencing.<\/p>\n
The truth is that:<\/p>\n
LIFE IS NOT AN EMERGENCY!<\/p>\n
In my courses\/systems, I talk about and
teach ways to lower the stress in your
life, and that is a very important thing
to learn when you’re dealing with
bipolar disorder:<\/p>\n
SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER? SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER? HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER? I’m not saying that some of us Sometimes we take our own goals The first step in becoming a less John Lennon said, “Life is what You need to cut yourself some Practice what you’ve learned, You just don’t have to make All that’s important is that you do This way, you can learn to live LIFE IS NOT AN EMERGENCY!<\/p>\n Your Friend,<\/p>\n Dave<\/p>\n ===>> Great Resources For You <===\n\nGet Your Own Subscription To This Newsletter Get More Help On Bipolar Disorder View Past Daily Bipolar Emails For F.REE Get Audio Information On Bipolar Disorder For F.REE =PLEASE FORWARD TO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES Great Resources For You <\/p>\n
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have never done it, sometimes
we’ve jumped to conclusions
before getting all the facts, and
maybe overreacted, making an
emergency out of something that
wasn’t, but not all the time!<\/p>\n
so seriously that we forget to have
fun along the way, and we forget
to cut ourselves some slack. We
take simple things and turn them
into conditions for our own
happiness. Or, we beat ourselves
up if we can’t meet our self-created
deadlines. <\/p>\n
stressed person is to have the
humility to admit that, in most
cases, you’re creating your own
emergencies. Life will usually
go on if things don’t go according
to plan. <\/p>\n
happens when you’re making other
plans.” I’m sure he would have
agreed that life is NOT an emergency.<\/p>\n
slack. Remember that your goal is
to stay relaxed, to not get too
worked up or concerned about how
you are doing. As long as you’re
trying your best to be a good
supporter, then that’s all that
matters. No one is a perfect
supporter all the time.<\/p>\n
keep your strategies in mind,
and don’t worry about being perfect.
There will be many times when you
lose it, when you revert to being
uptight, frustrated, stressed, and
reactive \u2013 get used to it.
When you do, it’s ok. Life is a
process \u2013 just one thing after another.
When you lose it, just start again.
It doesn’t mean that it has to be
an emergency, though!<\/p>\n
little setbacks into large
emergencies \u2013 cut yourself
some slack. Look at your
mistakes as learning experiences,
not emergencies.<\/p>\n
your best and that you are moving
in the right direction. Keep your
perspective, be the best supporter
you can be, and eventually your
loved one will respond to your
support and will be able to mange
their bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n
with your own imperfection,
give yourself a break, stop
trying to be perfect, and
remember that:<\/p>\n
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