Hi, how are you doing? Hope you\u2019re doing ok.<\/p>\n
Today I want to talk about something we don\u2019t usually think about, and that\u2019s the GOOD that can come out of a bipolar episode.<\/p>\n
I know, you\u2019re probably sitting there right now thinking, \u201cDave\u2019s really lost his mind this time!\u201d But really, it\u2019s true! Depending on how you look at it, there ARE some good things that can come out of a bipolar episode.<\/p>\n
You just have to look at it objectively, which I know is really hard to do, but try it with me. Ok, let\u2019s think about this as if you were someone else looking in on your situation. They might see two people, one of which is really sick. And they would see one of those people (the supporter) trying to help the other person. Well, that\u2019s an admirable thing, isn\u2019t it? A positive thing? Ok, see where I\u2019m headed with this thing?<\/p>\n
So, let\u2019s try to think of a few more examples. A bipolar episode is a very heavy thing, and can sometimes go on for some time. So, by having to \u201clive it,\u201d it can the two of you closer together, just by having to \u201cfight it out\u201d together, by having to depend on each other.<\/p>\n
A bipolar episode can also \u201cweed out\u201d bad friends \u2013 it\u2019s a time when you really find out who your real friends are, isn\u2019t it? You find out who you can really depend on, instead of just \u201cfair-weather\u201d friends who say they\u2019ll be there for you, but aren\u2019t there when it comes down to it.<\/p>\n
One good thing about how one good thing about a bipolar episode is how it can force yourself to get more serious about your treatment, so that\u2019s another good thing:<\/p>\n
Another good thing about a bipolar episode is that it can show you where your treatment is failing you. It can help you see where maybe your medication needs to be adjusted, where maybe you weren\u2019t seeing that before.<\/p>\n
Mostly, what I\u2019m trying to get you to see is that you can either have a negative view or a positive view toward the bipolar episode. Having a positive view, you can make the episode work FOR you, by examining it, and trying to look for the good points to it.<\/p>\n
Face it, the episode may happen no matter what you do to try to stop it. You may as well put a positive spin to it. This is one way you can master the disorder instead of it mastering you, which is another good thing.<\/p>\n
Another thing you can do is what I call a “Post Episode Analysis.” With this, once you or your loved one is out of the episode and is rational again, you sit down and talk about it.<\/p>\n
What caused it? What could each of you have done differently? What can you do to prevent it from happening again? What can you do to keep the stress levels down? How can you work together for your loved one to maintain stability? Where do you need to work on your relationship? How can you improve things in your financial situation (which is a means of stress for many people with bipolar disorder and their supporters).<\/p>\n
Is your communication working? How can you make your communication work better?<\/p>\n
What I’m saying is to sit down after an episode and discuss these things (and any others that you can come up with) and how you can keep them from happening again.<\/p>\n
Well, I have to go!<\/p>\n
Your Friend,<\/p>\n
Dave<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hi, how are you doing? Hope you\u2019re doing ok.<\/p>\n
Today I want to talk about something we don\u2019t usually think about, and that\u2019s the GOOD that can come out of a bipolar episode.<\/p>\n
I know, you\u2019re probably sitting there right now thinking, \u201cDave\u2019s really lost his mind this time!\u201d But really, it\u2019s true! Depending on how you look at it, there ARE some good things that can come out of a bipolar episode.<\/p>\n