{"id":2094,"date":"2009-08-11T09:37:11","date_gmt":"2009-08-11T13:37:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/?p=2094"},"modified":"2009-08-11T09:37:11","modified_gmt":"2009-08-11T13:37:11","slug":"bipolar-to-blame-or-not-to-blame%e2%80%a6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-to-blame-or-not-to-blame%e2%80%a6\/","title":{"rendered":"Bipolar? To Blame or Not to Blame\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hi,<\/p>\n

How are you today?<\/p>\n

I hope you’re doing fine.<\/p>\n

Have you ever known a real complainer?<\/p>\n

The type of person who has nothing good to say about anyone or anything?<\/p>\n

Who couldn’t get along with anyone? (or at least not for very long, before they became critical of them).<\/p>\n

Who would say things like, “Life isn’t fair.”<\/p>\n

Or that someone else wasn’t fair to them, or they were in an unfair situation.<\/p>\n

Someone who always blamed everyone else or everything else.<\/p>\n

Who had a lot of unsolved problems?<\/p>\n

Did it seem to you that they might be their own biggest problem?<\/p>\n

I know someone like that.<\/p>\n

My friend’s ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n

Now, I’m not a doctor, and I can’t diagnose anyone, but in my opinion, this girl showed every sign of having bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n

She had terrible mood swings, for one thing, and that was obvious, even to someone who didn’t know anything about bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n

She called me once to complain about my friend.<\/p>\n

At first she talked like she really loved him, but the next minute she was blaming him for all her<\/p>\n

problems.<\/p>\n

Not just that, but she keeps getting into trouble in all aspects of her life \u2013<\/p>\n

Her family, friends, co-workers, etc. \u2013 she has conflicts with them all.<\/p>\n

They think there is something wrong with her, but she denies it, blaming everything on them.<\/p>\n

But think about it.<\/p>\n

Do you think everyone else is wrong and that she is the only one who is right?<\/p>\n

It usually doesn’t work like that.<\/p>\n

If that’s the case, if everyone else is saying the same thing, she should stop and listen to them.<\/p>\n

They can’t all be wrong.<\/p>\n

Maybe they don’t know if she has bipolar disorder or not, but they do know that something is wrong with her.<\/p>\n

Otherwise she wouldn’t have all the problems that she has.<\/p>\n

But she is in denial, for sure.<\/p>\n

In my courses\/systems, I talk about denial and what you can do about it:<\/p>\n

SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<\/p>\n

Visit:<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n

SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<\/p>\n

Visit:<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n

HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<\/p>\n

Visit:<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><\/p>\n

You may have faced this with your loved one, at least in the beginning.<\/p>\n

Many people with bipolar disorder will be in denial when they’re first diagnosed.<\/p>\n

They would rather blame someone or something else.<\/p>\n

Like they would say it’s just stress from work that’s making them act this way.<\/p>\n

Or, if it weren’t for [whoever], I wouldn’t act this way.<\/p>\n

That’s blaming, and it NEVER helps someone with bipolar disorder to get better.<\/p>\n

In order to get better, you have to stop blaming other people and other things for your own problems.<\/p>\n

If you are having conflicts with most of the other people in your life, you have to consider that the problem is YOU, and not them.<\/p>\n

You can’t change anyone else, but you can change yourself.<\/p>\n

If you or your loved one are already on medication, but you’re still having too many problems, you may need a medication adjustment.<\/p>\n

If you suspect this is the case, then you need to contact your doctor.<\/p>\n

You may not have even been noticing these things about yourself, but other people have been pointing them out to you.<\/p>\n

If so, you probably need help, because they can’t all be wrong and you be right.<\/p>\n

Have you noticed the things I’ve talked about happening in your own life?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hi,<\/p>\n

How are you today?<\/p>\n

I hope you’re doing fine.<\/p>\n

Have you ever known a real complainer?<\/p>\n

The type of person who has nothing good to say about anyone or anything?<\/p>\n

Who couldn’t get along with anyone? (or at least not for very long, before they became critical of them).<\/p>\n

Who would say things like, “Life isn’t fair.”<\/p>\n

Or that someone else wasn’t fair to them,<\/p>\n

Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nBipolar? To Blame or Not to Blame\u2026 - Bipolar Supporter Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-to-blame-or-not-to-blame\u2026\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Bipolar? To Blame or Not to Blame\u2026 - Bipolar Supporter Blog\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Hi, How are you today? I hope you’re doing fine. Have you ever known a real complainer? The type of person who has nothing good to say about anyone or anything? 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