Hi,<\/p>\n
I wanted to send out a quick story of something that just happened to me.<\/p>\n
I was thinking of this story because of the resource that I sent out…<\/p>\n
“How to Instantly Deal With Anger, Irrationality,<\/p>\n
And Mania In Your Loved One with Bipolar Disorder”<\/p>\n
Located here:<\/p>\n
http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/specialoffer\/dealwithanger<\/p>\n
Here’s the story.<\/p>\n
Okay, I had this person working for me. This person was doing a great job. I mean a great job.<\/p>\n
All of a sudden this person started acting really weird. They would EXPLODE for nothing.<\/p>\n
A few times they cursed me out. A couple of times they hung up on me.<\/p>\n
It was disturbing. I kept wondering what the heck is wrong with them. It’s important to note this person is NOT a person on my staff that is known to have a mental illness.<\/p>\n
Anyway, time went by and I noticed that the problems with this person went from me to others on my team.<\/p>\n
It got worse and worse.<\/p>\n
Each time, I tried to figure out how we could avoid making the person mad. Guess what? The more we tried the more mad the person became.<\/p>\n
One day after being yelled at, I realized that my strategy of walking on egg shells and trying to keep the peace would not work and basically I was making things far worse.<\/p>\n
I realized that I was violating my own rules.<\/p>\n
So I decided to follow my own suggestions for dealing with someone that has bipolar disorder that is angry and manic most of the time.<\/p>\n
I did and the results have been great. No more problems. It’s kind of odd that I forgot to follow my own system.<\/p>\n
Well it’s not kind of odd, it’s easy to get caught up and forget what you have been trained to do with someone who is acting out in this nature.<\/p>\n
I don’t know what illness this person has. I am not sure. But something is wrong so I went ahead and treated the person like a person who had an illness like bipolar disorder and was out of control.<\/p>\n
The reason why I am writing this to you is because my situation reminds me of what so many bipolar supporters do:<\/p>\n
-They try to keep the peace<\/p>\n
-They walk on egg shells<\/p>\n
-They try in every single way and many unreasonable<\/p>\n
ways to avoid conflict<\/p>\n
-They try to change themselves.<\/p>\n
This is ALL wrong. ALL wrong. It doesn’t work. There are MANY strategies that work but these do NOT.<\/p>\n
This will not work. I know there are thousands of people on my list making this mistake every day.<\/p>\n
Don’t do it.<\/p>\n
If you need help in this area, I have a resource titled:<\/p>\n
“How to Instantly Deal With Anger, Irrationality,<\/p>\n
And Mania In Your Loved One with Bipolar Disorder”<\/p>\n
Located:<\/p>\n
http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/specialoffer\/dealwithanger<\/p>\n
If you need it, get it. Nevertheless, I have to run and I will catch you tomorrow morning.<\/p>\n
Have a good one.<\/p>\n
Dave<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hi,<\/p>\n
I wanted to send out a quick story of something that just happened to me.<\/p>\n
I was thinking of this story because of the resource that I sent out…<\/p>\n
“How to Instantly Deal With Anger, Irrationality,<\/p>\n
And Mania In Your Loved One with Bipolar Disorder”<\/p>\n
Located here:<\/p>\n
http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/specialoffer\/dealwithanger<\/p>\n
Here’s the story.<\/p>\n
Okay, I had this person working for me.<\/p>\n