{"id":1612,"date":"2009-04-07T09:51:27","date_gmt":"2009-04-07T13:51:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarcentral.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/?p=1612"},"modified":"2009-04-07T10:00:43","modified_gmt":"2009-04-07T14:00:43","slug":"bipolar-supporter-imagine-what-it-would-be-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-supporter-imagine-what-it-would-be-like\/","title":{"rendered":"Bipolar Supporter?  Imagine What It Would Be Like"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s it going?<\/p>\n<p>This guy at support group was talking to me the other day, and the conversation went something like this:<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  I&#8217;m so tired of dealing with my wife.<\/p>\n<p>ME:  Why?<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  Well, she never does anything.<\/p>\n<p>ME:  What do you mean?<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  She never gets out of bed.<\/p>\n<p>ME:  Do you think maybe she&#8217;s depressed?<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  What does she have to be depressed about?  Now me, I have a lot to be depressed about!<\/p>\n<p>ME:  Well, maybe if you talked to her&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>HIM: (cutting me off) Why should I talk to her?<\/p>\n<p>ME:  Communication is very important if you&#8217;re going to  be a good supporter.<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  Well, I come to these meetings, don&#8217;t I?  That shows support.<\/p>\n<p>Well, needless to say, I tried to tell him about what being a good supporter means, like I talk about in my courses\/systems:<br \/>\nNEW<br \/>\nLEARN THE SECRETS OF THE MOST SUCCESSFUL WITH<br \/>\nBIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarmastersystem\/\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarmastersystem\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING AN ADULT WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>\nVisit:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11\">http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/report11<\/a><\/p>\n<p>SUPPORTING A CHILD\/TEEN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>\nVisit:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com\">http:\/\/www.bipolarparenting.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>HAVE BIPOLAR DISORDER?<br \/>\nVisit:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net\">http:\/\/www.survivebipolar.net<\/a><br \/>\nBut he didn&#8217;t seem to want to listen to what his side of things should be as a supporter to a wife with bipolar disorder.  He just wanted to complain about her.<\/p>\n<p>So this really made me think.<\/p>\n<p>And I want you to do something today:<\/p>\n<p>I want you to use your imagination.<\/p>\n<p>Remember the old saying about how you can never judge a person until you&#8217;ve walked a mile in their shoes?<\/p>\n<p>Well, today I want you to walk a mile in your loved one&#8217;s shoes.<\/p>\n<p>I just want you to imagine it.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine you&#8217;ve been told you have a disorder &#8211; a disease, if you will.<\/p>\n<p>Only there&#8217;s no cure for this disease.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s in your brain, not your body.<\/p>\n<p>So it&#8217;s a hidden disorder.<\/p>\n<p>And you&#8217;ll have to take medication for it.  Every day.  For the rest of your life.<\/p>\n<p>Then you find out that there are side effects to the medication, and some of them aren&#8217;t very fun.  In fact, some of them you don&#8217;t like at all, but you have to put up with them, because the medication helps you to get better.<\/p>\n<p>Now imagine this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re life is completely different than it once was.<\/p>\n<p>You have bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t work, and you&#8217;re probably on disability now, so you have less money than you used to have.  Your income is substantially lower.  You feel so much less productive.<\/p>\n<p>Your mood swings are horrible.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you feel so sad, so helpless and hopeless&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And other times you feel as if you could conquer the world.<\/p>\n<p>The only problem is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You never know which mood you&#8217;re going to be in, and when the moods are going to change.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine living with that kind of fear, that kind of doubt.<\/p>\n<p>Now you have a doctor, a psychiatrist, and a therapist that you didn&#8217;t have before.  And you have to see each of them on a regular basis.  You probably hardly ever even went to the doctor before this!  I mean, only when you were sick, or for your yearly flu shot.<\/p>\n<p>Now it feels like you&#8217;re always going to some kind of appointment.<\/p>\n<p>Ah, but you have your supporter.<\/p>\n<p>Bless your supporter, who understands what you go through.<\/p>\n<p>Or do they?<\/p>\n<p>Imagine what it would be like to be your loved one&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Can you imagine now what your loved has gone through with their bipolar disorder?<\/p>\n<p>Can you imagine now what they go through every day?<\/p>\n<p>David Oliver is the author of the shocking guide \u201cBipolar Disorder\u2014The REAL Silent Killer.\u201d  <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hypertracker.com\/go\/Post\/BP_Kills_BlogAd\/\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Click Here<\/span><\/a><\/strong> to get <strong>FREE Information<\/strong> sent via email on how and why bipolar disorder kills.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi,<\/p>\n<p>How&#8217;s it going?<\/p>\n<p>This guy at support group was talking to me the other day, and the conversation went something like this:<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  I&#8217;m so tired of dealing with my wife.<\/p>\n<p>ME:  Why?<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  Well, she never does anything.<\/p>\n<p>ME:  What do you mean?<\/p>\n<p>HIM:  She never gets out of bed.<\/p>\n<p>ME:  Do you think maybe she&#8217;s depressed?<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bipolarsupporter.com\/bipolarsupporterblog\/bipolar-supporter-imagine-what-it-would-be-like\/\" class=\"more-link pull-right\" rel=\"bookmark\">Continue Reading<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Bipolar Supporter? 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